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Old 04-17-2014, 08:10 PM   #21
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Dating? Legal is legal. Marrying, though, if I did it again, would have to be +/- 5 years I think.


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I like this +/- 5 rule being in my late 20s. If I were younger then this number would have to go down to +/- 2. The maturity level division between youngsters and young adults/adults is right around 25/26 me thinks.

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Old 04-17-2014, 08:17 PM   #22
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Oh it doesn't help that my I am friends with my immediate ex gf's older sister, and we are pretty close. We met just yesterday for dinner (which is why I made this thread) and of course I had to ask how her sister was doing. She is still with her bf (I have known this for 2 years now but I was hoping that she broke up with him) and is living further away from me, so that is good as it makes moving on easier for me. When she was living in my neighboring city I always wondered (more like hoped) I would bump into her. As you can tell we don't keep in contact anymore, but I just hear glimpses of how she is doing through the grape vine. I kind of wish she would ask to hang out again since it has been so long. Are women really better at moving on than men? Right now I feel like that is the case.
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Old 04-17-2014, 08:19 PM   #23
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Oh it doesn't help that my I am friends with my immediate ex gf's older sister, and we are pretty close. We met just yesterday for dinner (which is why I made this thread) and of course I had to ask how her sister was doing. She is still with her bf (I have known this for 2 years now but I was hoping that she broke up with him) and is living further away from me, so that is good as it makes moving on easier for me. When she was living in my neighboring city I always wondered (more like hoped) I would bump into her. As you can tell we don't keep in contact anymore, but I just hear glimpses of how she is doing through the grape vine. I kind of wish she would ask to hang out again since it has been so long. Are women really better at moving on than men? Right now I feel like that is the case.



She moved on brother. Let it go. Don't ask those questions to her sis, you're only punishing yourself.
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Constantly but I know from the past that as soon as I'm in a healthy relationship, that will fade and you can begin to appreciate it for what it was.
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Old 04-23-2014, 02:38 PM   #25
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Nikkei, I feel yah. I have the same problem, although, I wouldn't call it a 'problem' more just like it can be annoying. For me, it depends on how the relationship ended and how into the person I was. I was married for 2 years and it's been 3 years since my divorce, and I still think about it almost every day, blehhhhhhhhhhhh.
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Well I made my ex of 13 years ago my gf. So I can't really talk anymore.
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Wait you are with a girl you broke up with before you could drink?
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Wait you are with a girl you broke up with before you could drink?
Yea. We dated in 2001. I'm 31 she's 29. I think we were 19 and 18 at the time we dated.

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Yea. We dated in 2001. I'm 31 she's 29. I think we were 19 and 18 at the time we dated.
Hmm.

IDK if I could do that, they are an Ex for a reason.

Then again, I moved states, so that helps lol
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Yea. We dated in 2001. I'm 31 she's 29. I think we were 19 and 18 at the time we dated.
I'd say you're in the clear - people change a lot from the time they are in their late teens compared to ~30. Basically like dating a different person.
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Hmm.

IDK if I could do that, they are an Ex for a reason.

Then again, I moved states, so that helps lol
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I'd say you're in the clear - people change a lot from the time they are in their late teens compared to ~30. Basically like dating a different person.
Yea I'm not too concerned. We were kids and dated for 2 months lol. She was in high school.

You may remember this one from the original girl A vs B thread about 5 years ago.

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Yea I'm not too concerned. We were kids and dated for 2 months lol. She was in high school.

You may remember this one from the original girl A vs B thread about 5 years ago.
that's not even really dating.
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Yea, she is a lot older lol.
"Age is just a number." Unless she was 70.
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Never had an ex. Lucky I am. Sorry you fellas' had to go through that.
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Yoda, that is not lucky.
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Definitely not lucky
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He is either lonely or made due with the first woman who talked with him besides asking if he wanted a side of fries.
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Never had an ex. Lucky I am. Sorry you fellas' had to go through that.
How is this a good thing? lol If anything we all feel sorry for YOU for not having a variety of experiences.

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He is either lonely or made due with the first woman who talked with him besides asking if he wanted a side of fries.
This. When I think more about it I am not as satisfied or happy with the current gf as I could be with another girl. I think if I was truly satisfied in my current relationship I wouldn't be thinking about my ex-gfs nearly as much as I am right now. I just deactivated my Facebook account, so recently I haven't been thinking about them nearly as much as I feel MUCH better about doing so. Coincidentally it has made me more social since I am not so hung up on wasting my time with the website and am going out more, talking more, am more optimistic about trying new things and meeting new people. I was putting myself in a vicious cycle because I could easily stalk my exes and I was putting myself back into a slump everyday.

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Never had an ex. Lucky I am. Sorry you fellas' had to go through that.
So you were with the same woman from day one?

Lemme guess.... she was always-there

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