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Old 10-15-2013, 08:55 PM   #21
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As long as he's asked for it. Sorry you have found yourself involved, though.
This whole thing does bring up a good point though, if your girl cheated on you (once) a long time ago and one day just tells you, what would you do?
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:03 PM   #22
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This whole thing does bring up a good point though, if your girl cheated on you (once) a long time ago and one day just tells you, what would you do?
I'd learn to get over it. We have waaaayy too much history to let something like that get between us at this point.

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Old 10-15-2013, 10:40 PM   #23
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Coming from a girl, it's not technically cheating. When I say technically, I mean it is in a way... it's the beginning stages and it will only get worse, unfortunately. If she were completely happy in the current relationship, then she wouldn't feel the need to talk to another guy, ESPECIALLY one she engaged sexual intercourse with.

Holy f... did I say engage sexual intercourse. I did. That was weird.
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Old 10-16-2013, 06:03 AM   #24
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Coming from a girl, it's not technically cheating. When I say technically, I mean it is in a way... it's the beginning stages and it will only get worse, unfortunately. If she were completely happy in the current relationship, then she wouldn't feel the need to talk to another guy, ESPECIALLY one she engaged sexual intercourse with.

Holy f... did I say engage sexual intercourse. I did. That was weird.
It's emotional cheating. Cheating is whatever a person perceives it to be.


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Old 10-16-2013, 09:25 AM   #25
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It's emotional cheating. Cheating is whatever a person perceives it to be.


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Exactly right. I've had female friends tell me kissing a guy while drunk isn't cheating. I think most people would disagree. If I had a gf that was telling ex's that she missed the sex they had I would feel like a piece of sh1t. That girl is wrong on so many levels.
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Old 10-16-2013, 09:41 AM   #26
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stupidest thing he has done.

I remember also suffering through the same ordeal.

First my girlfriend checked my phone, then I checked her facebook, then her phone, then I would peep over her shoulder. It became a constant lingering thought in the back of my head that severely interfered with our relationship. It even transpired unto the next girl that I thought I was dating, although I promised myself I would respect her privacy and trust her. Lack of trust is the worst thing that can happen.

Tell him to bring it up because it will eat him up if he doesn't and by then it will be too late to salvage anything if he still wants to.
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Old 10-16-2013, 12:03 PM   #27
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Unfortunately I agree, it's the beginning of the end, right now it's emotional cheating and regardless of who is at fault, once the trust is broken it's a downward spiral that never ends well. A conversation might help and should definitely happen but odds are it would not be fruitful as she'll no question her trust in him furthering the distance.
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Move on b/c she hasn't. Every opportunity she gets, she will sleep with him. Not worth it.
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Once you begin the "suspecting" process it has already ended IMO. Your buddy will have a hard time trusting girls after this, I know I do. Every girl I meet/talk to even regular interaction in class, random event, etc I always think she is a no good lying dirty slut. It has gotten real bad for me but I don't really mind......yet.

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Just have him ditch her. I agree as well that she'll do something more with any of those guys when she has a chance. With the way she messages them it's bound to happen.

Same crap in a way happened with my ex. We had a small argument, nothing bit and I saw she was saying lovey dovey crap which clearly wasn't meant for me, I ended up finding out she was talking to someone else already. She is dead to me.
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She's a whore and your fvcked. Walk away my friend


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Once you begin the "suspecting" process it has already ended IMO. Your buddy will have a hard time trusting girls after this, I know I do. Every girl I meet/talk to even regular interaction in class, random event, etc I always think she is a no good lying dirty slut. It has gotten real bad for me but I don't really mind......yet.
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Warn him and have a good guys night out at the club planned just in case. Other then that, there is nothing you can really do and if you try to do much more then they both will blast you in the end.
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Yup. Simple.


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