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Old 10-08-2013, 06:36 PM   #81
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My neighbor is a southern bell..from tennessee..when we were drunk she said she could never bring me home to the parents because I'm not white...I now want to bang her.
TN/KY/WV are a but more mountain folk than te rest of the south. Still sounds right. My exes fam is from OH but still super conservative. Her brothers married uber religious chicks and beat the republican Dogma with their Georgia Swoosh haircuts.

I come from TX and I find Texans are just their own blood. No where near as old fashioned as the south but again-when partner shopping I like a girl to have those qualities.


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Old 10-08-2013, 07:44 PM   #82
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Old 10-08-2013, 08:11 PM   #83
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Old 10-08-2013, 08:31 PM   #85
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every person I have come into contact with that are in a "frat" and the biggest ****ing douche bags I've ever met in my life
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I refused to join. Two of my best friends joined frats and I still live with them...it's just so hypocritical and 99% of them don't give a sh!t who you are unless youre in their frat.
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I refused to join. Two of my best friends joined frats and I still live with them...it's just so hypocritical and 99% of them don't give a sh!t who you are unless youre in their frat.
On the flipside, I'd say I'm only good friends with about 1/5 of the guys from my fraternity (IIRC we had ~65 members), most of whom are the guys that pledged with me, and a lot of my friends from school weren't even involved in Greek life. Like I said before, Greek life is a GREAT way to meet girls, but it's also very good start at building your network of people.
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If he hadn't used the term "rapebait," I can't see how anyone would find this unusually objectionable. What's he's describing is definitely not rape in and of itself.
I'm with VD on this one.
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Georgia Tech grad as of this past May here, looks like I'm a little late to this thread. The letter doesn't surprise me, and I really don't think it should surprise anyone who has spent any amount of time in a frat house. That's not a blanket statement covering all greek members, just from my personal interactions with these guys and other fraternities at tech and at other brand name schools in the state. Even as social chair, it's probably not a good idea to send a message like this is email form. Probably should have had a speech at chapter. Most male attitudes at frat parties are morally ambiguous at best. I see this as a "everyone thinks it but no one says it" thing.
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He said "mang" in a serious manner.
Is there any other way to say it? lol

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TN/KY/WV are a but more mountain folk than te rest of the south. Still sounds right. My exes fam is from OH but still super conservative. Her brothers married uber religious chicks and beat the republican Dogma with their Georgia Swoosh haircuts.

I come from TX and I find Texans are just their own blood. No where near as old fashioned as the south but again-when partner shopping I like a girl to have those qualities.


I mean, if you can get past the racism.
You're a veritable fountain of irony, mang.
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I'm with VD on this one.
While I agree with this, I just got into a long argument with a few acquaintances about this and how it promotes rape culture. Clearly not everyone sees it the same way.
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While I agree with this, I just got into a long argument with a few acquaintances about this and how it promotes rape culture. Clearly not everyone sees it the same way.
That is a possibility. The guy is clearly a douchebag. He might even be a rapist IRL. But this dopey e-mail of his doesn't appear to be promoting actual rape.
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I'm not nearly clever or funny enough to write something like that so someone else will get to take credit for it.

In any case, most of it is true. Don't get butt hurt because you live in Michigan.
I'm not butthurt at all. Michigan is a pretty prominent state. I would be butthurt if I lived in Minnesota.
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That's how I'll dance with you at our wedding, and you won't complain.



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That is a possibility. The guy is clearly a douchebag. He might even be a rapist IRL. But this dopey e-mail of his doesn't appear to be promoting actual rape.
Agreed. I'll post a couple comments from the "other side".

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Oh, we are NOT getting into definitions of what is rape. Lets get back to the whole thing that someone has to have sex to become accepted into a social group. What if they don't have sex? Does that mean they are ostracized? Wouldn't that cause them to think that having sex, with whatever participant (sober, drunk, consensual, non-consensual), is the RIGHT thing to do?

Rape culture is when sex is a social status that can be achieved. Sure, there's a "right way" to achieve it, but there's also a "wrong way." That leeway is the problem. And guess what, you're adding to the problem. You are saying that someone writing this how-to guide is okay. IT. IS. NOT. OKAY.

The target audience should be "guys that want to score with girls that want to score." And as disgusting as that is to me personally, if it was used by "guys that want to score with girls that want to score" - have at it. Its a useful guide. HOWEVER. The target audience is "people in the frat that don't know have to score AND HAVE TO SCORE OR WE WILL HATE YOU and do it in this way with girls that may or may not want to score"
Funny thing is, I don't think any of these people from the "other side" have ever participated in this "culture".
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Agreed. I'll post a couple comments from the "other side".



Funny thing is, I don't think any of these people from the "other side" have ever participated in this "culture".
Hm. Seems like a lot of circular arguments in that comment. I, personally, find that whole culture disgusting (not the least because I'm the father of a teenage daughter), but if people want to get it on with multiple sexual partners while they're in college, that's their business. When things move into the non-consensual realm, then that's another issue entirely.
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