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Old 11-17-2008, 03:29 PM   #21
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Sounds like you've been cheated on, so I understand where you're coming from. She's quality though, she was smart about how she set up the date, and if she was a tramp she could've just thrown herself at me (I've had that happen, those girls are definitely NOT keepers but make for a fun night). And she wasn't acting slutty, what she was showing was definite interest, all the tell-tale hints that say she's comfortable and attracted. She's a great package, traveled, intelligent, oriented, and sophisticated. Thanks to everyone for the input!

Let's hope I'm not back on here in 6 months or a year complaining about what a b*tch she is!
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Old 11-17-2008, 03:34 PM   #22
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[QUOTE=jailonacs99;8898706]Hahah! I texted her a few hours ago just to say I had a great time last night and that I'd call her on Monday, but I didn't get any text back. Just about to get ready to leave here and meet some friends in DC when she calls, turns out she had been in the library, and we talked for over an hour about nothing until I said I needed to leave. Dayum, I feel like I'm 17, this is badass. To think of all those girls I've dated over the last year I felt absolutely nothing for, no spark. I was literally scared it would never happen again, disillusioned.

Anybody in the DC Metro area, drinks on me![/QUOTE]

o werd?... let's do it
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Old 11-17-2008, 03:37 PM   #23
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you made it sound like she was hinting at you to nail her, that in my book, like you said is only a fun night, not a keeper, regardless if you do it or not.

things make more sense now, good luck !
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Old 11-17-2008, 04:16 PM   #24
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Hahah! I texted her a few hours ago just to say I had a great time last night and that I'd call her on Monday, but I didn't get any text back. Just about to get ready to leave here and meet some friends in DC when she calls, turns out she had been in the library, and we talked for over an hour about nothing until I said I needed to leave. Dayum, I feel like I'm 17, this is badass. To think of all those girls I've dated over the last year I felt absolutely nothing for, no spark. I was literally scared it would never happen again, disillusioned.

Anybody in the DC Metro area, drinks on me![/QUOTE]

o werd?... let's do it
Hey, I'm down! One of these weekends we'll set up an E46 night for anyone in the area and I'll buy the first couple of pitchers!**







**pitcher may be substituted for bag of rocks of equal or lesser value
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Old 11-19-2008, 04:12 PM   #26
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congrats dude, all the best

Stan, what about that girl at maccas who gave you an extra nugget?
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Old 11-22-2008, 01:23 PM   #27
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Feeling good! So seriously, who in the Alexandria VA/DC Metro area is interested in an e46fanatics meet one of these weekends? First couple of pitchers are on me.
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Hahah! I texted her a few hours ago just to say I had a great time last night and that I'd call her on Monday, but I didn't get any text back. Just about to get ready to leave here and meet some friends in DC when she calls, turns out she had been in the library, and we talked for over an hour about nothing until I said I needed to leave. Dayum, I feel like I'm 17, this is badass. To think of all those girls I've dated over the last year I felt absolutely nothing for, no spark. I was literally scared it would never happen again, disillusioned.

Anybody in the DC Metro area, drinks on me![/QUOTE]

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Feeling good! So seriously, who in the Alexandria VA/DC Metro area is interested in an e46fanatics meet one of these weekends? First couple of pitchers are on me.
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good for you man, it is a great feeling but just watch out, don't get too happy because if she does something wrong or you guys get into an argument, you'll fall down just as hard and its the worst feeling

from my past experiences, just keep the feelings neutral
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Old 11-24-2008, 12:39 PM   #31
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good for you man, it is a great feeling but just watch out, don't get too happy because if she does something wrong or you guys get into an argument, you'll fall down just as hard and its the worst feeling

from my past experiences, just keep the feelings neutral
True dat. Well, from my last relationship, if there's one thing I've learned it's not to put on too many expectations or get too disappointed by upsets too early on.

I was thinking last night that I actually need to ask her to define where she sees us right now. From the time we first started talking it's been a month, and the last couple of weeks have been amazing, so I'm wondering if she sees us as exclusive at the least or even at the crest of some sort of relationship. That was actually the idea from the start, we both said we were looking for something serious. She calls to talk literally every day, and we see each other every couple of days because she's busy with grad school and work. Don't know how that's going to work out when I finally land a job!
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In for beer. dc happy hour after work someday ftw! you said it. no take backs on free beer
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In for beer. dc happy hour after work someday ftw! you said it. no take backs on free beer
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True dat. Well, from my last relationship, if there's one thing I've learned it's not to put on too many expectations or get too disappointed by upsets too early on.

I was thinking last night that I actually need to ask her to define where she sees us right now. From the time we first started talking it's been a month, and the last couple of weeks have been amazing, so I'm wondering if she sees us as exclusive at the least or even at the crest of some sort of relationship. That was actually the idea from the start, we both said we were looking for something serious. She calls to talk literally every day, and we see each other every couple of days because she's busy with grad school and work. Don't know how that's going to work out when I finally land a job!
I just have to "Let her be the girl!" Do not ask her to quantify your new love! My God bro! You be the pack leader, that is what women want, the pack leader does not turn around and ask the pack how its going!
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good for you man, it is a great feeling but just watch out, don't get too happy because if she does something wrong or you guys get into an argument, you'll fall down just as hard and its the worst feeling

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I just have to "Let her be the girl!" Do not ask her to quantify your new love! My God bro! You be the pack leader, that is what women want, the pack leader does not turn around and ask the pack how its going!


I'm no expert, but I do have experience. I'm going to call this early on and say she's about to lose interest in you if you keep that "You're the best thing to happen to me EVER" attitude going.

Chill out, stop analyzing where you stand!...You've done the hard work (getting her interested in you) now just chill out.

Think about it...would you be interested in a girl who was bloody psychotic about liking you? Even if she was semi interesting/cute? I'd be running for the motherf***ing hills!

Just my opinion though.....best of luck bro
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Hahah! I texted her a few hours ago just to say I had a great time last night and that I'd call her on Monday, but I didn't get any text back. Just about to get ready to leave here and meet some friends in DC when she calls, turns out she had been in the library, and we talked for over an hour about nothing until I said I needed to leave. Dayum, I feel like I'm 17, this is badass. To think of all those girls I've dated over the last year I felt absolutely nothing for, no spark. I was literally scared it would never happen again, disillusioned.

Anybody in the DC Metro area, drinks on me!
I will give you a ring next time I am up there....I may have to drop you a line and get some other people together for a drink....Cap Lounge on Thursday night...10cent wings ftw

o yeah +1^

and dude...don't ask her about where she sees the relationship....you will know when she kisses you/you kiss her...leave it at that.
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Old 11-26-2008, 08:20 AM   #37
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Hahaha, ya, I thought better about that within 5 minutes of writing it. Actually, I'm already realizing I'm more worried about sustaining my own interest rather than hers. It's only been a month and my mind/eye's are already starting to wander I've gotta be bipolar or something, because this last week she's been latching on tight and a couple of weeks ago that was awesome, but now I'm thinking "huh...do I have what I want?"
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