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Old 05-08-2006, 06:25 PM   #1
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Ok, Sex with bestfriends wife; random question

Ok, I got myself in a little jam. I know... this is crazy, but try to give me a little constructive advice on this one. I certainly never wanted this to happen like this, but I ended up having sex with my bestfriend's wife.

I haven't talked to him in over two months now, and I am just wondering.. Realistically, if you were him... and you got past wanting to kill me... what would you want me to say. I want to say something to him, but I don't know what to say. We have been best friends since we were 12 so I dont really want to never talk to him again.

any ideas? btw, it was her idea, if that helps any.
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Old 05-08-2006, 06:35 PM   #2
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your not his bestfriend. You should cut all ties and hope he forgives you(he's not) You broke 2 of the main rule.

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Old 05-08-2006, 06:40 PM   #3
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Old 05-08-2006, 06:49 PM   #4
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Mach, I hear what you're saying... and normally I am right there with you, I would not touch my friends wive's/gf's... but this girl... she just made the moves on me... and whenever she was in the room I was like a frickin old growth redwood down there..... and then finally we were alone and she was like "he will never know" just give it to me...... and she started... well lets just say.. deep... and .... throat...... at that point it was all down hill....

It was soo good,....... ummm no.. understatement.... out of body experience...

Anyway.. I have broken off all contact with her now... and my mind is much clearer now....

So what would you say to him? besides telling him how sorry I am...
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Old 05-08-2006, 10:24 PM   #5
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Mach, I hear what you're saying... and normally I am right there with you, I would not touch my friends wive's/gf's... but this girl... she just made the moves on me... and whenever she was in the room I was like a frickin old growth redwood down there..... and then finally we were alone and she was like "he will never know" just give it to me...... and she started... well lets just say.. deep... and .... throat...... at that point it was all down hill....

It was soo good,....... ummm no.. understatement.... out of body experience...

Anyway.. I have broken off all contact with her now... and my mind is much clearer now....

So what would you say to him? besides telling him how sorry I am...
Sounds like you're leaving part of the story out. How did it go from "he'll never know" to no contact with your friend in 2 months?
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break all ties, hope this never gets out...oh and change ur name
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Old 05-09-2006, 08:08 AM   #7
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Sounds like you're leaving part of the story out. How did it go from "he'll never know" to no contact with your friend in 2 months?

Oh, she ended up feeling guilty and telling him... then she told me she told him.. and it was all crazy from there.

I would love to break all ties... but what if he leaves her? Do I never talk to him again? I feel like I have to say something
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Old 05-09-2006, 09:08 AM   #8
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You my friend are a fool... you have up a 12 year friendship for what 1 min of enjoyment?

I treat my bestfriend like brothers, if any of their wives tried to make a move I would at least push her away and make it known to her that my friendship is worth more than the BS she's trying to do. It was probably the fact she couldn't have you that turned her on, you were just a challenge and she won... You were just a pond in this game. If i was your friend you would definetly cut you right off. You do know if anyone else finds out you will never be trusted in your circle of friends...

You should just stay away for a while and try not to push to much, he might think your rubbing it in his face. Apologise from a distance by email or something... your still a jackass, although at least your friend knows he's married to the wrong chick.

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you're still a jackass, although at least your friend knows he's married to the wrong chick.
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Old 05-09-2006, 01:47 PM   #12
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Oh, she ended up feeling guilty and telling him... then she told me she told him.. and it was all crazy from there.

I would love to break all ties... but what if he leaves her? Do I never talk to him again? I feel like I have to say something

Don't say anything. There is nothing you can say.

Just let him hit you. As hard as he wants. Just once. I'm dead serious.

According to our Secret Guy Code Handbook that's really all you can do. What you did was SO GOD DAMNED DISRESPECTFUL that he is probably still full of rage and wants to kill you. The first time he sees it's gonna be like a red hot glowing fireball burning in his chest. Let him get it out, YOU OWE HIM that much. After that it will still be up to him whether or not to forgive you.

Personally, I would never forgive you. Your crime is too great.

I mean we're not talking about girlfriend or even fiance. We're talking about a man's WIFE. Hell, you broke one of The 10 COMMANDMENTS. The real kind...like from the Bible.

But I'm a vengeful bastard. I would pretend to be your friend again just to get close to you. Then I would have sex with the woman you love just so you could see how bad it hurts.

Hopefully, for your sake, you're "BEST FRIEND" is a better man than I.
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Old 05-09-2006, 08:34 PM   #13
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You my friend are a fool... you have up a 12 year friendship for what 1 min of enjoyment?

I treat my bestfriend like brothers, if any of their wives tried to make a move I would at least push her away and make it known to her that my friendship is worth more than the BS she's trying to do. It was probably the fact she couldn't have you that turned her on, you were just a challenge and she won... You were just a pond in this game. If i was your friend you would definetly cut you right off. You do know if anyone else finds out you will never be trusted in your circle of friends...

You should just stay away for a while and try not to push to much, he might think your rubbing it in his face. Apologise from a distance by email or something... your still a jackass, although at least your friend knows he's married to the wrong chick.
Turbo... you speak the gospel... so f'ing true.... I was thinking about sending an email.....

Crazy thing is.. he is thinking of taking her back... wow..... she is such a biootch..

But the truest thing you said is that I was a challenge to her... and she won.... it was so lame...

BTW,... everyone already knows... but my circle of friends is mostly on my side cause they knew she was trying to scam on me....
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I think you screwed up pretty bad on that one.

As far as you repairing the friendship, I don't think it will ever happen (I would never forgive you). You can aplogize, but I don't think it would have the impact that you hope it would.

Regarding whether or not he wants to beat the crap out of you, personally I wouldn't feel the need to do that because 1. I see it as much her fault as yours and I would just be done with her and let that be the end of it 2. I personally decided a few years back that I wouldn't fight over a woman again because it always ended up with me busting up my fists on the head of some moron that I had no reason to be clobbering to begin with except that she instigated it, and unfortunately some girls are f*cked in the head and actually get off on that kind of drama and I don't need to get in trouble because of it.

However, that is how I see it. He could be loading a shotgun as we speak....
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Crazy thing is.. he is thinking of taking her back... wow........
Do your old best friend a favor and try to fuk her again and be able to prove it. You've already screwed up a friendship, don't let him get back together with a girl that would do that to him to begin with, help him out there
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Do your old best friend a favor and try to fuk her again and be able to prove it. You've already screwed up a friendship, don't let him get back together with a girl that would do that to him to begin with, help him out there

She openly admits to having sex with me, and is asking him for forgiveness. If I were him, I would be more mad at her than me.. but you know how some guys just want one thing? Well, thats him... I dont think he cares about a "relationship" he married her for guaranteed poon... and as long as she's willing to give that up.... he wont leave her.

If he does leave her, I will have mad respect for him, more than I have now. I dont want to be friends with him anymore... I just want to try to rebalance some Karma.
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what a freakin sneaky slu t. anyways i wouldnt have done it.if he trusted u to be wit here alone. thats his fault. u know he trusted u. lol dumb a55 anyways glad to hear that ur head is thinking instead of your other head.
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Yeah, I finally did write him an email. I dont think it mattered much to him though. It seems like a definate that he is going to end up back with her. He actually told somebody the other day that he had forgotten why he was mad at her. So I told the other person a nice story to freshen his memory with People who get over cheating wives can only be people who are not in a marriage for love, cause it sure isn't love when you are able to betray someone so easily and for so long.

LITTLE EDIT: Cheating wives are are cheating stone cold sober, and planning the next rendevous
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