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Old 04-04-2005, 06:22 AM   #1
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HELP my girlfriend is getting FAT....!

Ok here is my problem. Me n' my girl have been together for a while. We have been through some crazy sh<a>it together, and to say the least... I love her.


BUT..... in the last couple months I've noticed she's been puttin on quite a few pounds. I mean for the love of god she now has a tummy goin on.... I dunno what to do. Call me shallow if you want, but it's really starting to turn me off.

How the hell do I tell her shes getting fat without severly causing problems....?

Please you guys HELP ME..........
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Old 04-04-2005, 06:39 AM   #2
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Stab her with a rusty nail..Maybe she will get lock jaw
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Old 04-04-2005, 06:45 AM   #3
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Go to the gym WITH her. If you don't already work out, tell her YOU want to get in better shape and it'd be nice if she came along to keep you company.
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Old 04-04-2005, 06:52 AM   #4
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man.. there's really no easy way to tell a girl that she's put on some weight...
it's like walking on egg shells...
you'll most likely end up hurting her feelings and getting into a huge fight
she'll say that you're insensitive and shallow..
*sigh*
good luck man

luckily i've never had to tell a girlfriend that she's gained weight...
because my girlfriends were either
1. really skinny types who never gain weight and/or maintained their bodies with good diet and exercise
or
2. were already a little meaty to begin with but i still liked them
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oh.. and...

preferably before and after so we can see the difference
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I mean for the love of god she now has a tummy goin on....

maybe she's pregnant...
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Go to the gym WITH her. If you don't already work out, tell her YOU want to get in better shape and it'd be nice if she came along to keep you company.



when my gf lost the baby she gained some weight not alot cause she was only 2 months but she started gettign a gut. i did just that i told her I felt like a fat slob and i need to go to the gym and i got her a membership so she can come and talk to me so i wont be bored. the 1st 2 times at the gym she did just that talk to me on the 3rd time she got bored of sittign and waiting almost 2 hrs for me that she used the machines
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start growing out a beard, or your fingernails, or always walk around with stinky feet, or something to that effect that will get on her nerves or bug the sh1t out of her. then when she mentions it, follow up with the part about her getting fat. tell her if she demands you to change, she needs to change.

if she gets offended cuz you called her fat, tell her you meant phat.
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when my gf lost the baby she gained some weight not alot cause she was only 2 months but she started gettign a gut. i did just that i told her I felt like a fat slob and i need to go to the gym and i got her a membership so she can come and talk to me so i wont be bored. the 1st 2 times at the gym she did just that talk to me on the 3rd time she got bored of sittign and waiting almost 2 hrs for me that she used the machines
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I have the same issue, shes probably put on 15-20lbs seen we've been dating!
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what you want to do TOGETHER is suggest jogging early mornings on the weekend and then move into suggesting going to the gym together. she'll realize that you are trying to say something without hurting her feelings...

OR be blunt like me and say "Hey babe, you are getting fat" "no phat fat"
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this is my worst fear.

I tell em straight up. Don't get fat. I take care of myself and I expect the same. thanks.

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I have the same issue, shes probably put on 15-20lbs seen we've been dating!
tell her fat ass to go on a diet!!
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this is my worst fear.

I tell em straight up. Don't get fat. I take care of myself and I expect the same. thanks.

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eh. eventually, we'll all let ourselves go, no matter how much we swear that we will not let it happen. career, family, and other obligations will eventually take up so much of our time that we will not have the adequate time to maintain the same fit physique that some of us have today.
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eh. eventually, we'll all let ourselves go, no matter how much we swear that we will not let it happen. career, family, and other obligations will eventually take up so much of our time that we will not have the adequate time to maintain the same fit physique that some of us have today.
Not necessarily. My father is 60 and has jogged for decades and stayed fit.

To get back to the subject, just tell her things as they are. You can't be blamed for being honest.
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Old 04-04-2005, 09:06 AM   #17
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start talking healthy stuff and how you are now starting to think being healthy is SO important and you've heard that working out 3-5 times a week is a must along with eating fiber, veggies, ... and then slip in there (undetected) that it would be good if both of you guys started getting heathier 'together' rather than clogging your arteries with eating bad so much. try to disguise your thought ...
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You can't be blamed for being honest.
yeah, but you can be blamed for being insensitive and superficial...
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Go to Costco and buy her a case of slim fast shakes, and a size one bikini. Put a bow on it and tell her, she needs to drop some weight here's what you need to drink. When you complete my regiment you can have the bikini to wear--- but not BEFORE you lose the weight.

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If she is getting fat now just wait until she gets married. Then the pounds will really add on. So if she is getting fat now and it turns you off, dump her and start looking for the next one cause she will be fat the rest of her life.
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