I want to date a poor girl.

Originally Posted by BostonModena

I can't seem to carry a solid conversation.

you should really work on that.

Go end yourself tool.

Originally Posted by BostonModena

I mean, I'm not looking for like a poor poor girl, just like a wholesome one. Think of your average american college girl, who is very attractive, and that's what I'm looking for. She would probably live in a dorm, eat dorm food, play beer bong, go to class, wear hollister, etc etc.

Originally Posted by 3P0rtlnd12

what you just described is not used to describe a girl that's 'wholesome' you're talking about the typical southern californian girl..

No, I'm just trying to describe a typical college girl. I dunno, I mean I grew in So. Cal, and have dated several blonde bombshells, etc, but they were all high maint. Think of like Molly Sims. I would imagine before she became famous, she was just a hot midwest girl.

Originally Posted by 3P0rtlnd12

what you just described is not used to describe a girl that's 'wholesome' you're talking about the typical southern californian girl..

Simple, be cocky not arrogant. Don't talk about your cars. Talk about who you are, not what you have. I think it has more to do with their culture, rather than their bank account.

I know the whole club life vs boring hometown divide that your feeling, I have nothing in common with the people I grew up with (as rich as they are.) When I go home (NJ suburbs), I have to rely on pure personality because telling anyone about my social life pretty much makes people resent me. I'll tease girls about what I do, but I'll never dwell on it. The upside? They find pretty much ANYTHING interesting because everyone else is so boring.

As for college girls, in Boston, they tend to be kind of like boring suburb girls. Its easier to talk about nightlife as something that they could get into, whereas most suburban girls see it as something they'll never really do for some reason.

Originally Posted by stiLL reaL iLL

Go end yourself tool.

lol @ you. I'm asking for advice from a somewhere target audiance. I mean, I can't even think of the jokes I would get if I asked this question to my close friends.

you won't find many girls from the Mid-west in socal...g'luck w/ that. People just typically date others that come from the same so. eco background because if they don't--just like you said, differences will cause problems one day. Believe it, just stick to your materialistic blondies.

Originally Posted by Mike Larry

When my ancestors came over to this great country 400 years ago, they had a vision for a utopia, free from minorities, liberals, poor people, homosexuals, and immigrants. There are few today who share such lofty ideals, but we're easy to find: Pastel polo shirts, loafers without socks, tucked-in shirts, but most importantly, collars up.
Call me a douchebag. Call me an arrogant little *********** dickhead. Beat the **** out of me if I'm not with fifteen of my B-frat friends (unlikely). But just know this: I interned at Smith Barney this summer. Where did you work? A Blockbuster? That's right you insignificant sack of dogshit; I'm going to be your boss. So take your t-shirt wearing, financial aid, blue-collar ass over to Blockbuster and get me a copy of Old School. Do you even own a tuxedo?
Look at my girlfriend. You think she'd go for someone who didn't have his collar up? I don't think so. I remember the night I met her. I bought her so many $9 drinks she couldn't even walk. So I drove her home in my BMW 328ci, but not before I took a few "liberties" with her. The next morning I took her to brunch and went to the mall, where I bought her some blouses. You *******s don't know the first thing about being a gentleman. You probably don't even know how to sail.
When I get out of business school, I'm going to be making $120,000 a year. Add that to my trust fund, and I can buy a country club membership, a ski house, and still have enough money to go barhopping around the city in my designer clothes and ****-eating grin. Maybe I'll offer you a hundred bucks to flip my collar up for me. I earned it you middle-class **** up. I bet you went to public school.
You're so predictable. I bet I can guess your political party just by looking at you. My cronies and I range from elitist northern liberals to heartless conservative bastards. I've wasted enough time with you. Get some rich parents, an internship, and a pink polo with the collar up, and then maybe I'll let you hang out with me.

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Originally Posted by Gbimmer

Simple, be cocky not arrogant. Don't talk about your cars. Talk about who you are, not what you have. I think it has more to do with their culture, rather than their bank account.

