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Old 10-24-2013, 06:19 PM   #21
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Old 10-24-2013, 06:22 PM   #22
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She does not have any cold sores? As far as I know, most people have HSV1, and it's only contagious when there are symptoms. No?

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Old 10-24-2013, 06:28 PM   #23
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Thanks man, helpful answer.

To be safe, if I use rubber this will reduce the risk, but what about BJs without any rubber?
This is also an important thing to know, a condom only reduces the risk...thinking it's a magic security blanket that will allow no harm to come your way is a nice world to live in.

I guess I'm curious as to what you are worried about contracting? If it's HIV that's on your mind, as your (assuming) a male who does not engage in homosexual sex or intravenous drug use you are already on the plus side of not contracting HIV just to begin with. Herpes? HSV1 and HSV2 strains are different (oral herpes vs genital) and do not usually go away from there location, if that makes sense, but of course can. To be honest, a proportion of locations don't even push for testing HSV any longer as they do not have the ability to differentiate between the two and can't tell you what strain you have...it ends that you just have to tell someone you are HSV positive. Syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia are of course risks as well but oral wouldn't be as likely.

She's been tested, and again I reiterate with the time frame that you should feel comfortable with the results as long as she has not had another partner in that time frame. Also comes down to trusting her of course.

All this information is available online, and just to be sure you know I am just passing my knowledge on and am not giving a professional opinion.
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Old 10-24-2013, 06:37 PM   #24
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She does not have any cold sores? As far as I know, most people have HSV1, and it's only contagious when there are symptoms. No?
lol no. Use google, talk to a doctor etc.

It all comes down to trust IMO. If she says she tested negative for everything, if you trust her then go ahead and have sex with her. If you're still worried, wrap up. You gotta make a decision at some point.
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Old 10-24-2013, 06:42 PM   #25
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Thanks Kyle! I'm aware of the info you mentioned.

I'm afraid of contracting anything. I have passed on many opportunities in the past because I had a suspicion a woman might not be clean. The problem is that I'm the extreme type, I either don't do a woman, or if I do, I go all the way (raw, anal, toys, etc....). I usually ask women to show me their latest test results, but with this one even if her recent tests are negative, I don't trust easily. Hopefully this makes sense.

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This is also an important thing to know, a condom only reduces the risk...thinking it's a magic security blanket that will allow no harm to come your way is a nice world to live in.

I guess I'm curious as to what you are worried about contracting? If it's HIV that's on your mind, as your (assuming) a male who does not engage in homosexual sex or intravenous drug use you are already on the plus side of not contracting HIV just to begin with. Herpes? HSV1 and HSV2 strains are different (oral herpes vs genital) and do not usually go away from there location, if that makes sense, but of course can. To be honest, a proportion of locations don't even push for testing HSV any longer as they do not have the ability to differentiate between the two and can't tell you what strain you have...it ends that you just have to tell someone you are HSV positive. Syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia are of course risks as well but oral wouldn't be as likely.

She's been tested, and again I reiterate with the time frame that you should feel comfortable with the results as long as she has not had another partner in that time frame. Also comes down to trusting her of course.

All this information is available online, and just to be sure you know I am just passing my knowledge on and am not giving a professional opinion.
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Old 10-24-2013, 06:43 PM   #26
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Not true, syphilis is bacterial, once treated, it goes away. Unlike viral STDs that stay a lifetime like Herpes, HIV, and HPV. These are the ones that scare the $hit out of me.
Don't forget hep c.

And OP, yes you can get all STDs through oral sex. Less likely with HIV but everything else, yes. Of course she will need to have the infection in her mouth and I'm sure it would be noticable (yes regular mouth herpes can transmit but its not too likely if you already have mouth herpes of your own as you will have antibodies).

If I were in your shoes and was in a committed exclusive relationship, I'd verify by seeing the copy of her test results. Make sure the test was for more than HIV and included all the bacterial and viral infections. After that, youre home free.

PS. Why did she do it raw with a dude who rawdogged a wh0re?

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Old 10-24-2013, 06:44 PM   #27
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Well it sounded like you know the answer, so I mentioned what I know. Of course I can google lol

I don't trust easily, that's my problem. This girl has one hell of an ass, I wanna go balls deep till I fall asleep, and make her asshole beep.

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lol no. Use google, talk to a doctor etc.

It all comes down to trust IMO. If she says she tested negative for everything, if you trust her then go ahead and have sex with her. If you're still worried, wrap up. You gotta make a decision at some point.
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Old 10-24-2013, 06:50 PM   #28
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I had Hep vaccines, not sure if it were for A and B, or A or C. One of them does not have a vaccine.

She was dating this guy, he told her after the fact. Otherwise, she would not have had unprotected sex with him.

Such a boner killer, even after seeing her test results I"m not gonna have piece of mind. I'll always think what she might have. Damn STDs, killing boners for centuries.

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Don't forget hep c.

And OP, yes you can get all STDs through oral sex. Less likely with HIV but everything else, yes. Of course she will need to have the infection in her mouth and I'm sure it would be noticable (yes regular mouth herpes can transmit but its not too likely if you already have mouth herpes of your own as you will have antibodies).

If I were in your shoes and was in a committed exclusive relationship, I'd verify by seeing the copy of her test results. Make sure the test was for more than HIV and included all the bacterial and viral infections. After that, youre home free.

PS. Why did she do it raw with a dude who rawdogged a wh0re?

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Old 10-24-2013, 07:00 PM   #29
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if you are willing to gamble go for it. But remember it is a gamble. I belevie it a takes aroudn 3-6 months for signs of std to show.
but I would go in and get tested together.
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Re: STD question

Chances are the dude didn't catch anything from his encounter. I'd trust the test. But you gotta make sure it tested for multiple STDs...she can have HPV, hsv, the clap, etc and obviously test negative on an HIV test. Then she can extrapolate and say she got 'tested" - don't let em pull that bs.

Ask to see the test results with your own eyes and risk offending her. Or take the chance and risk getting something (pretty sure we've all done that at some point).

If I were in your shoes, and assuming everything on paper checks out, I'd have no trouble doing her raw. Well, considering she was religious with her pill. I trust my skeptical gut on that one.


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Old 10-24-2013, 07:33 PM   #32
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Add syphilis to that list
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You should be fine to do whatever. Modern tests will test for antibodies in the bloodstream and not for an actual active infection. Herpes presents in 7-10 days after infection, HPV is very common and doesn't affect most people anyway, syphilis presents in 3 weeks is bacterial and can be treated easily, gonorrhea presents in 2-3 weeks and can also be treated. HIV is the only one that takes a 6 month test and she's already almost there anyway.

Google/wikipedia is your friend.

If you're really concerned, wrap it up till the 6 month test comes back and then go to town.
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Old 10-24-2013, 08:11 PM   #35
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Let her peg you champ.
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@OP try going to the doctor or clinic? Or better yet take a college course ... everything you are asking should have been covered by now if you are over 21 and sexual active. You should have asked these questions when you went to see your doctor. Don't wait for the person you are having sex with. I mean everyone here check the codes on their car and ask a mechanic what ifs... you need to do that with your body too.
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