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Old 04-16-2014, 11:31 PM   #1
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Frequently thinking about your ex gfs?

Do you have a bad habit of frequently thinking about your ex girlfriends no matter how happy you are? Yes, you are probably thinking that I am not happy in my current relationship because I am thinking about my ex gfs. I think this is not true because it has happened no matter who I was with and no matter how happy I was/am. I have not had that many gfs in my life, but the number has piled up in the last 5 years because most of them were short-lived relationships. Maybe that is why I keep thinking about them because I am always wondering what we could have had and if it could have lasted longer? I am not sure, but it bothers me like crazy and I often find myself Facebook stalking them to see if, for example, they changed their profile picture. Creepy, I know. I am not sure if it is just my personality and I love to hang onto the past, but I hate it and want to make a change. The problem is....how?
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Old 04-17-2014, 06:06 AM   #2
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I think about them, mainly because im bored sometimes. I dont however have fb or anything like that. So thats a non issue for me. I dont think its a problem to do so, the mind wanders. Your problem is thinking about what you guys "could" have been. It ended for a reason. Although i still talk to most of my exes.
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Old 04-17-2014, 09:11 AM   #3
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I think of them but I'm so indifferent towards them I don't care if they pop in my head.
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Old 04-17-2014, 10:22 AM   #4
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I have acknowledged I have a problem with this. Doesn't stop me from going out, having fun, finding new girls and taking them home at the end of the night type thing any at all. However still find myself hung up on one of them more than I prolly should be.

I tell myself you can't play the would've, could've, and what if game though. The past is what it is and just have to learn from it and keep going. People aren't necessarily meant to stay in your life forever, they have their place and time and impact so do appreciate what it was at that point -- however we have to keep moving forward.
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Old 04-17-2014, 02:38 PM   #6
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I think about them, mainly because im bored sometimes. I dont however have fb or anything like that. So thats a non issue for me. I dont think its a problem to do so, the mind wanders. Your problem is thinking about what you guys "could" have been. It ended for a reason. Although i still talk to most of my exes.
It's normal to think about exes, good thing is some of them got really fat and old so yes, I think, "Thank God I am not with them anymore." Shallow yes, but it is what it is. The one that are still skinny and good looking. I think it ended for a reason. I thank my wife for tying me up and never letting go, I tried to break up with her for no reason other than wanting to fock other girls w/o feeling guilty. She is the best thing that ever happened to me and I don't think I would and could have been happier with anyone else.
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It's normal to think about exes, good thing is some of them got really fat and old so yes, I think, "Thank God I am not with them anymore." Shallow yes, but it is what it is. The one that are still skinny and good looking. I think it ended for a reason. I thank my wife for tying me up and never letting go, I tried to break up with her for no reason other than wanting to fock other girls w/o feeling guilty. She is the best thing that ever happened to me and I don't think I would and could have been happier with anyone else.
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Old 04-17-2014, 03:22 PM   #8
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Same here. Just one thing that is a problem but it can never ever be changed, other than that she is perfect in every single way and we got along flawlessly. If it wasn't for one thing I would have married her already.
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Same here. Just one thing that is a problem but it can never ever be changed, other than that she is perfect in every single way and we got along flawlessly. If it wasn't for one thing I would have married her already.
she has a penis doesnt she?
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Old 04-17-2014, 04:04 PM   #10
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I def have this problem. More so because I was in a phase where I would lose interest quick especially in college. Some of the girls I left behind were really awesome chics I just broke it off with them because I got bored. But I'm married now and my wife definitely is one the best things to happen to me!

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Same here. Just one thing that is a problem but it can never ever be changed, other than that she is perfect in every single way and we got along flawlessly. If it wasn't for one thing I would have married her already.
what is that one thing?
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Old 04-17-2014, 04:47 PM   #13
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Unless she's not 18 yet, how is it a problem? Just curious, i've never dated anyone more than 2 years older/younger
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Yea, she is a lot older lol.
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Brings the question into play, whats the oldest you would date?

Im 23. Id date up to 32
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I'm 26, the youngest I'd go with is 21. the oldest probably 31ish

I definitely wont go younger than 21, but I'd go older than 31 for the right woman.
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Dating? Legal is legal. Marrying, though, if I did it again, would have to be +/- 5 years I think.


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Old 04-17-2014, 05:52 PM   #20
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Yes. Because I have a serious problem letting go of the past. I can't ever let people go whether they be friends or more. I'm not sure why I'm like this but it sucks ass.
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