I know the whole club life vs boring hometown divide that your feeling, I have nothing in common with the people I grew up with (as rich as they are.) When I go home (NJ suburbs), I have to rely on pure personality because telling anyone about my social life pretty much makes people resent me. I'll tease girls about what I do, but I'll never dwell on it. The upside? They find pretty much ANYTHING interesting because everyone else is so boring.

Yeah, I would imagine you're in a somewhat similar prediciment, living in the city, and going back to the suburbs and trying to relate to those people. I mean, I've done the whole understated don't talk about my cars, where I live, where I'm from, where I've been kinda stuff, but for some reason, I can't relate to these girls. I mean I'm a funny guy, but I have no idea what to do with poor girls.

Check out this thread http://forum.e46fanatics.com/showthread.php?t=439503

You might find something interesting

I am sorry to say mate, but at the end of the day you need to date people with the same level of income and social status of yourself( or what you portray)... if you want it to really be a meaningful relationship for you and for her. You go to that girls' house in your modena.. you can make that entire family uncomfortable( or put that girl on farm status for your wallet if shes that type of girl). If what you want is a good home girl then start to project that image apon yourself, and you will get girls like that. You said you can come off as arrogant... maybe that along with your car and status repels those girls your looking for and your attracting the Lindsey Lohan *****es you dont want. Maybe all of what I posted makes no sense... but for what its worth bling doesnt get all the girls.

I know bling doesn't get all the girls. That's why sometimes I'll put on a T-shirt and jeans and walk around to the bookstore, and try to be normal, but it never turns out correctly.

Apparently, grocery stores and B/N is where poor, wholesome people hangout. And I just thought hungry book-readers frequented these places.


Oh well....

Originally Posted by nnnick

you and jimmy540i should go to bars together! i bet you guys would be the most popular people ever bc everyone would be dumbfounded by your awesomeness!

i am dumbfounded by the awsomeness of that baby lambo in your sig.

For those local to me (Boston), you can see me trying to pickup poor girls at the Barnes and Nobles in the Prudential Center or the Borders on Newbury/Boylston every so often.

my god. I can't believe people like you exist. I mean, how can you not have had sense smacked into you by sheer chance one of the many days you have been alive? first of all, a normal person would have addressed this somewhat normal issue with a question worded like "I am tired of materialistic girls, where can I find some down to earth girls?"

but no, you go off on how you want to date a poor girl, further implying that you used to only date rich girls or that you are rich yourself...especially when you say that you have nothing in common with girls who are poor so you can't carry a conversation with them.

Yea, you're right. You have absolutely nothing in common with humble, normal, genuine, down to earth, good people (girls). You should stick to your kind and just keep dating the stupid hoes that only like you for your dad's ferrari.

You never cease to amaze me. Keep up the good work friggin sea donkey.

Originally Posted by ceddyluv82

I am sorry to say mate, but at the end of the day you need to date people with the same level of income and social status of yourself( or what you portray)... if you want it to really be a meaningful relationship for you and for her. You go to that girls' house in your modena.. you can make that entire family uncomfortable( or put that girl on farm status for your wallet if shes that type of girl). If what you want is a good home girl then start to project that image apon yourself, and you will get girls like that. You said you can come off as arrogant... maybe that along with your car and status repels those girls your looking for and your attracting the Lindsey Lohan *****es you dont want. Maybe all of what I posted makes no sense... but for what its worth bling doesnt get all the girls.

Not really true. Yes, girls will **** guys that are in a similar group of people, but girls will also **** guys that are in a group that they want to be in (ie. sports groupies, frat hoes, etc). I think he's just not portraying himself in a way thats attractive enough to normal girls, and my guess is that its not only failing to find commonalities (which isn't that important if your attractive anyway), but also an inadvertent arrogance coming across as well.

sometimes, I'll hit up a college hangout spot like fanagle a bagle, or starbucks.