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Old 01-19-2014, 05:20 PM   #41
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Originally Posted by Sentaruu View Post
in the mean time, my buddy's wife is trying to hook me up with a cute little piece of ass. I'm undecided on it
I would do it, fvck it. What do you have to lose, it would at least be a distraction.
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Old 01-19-2014, 07:54 PM   #42
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OP My best word of advice would be to keep busy. More time you fill with other things the less time you think about her. Don't get me wrong it sucks not knowing if there is someone else or she is telling the truth. I definitely feel your pain I just broke up with my gf a few days ago and was given a similar story from her. It's hard to know what to believe. At the end of the day both of you need to want the same thing. You can't force someone to feel a certain away about you. Keep your head up and stay busy and you'll be alright.
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Old 01-20-2014, 11:08 AM   #43
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Originally Posted by Sentaruu View Post
I totally get what your sayin' bro. I dunno, the ring is kind of a personal thing for me.. I kind of have an attachment to the sentiment behind the it. and as much as I don't know that I want to start dating again, the chick my buddies girl wants to set me up with isn't bad looking( fun fact: I've never dated/hooked up with a girl with brown eyes.)
I'd bang that like a screen door in a hurricane.

Definitely go for it knowing that there's nothing serious to come out of it anytime soon.
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Old 02-03-2014, 10:19 AM   #44
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It's been a few weeks.... time for an update....

OP. I was in a somewhat similar situation. If she comes back, or says she wants to come back, DO NOT re-enter the relationship until she gives you a explanation as to why she left and why she now wants to come back. And most importantly what has changed so that she won't leave again.

In most cases the relationship will fail again and you would be better off not getting pulled back in.

Good luck.
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Originally Posted by SLVR JDM View Post
Marriage is hard work. You need someone who is willing to stick in there to work through tough times regardless what the issue might be. You don't need someone who is going to blindside you without telling you what problem they are facing, taking time away without explanation, etc. That isn't behavior which will contribute to the health of your relationship or marriage.
This. Ive been this guy. Got dumped. Deserved it. MOve on

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Old 02-03-2014, 04:33 PM   #46
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I've moved on. sadly I haven't gotten to smash on that girl yet, she's too respectable but I did get a random bj in the back seat of my xterra from a girl I met in a bar.
to be honest I really have no desire to go out prowling, I kind of just like the time to myself. I've been in long term relationships since I was like 15, so I'm working on getting my **** together at this point. **** like getting in better shape and focusing on my career. I'm not really actively looking.

as for her, from what I understand she is mooching off some other dude now. I haven't really been in contact with her for a while and I don't really care to be. it's like she flipped a switch and is a completely different person. even her family is saying she's different. i dunno. bitches be cray.

either way, even if she were to come back for whatever reason i wouldn't take her, nor would i ever want to pursue a relationship with her in any fashion in the future.
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Old 02-03-2014, 04:52 PM   #47
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Take the ring. don't be a dumbass.
this. try to sell it for something. i tried to sell a specially crafted engagement ring once but it sucked. i should have sold it at first offer and forgot about it.

also dont make the mistake and leave her the ring.. that way if you find out she was bangin some other dude or your best friend you wont feel like such a dumbass.
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