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Old 01-22-2008, 03:05 AM   #41
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just out of curiosity, you guys are basically assuming that you will break up with a girlfriend for sure, right? let's just assume that one of these girlfriends will bound to become your wife (assuming you want to get married and you eventually meet the right person)...are you guys basically saying that there's no way you're going to make a girlfriend more important than some friends unless you guys get engaged/married? or still maybe not even then? just wondering
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Old 01-22-2008, 03:27 AM   #42
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One question....what the hell is she doing out the kitchen much less trying to tell you what to do.

Girls these days think they can control guys, I blame all the "guys" who apparently were born without any balls or brains that let them.
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Old 01-22-2008, 05:45 AM   #43
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Old 01-22-2008, 05:48 AM   #44
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just out of curiosity, you guys are basically assuming that you will break up with a girlfriend for sure, right? let's just assume that one of these girlfriends will bound to become your wife (assuming you want to get married and you eventually meet the right person)...are you guys basically saying that there's no way you're going to make a girlfriend more important than some friends unless you guys get engaged/married? or still maybe not even then? just wondering
I will never merry or have the desire to marry any girl who tries to manipulate my circle of friends.... if the gf is indeed my "future wife", then she'll be one who isn't a psychopath/manipulative b!tch... period. Think about it, if this future "wife" material you speak of does as much as tell you who to be (or not to be) friends with now... just try and imagine what you life will be like 10 years with her....
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:41 AM   #45
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GFs are a dime a dozen.. found easily.. good friends are harder to find.. especially ones that have stuck around and been friends for so long.. those are as close to family as you're going to get..

So the question is would you ditch family for a GF.. HELL NO!!!

Ditch her and find someone who isn't a jealous manipulative B|tch.

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Old 01-22-2008, 07:39 AM   #46
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depends on how hot the girl is but I wouldn't sacrifice a close friend for any girl... worst I would do is not hang out with them as much if the girl was really banging and a cool chick... Some people just disappear when they get p----
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Old 01-22-2008, 01:23 PM   #47
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Yea...Thanks for all the help guys.

So even if you were planning on spending the rest of your life with that person...you still wouldn't give up some of your close friends right (female)?

Damn this girl messes with my head. And some people on here are saying that you shouldn't mind getting rid of them if you wanted to marry the person.

I still feel like im in the right here though. Ive tried to talk to her about it and come to a mutual agreement. But shes still saying facebook has to go and no talking or texting these girls that are my friends. So idk, I mean i really do care about her but just dont think the relationship should come down to this. To me having to choose between her and my friends.

So I dont know i guess we will see where this goes. Last night I was sure of what I was doing. Now that shes been texting me and apparently manuplating the way i think I dont know what to do haha.
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Old 01-22-2008, 05:31 PM   #48
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You did the right thing, never change for a girl, your life will be miserable, just look at 60% of the men out there, getting controlled by their wives, gf's, etc. Can't go out, can't talk to friends, can't do anything they want to, have to asked for permission from wife, pathetic, if you asked me.

I make it clear in my all my relationships (I've been in quite a few), I do whatever I want, if you try to change that, get out of my life, I will never be inconsiderate, I will try to do the right thing, I will be loyal and reasonable and I expect the same from her, if not, there are a billion fishes in the sea.
If your life is being controlled by your partner, you are being whipped!
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Old 01-22-2008, 05:43 PM   #49
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If your life is being controlled by your partner, you are being whipped!
Thank you...just out of curiosity how old are you?
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GFs are a dime a dozen.. found easily.. good friends are harder to find.. especially ones that have stuck around and been friends for so long.. those are as close to family as you're going to get..

So the question is would you ditch family for a GF.. HELL NO!!!

Ditch her and find someone who isn't a jealous manipulative B|tch.

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No offense but looking for the right woman is not that easy, unless you are paying her. If you are looking just for a G/F fine, it might be easy. But, as some say, if you love her, it is because there are two reasons:
1. You are stupid and you are getting your feelings confused
2. You feel that it is the right person to share you life with.

If you love a girl, and it is #2, won't you sacrifice something for her? I bet she will be sacrificing a lot for you, too (hopefully).
If your girl tells you to ditch your family, then it is another topic. Being manipulative is something different.
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just remember..when most of you guys are out of school, with a real career and other responsbilities, it'll be hard enough to find the right amount of time to spend with wife/gf. Any time leftover after that will be with friends. My friends know that, and I know to expect that out of them as well.
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:06 PM   #54
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just remember..when most of you guys are out of school, with a real career and other responsbilities, it'll be hard enough to find the right amount of time to spend with wife/gf. Any time leftover after that will be with friends. My friends know that, and I know to expect that out of them as well.
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:08 PM   #55
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just remember..when most of you guys are out of school, with a real career and other responsbilities, it'll be hard enough to find the right amount of time to spend with wife/gf. Any time leftover after that will be with friends. My friends know that, and I know to expect that out of them as well.
True that... its so hard to find a woman to put up with my career.

Im a pilot and gone 4 days a week some times. How many women/girls in there 20s are looking for that or can you trust leaving them there that long haha. Those type are rare.
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**** it haha

SH***T! I don' know how helpful you female-friend is, but I will leave all my friends for her!
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:18 PM   #57
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damn man, i have a similar problem....my g.f. of a yr n half gets pissy everytime she goes on my myspace and sees i have more pics of my car then of her...i dont kno wat to do...i think the b!tch has to go.......

im not gunna get rid of her...she jus has to understand and all three of us can be together...

seriously tho, if she wanted to make me stop bein friends with one of my friends i wouldnt be havin it, unless she had a legit reason lyk the friend in question made a move on her or something.
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:19 PM   #58
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:38 PM   #59
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i never really had a girlfriend i'd say, technically you can say I did, it was for about 2 months. I never dicked my friends over and had plenty of time for them, cause I've seen 2 of my best friends i've had completely dick me over for their girlfriends leading up to the eventual them **** talking about how she didnt like his friends. My former best friend has done this with 2 girls. Each time he breaks up with them he literally comes crying to me for support, but after the 2nd one, I thought of how much of a selfish prick he was. I have no sympathy for no one who respects people that have been through thick and thin with em. I'm still friends with him but I barley talk to him or hang out with him. Me and this kid go back to language school pre-k. I've known him my entire life, considered him a brother.
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Chad, as hot and wonderful she is, it may not be worth it. Srsly, you're 19 (20 in like 2 days), you still be able to hang out with the people you grew up with.
I could understand if you were in your mid to late 20's and looking for a wife, to settle down and raise a family, but umm.. (i dont know what your plan is for this).
Chad, I personally think she is trying to control you a little too much, if anything, go to HH without her and see how that goes, if she can accept you hanging out with friends, I think you guys could work it out...
Call me sometime, we need to chill.
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