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Old 04-05-2005, 03:50 AM   #61
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In a perfect world, I'd agree with you unquestionably. Fact is, most people can't handle brutal honesty. I'm sure you'd agree, yes? This becomes especially true when a situation revolves around the feelings and/or emotions of a woman. You choose to expound on an issue which needn't be.
c'mon, we're talking about a few pounds here. i'm presuming that she is inherently attractive. i personally wouldn't feel hurt if someone pointed out that i've gained a few pounds and could benefit in appearance if i lost a few pounds. on the other hand, if i was inherently ugly and someone pointed that out to me, then that's a different story--the difference being that i have the power to do something about my weight, but i do not have the power to change any of my "inherent flaws", short of plastic surgery.
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Old 04-05-2005, 03:51 AM   #62
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c'mon, we're talking about a few pounds here. i'm presuming that she is inherently attractive. i personally wouldn't feel hurt if someone pointed out that i've gained a few pounds and could benefit in appearance if i lost a few pounds. on the other hand, if i was inherently ugly and someone pointed that out to me, then that's a different story--the difference being that i have the power to do something about my weight, but i do not have the power to change any of my "inherent flaws", short of plastic surgery.

Ok original poster, EDawg and I must quell our discussion. Post pics of this chick. Allow us to assess her.
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stop taking her out and feeding her............
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Old 04-05-2005, 04:01 AM   #65
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or buy her a human sized hamster wheel...
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Old 04-05-2005, 04:04 AM   #66
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or buy her a human sized hamster wheel...
hahaha, i think were getting of topic, LOL............nah seriously it happens though, when i had a long time girl friend but her and I gained some weight but we got into working out after we noticed the gain........just don;t tell her straight out that shes fat or anything, just get into working out and then little by little tell her to go with you so you have a workout partner.......
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Old 04-05-2005, 04:18 AM   #67
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just squeeze and play with the fat and she'll get the hint.

LMAO!!!!! dude I am almost CERTAIN this would work. I have grabbed girls in the love handle area even if they are skinny and played around with anything thats there and they immediately freak out and yell hey! stop playing with my fat! and then I have to sit there and say sh*t man sorry I wasn't and try and convince them that they're not one bit fat.
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Old 04-05-2005, 06:13 AM   #68
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FYI - changing a birth control pill CAN cause weight gain (hormones bro)

i'm also quite sure she has noticed this gain and in time she will likely say something to you (that will open the door for you and be sure to tread lightly on the subject)

Yeah drugs can do weird stuff. I went out with a girl I met online a couple years ago and in her pic she was pretty thin and hot. When I met her I was like . Later on she told me she got put on some weird drugs/hormones to help control her period timing.
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Old 04-05-2005, 08:01 AM   #69
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it is a big fear.... but honestly... people do gain and lose weight.
my wife has gained some weight lately due to some medication she's been taking... but she's active so I'm sure it'll come off.

we really are a shallow society ... i know for me i'm not turned on by fat or even overweight people... but at some point you have to go past the physical
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Old 04-05-2005, 10:38 AM   #71
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you should get fat...fatter than her. then when she tells you that you are getting fat...you bring out the big guns and tell her "YOU STARTED IT!! and ask her how she didn't notice it on herself." or you could offer to go excercise together. either way. good luck. as long as you are bigger than the girl, s'all good.
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Look, let's face it, looks matter. Attraction is an integral part of every relationship both physical and psychological/emotional. If your girlfriend is becoming unattractive to you, you need to address it with her. Keeping quiet will only further hurt your relationship as it clearly bothers you, else this thread would not exist.

I don't think it is a matter of being shallow. You take care of yourself and expect your girlfriend to do the same. Nothing at all wrong with that.

You are going to have to address the problem head on. Sucks, but has to be done. Good luck
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Old 04-05-2005, 11:21 AM   #72
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eh. eventually, we'll all let ourselves go, no matter how much we swear that we will not let it happen. career, family, and other obligations will eventually take up so much of our time that we will not have the adequate time to maintain the same fit physique that some of us have today.
Wrong! Your theory is debunked by people who only have saltines and lemonade for lunch everyday.

Hell! Personally, I don't sleep or eat. That keeps the pounds off.
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Old 04-05-2005, 08:20 PM   #73
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Wrong! Your theory is debunked by people who only have saltines and lemonade for lunch everyday.

Hell! Personally, I don't sleep or eat. That keeps the pounds off.
well, i feel sorry for those people then. they are depriving themselves of one of the greatest pleasure in life: good food.
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Have your gf do some sort of exercise that she enjoys. Maybe some spinning classes, circuit, body sculpt, step or even yoga at that gym u joined.
If that doesnt work maybe a she could join a nitetime sport league like softball, volleyball, etc. If she enjoys what ever she does, it wont seem like boring exercise.
Also eating habits are 80% of the battle. Try to steer clear of fried foods, or processed foods. Try eating more fruits, veggies, whole grains, beans, fish, lean meats, low fat milk, yogurt and cheese.

Results wont happen overnite, give it about 4-6 weeks of consistency to see some changes.
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i too was dating a girl that gained a few pounds while i was serious with her. I promptly started ****ing some other hot girls and came home to have her clean my clothes and cook for me. After she realized that i wasnt ****ing her, she decided to lose some weight. When she looked attractive again, we restarted bumping uglies... Then i realized i didnt really love her so we broke it off. Lesson here is: you should **** another girl(s) until she realizes shes afat and unattractive. Then when she loses the weight, you can **** her again and she'll learn her lesson..... btw, fat people smell funny too.....
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again thanks to that posted usefull info.

S54: your hilarious bro....

UPDATE: I couldn't handle it anymore, so I just flat out told her that I was unhappy with her weight.
OMFG, I had no clue she would cry. I felt really bad, but then she told me that she was happy with she looked.

The Solution:
At the end of her tieriad(sp?) she told me that if I want her to lose weight so bad, that I have to go to the gym with her

I bought 12 month passes today........

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again thanks to that posted usefull info.

S54: your hilarious bro....

UPDATE: I couldn't handle it anymore, so I just flat out told her that I was unhappy with her weight.
OMFG, I had no clue she would cry. I felt really bad, but then she told me that she was happy with she looked.

The Solution:
At the end of her tieriad(sp?) she told me that if I want her to lose weight so bad, that I have to go to the gym with her

I bought 12 month passes today........
good deal... the crying part is hard to get over.. i remember tellingn my wife that... ouch... not a fun time. But she's realized how important physical attraction was to me. she's no supermodel... but i love her very much
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good deal... the crying part is hard to get over.. i remember tellingn my wife that... ouch... not a fun time. But she's realized how important physical attraction was to me. she's no supermodel... but i love her very much
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Well good luck to you both.

I didn't read through all the pages, but just know this. If she didn't realize she was gaining weight... they were happy pounds. I know it may be "unattractive," but it seems when females reach a point in life where they are content with who they are and the people around them they gain a little weight.

Just out of curiousity how many pounds? You mentioned tummy... so it wasn't flat anymore?

Have fun at the gym! BTW I think it was sweet of you to make the promise you'd do it together... also the fact you bought the pass. I try to get my other half to go to the gym and he hates it.
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Yo..what's fat? just want to get an idea, height and weight please?
Would you guys consider 5'3 120 fat?

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