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Old 01-14-2014, 06:52 PM   #21
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i dont think the pics are loading in the first page bro. just pointing that out.
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:30 PM   #22
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I feel as if there's something missing here. If two people form a long term relationship, one just doesn't get up and leave. In fact, the attachment would be too great to just say "I'm done". You also said, "she begged me for a ring", which means that she might've felt unwanted and confused as to why you hadn't proposed, yet. Maybe a guy came across that swept her off her feet. Forgive me for saying that. Usually 90% of the time it's never "I need to focus on myself", it's something else. Just a thought.

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entirely possible. truth is I don't really know what is going on. it could very well be that she is falling for another guy, though I believe her when she says she has been faithful.

either way it's over. I'm just glad I finally have an answer as to whether she was coming back.
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Old 01-15-2014, 02:52 AM   #23
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entirely possible. truth is I don't really know what is going on. it could very well be that she is falling for another guy, though I believe her when she says she has been faithful.

either way it's over. I'm just glad I finally have an answer as to whether she was coming back.
The lady for you is out there. Don't force it, just go out there, you never know what will fall in place...

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Old 01-15-2014, 11:49 AM   #24
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Sorry to hear this man, I definitely can see where you're coming from and totally get the losing the best friend part of it. Just push through and try to concentrate on yourself for the next few months. The right one is out there, just takes time.
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Old 01-15-2014, 11:57 AM   #25
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Sucks to hear, but consider it a blessing in diguise.

Ask for the ring back too. She's leaving you, so she better cough it up! If not I wouldn't press the issue...small price to pay to avoid a lifetime of issues.
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Old 01-15-2014, 04:18 PM   #26
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she offered the ring back, I was thinking of taking it. not that I would know what to do with it. maybe hold onto it until I'm rdy to sell it or something. dunno. another part of me wants her to keep it(because I know she wont get rid of it) so she can be reminded from time to time of her decision and what she left behind.

in the mean time, my buddy's wife is trying to hook me up with a cute little piece of ass. I'm undecided on it
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Old 01-15-2014, 04:56 PM   #27
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she offered the ring back, I was thinking of taking it. not that I would know what to do with it. maybe hold onto it until I'm rdy to sell it or something. dunno. another part of me wants her to keep it(because I know she wont get rid of it) so she can be reminded from time to time of her decision and what she left behind.

in the mean time, my buddy's wife is trying to hook me up with a cute little piece of ass. I'm undecided on it
Take the ring. don't be a dumbass.
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Old 01-15-2014, 05:04 PM   #28
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haha, it's what I was leaning towards. it's nothing extravagant so I'm not worried about the money aspect, more about principle.
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Old 01-15-2014, 06:54 PM   #29
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You better take that thing back and cash out immediately. Think with your head here! Take it back to wherever you got it...it won't be the first time they have dealt with this. Take whatever they will offer. After all, whatever you lost is peanuts in comparison to a lifetime of pain with a woman like this.

Best of luck, hang in there. No reason to get dating again until you've had some time to get your bearings....unless that is appealing
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Old 01-15-2014, 09:00 PM   #30
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I totally get what your sayin' bro. I dunno, the ring is kind of a personal thing for me.. I kind of have an attachment to the sentiment behind the it. and as much as I don't know that I want to start dating again, the chick my buddies girl wants to set me up with isn't bad looking( fun fact: I've never dated/hooked up with a girl with brown eyes.)




edit: sorry for the HUUUGE picture.
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Old 01-16-2014, 11:33 AM   #31
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Very cute, beautiful eyes & smile. Don't go if there is a chance that you are going to cry and/or just rehash your recent relationship loss.
Maybe see if you can set it up for a later date or something.
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Old 01-16-2014, 04:13 PM   #32
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Very cute, beautiful eyes & smile. Don't go if there is a chance that you are going to cry and/or just rehash your recent relationship loss.
Maybe see if you can set it up for a later date or something.
haha I might have made an emo thread on a car forum, but I'm not that much of a bitch
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Old 01-16-2014, 07:57 PM   #33
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hang out with the new girl, it will get your mind off things for sure! you dont need to be focused on dating, just be friends until you are comfortable.
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talked to her today. she says she loves me, and is incredibly sorry for hurting me but just doesn't want a relationship right now. she wants to get her life in order and focus on herself. so she won't be coming home. I am sad to hear it, but glad to finally have an answer so I can start to move on. she says she will be by later this week for the rest of her things, which is good. it's a shame, she is a really great girl, she just has a lot of baggage. the worst part of it all is that I'm losing my best friend and an entire network of extended family.
Time to take the red pill son. Lemme know when you're ready.
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Old 01-17-2014, 05:12 PM   #35
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I've been swallowing the red pill for the past 2 weeks brah.
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Old 01-17-2014, 11:30 PM   #36
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definitely not taking it personally. I can understand that. she removed the rest of her stuff from my place today and I must say, I feel a lot differently towards her now. I'm no longer sad that she has left, and the mood of the house feels a lot lighter. the relationship was what it was. it was nice while it lasted. it's really her loss in the end. in reflecting on the relationship, I think she did me a favor.
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definitely not taking it personally. I can understand that. she removed the rest of her stuff from my place today and I must say, I feel a lot differently towards her now. I'm no longer sad that she has left, and the mood of the house feels a lot lighter. the relationship was what it was. it was nice while it lasted. it's really her loss in the end. in reflecting on the relationship, I think she did me a favor.
Think positive, sounds you are doing fine. Life goes on and it can only get better. Plus your new girls is cute.
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Old 01-18-2014, 12:04 AM   #38
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I didn't read the comments but by the sounds of your post your thinking it's over. If your really in love with her give her time and space let her work on her and if it's meant to be you'll get back together. It can be a lot on people especially what she has been through. I know it's easier to say **** it and move on. But love and relationships aren't easy. Work through it. Just my 0.02.


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Old 01-18-2014, 12:18 AM   #39
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I really hate to say it but my gut says there is someone else. This has happened to me before, I even went to the university counseling clinic at the time and was told to give it time yada yada yada. Terrible advice In hindsight. There was someone else and I didn't fully believe it till she confessed she was preggo with his baby.


I really do feel for you, but the faster you move on the better.

Btw how old are you? I was 22 at the time this happened. I am now married to my gorgeous soulmate and have two beautiful young kids and will be 30 this year.

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Old 01-18-2014, 08:04 AM   #40
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