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Old 06-14-2008, 07:57 PM   #1
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Seeing a girl you work with

I'm interning at JP Morgan and seeing this girl I work with. We get breakfast every morning, go to lunch, and talk all day. Now, not only is it kinda weird to work with someone you're seeing but everyone at the office has asked me what's good. I've played it cool and really didn't say anything.

She goes to my school but is a year younger. Anyway I got a few questions...

1. When I spend 5 days a week + whatever time we hang out after work, I got to keep her interested and all that. I think when you see someone all the time it makes a relationship less desirable.

2. If this continues (which it will) what do I keep telling the people at work? I plan on nothing and hope the quit asking. They are all also interns.

Anyway, this girl is awesome. She's in an amazing sorority, from my town, smoking hot, has style, class, the whole nine yards. A perfect gf. We went to Jack Johnson last night (I got free tickets) and we killed a fifth before we went in. She was taking swigs after 1 mixed drink.

And if anyone remembers the last ***** I put up with... I've been through hell (I wrote a fcuking novel on that ). Nothing can ever get worse so I'm stoked.
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Old 06-15-2008, 12:19 AM   #2
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the first question seems like more of a statement? and i dont think you really need to worry because by the time the "honeymoon" phase wears off you'll be out of the internship and not working together anymore assuming this lasts.

A couple people in my dept are seeing eachother though. They don't hide it but they dont flaunt it either. If someone asks they tell, I think thats how I would go about it too. Not worth it to hide it, your actions show you are already into eachother, and trying to hide it will just make people more curious and bothersome. If you just tell them when they ask, then they know and it will just be whatever

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Old 06-15-2008, 12:21 AM   #3
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Old 06-15-2008, 05:19 AM   #6
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I should have saw this coming... but I'm not here for approval of the girl.

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Dalton- I'm not flaunting that we are seeing eachother, I'm more mature then that. It's just I haven't been in a situation like this and it's weird when people at work are trying to get into your personal life. Especially when it's right there infront of them.

I'm not talking about the "honeymoon" phase. I'm not used to seeing a girl this often, I mean it really is A LOT.
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Before I continue, I will like to tell you that even though people will pressure you regarding the relationship, do not say anything about it. You know how rumors can be and other things that might give negative effect.
Regarding feeling less desires of seeing her since you are always together, just wait a little. The internship will not last forever. Jut hope that she does not feel the same way as you do because you guys see each other every single day.
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Old 06-15-2008, 01:44 PM   #9
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**cute though **
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Old 06-15-2008, 02:59 PM   #10
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If you want to avoid 'office drama' then wait till the end of the internship. Believe me I've been there, just get their facebook/# and keep in touch and then when the internship is done...downshift and WOT ....errr...i'm gonna go drive my car now
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Don't sh*t where you eat.

**cute though **
This isn't going to effect my security at all. That's the least of my worries.

There won't be any "office drama" just other dumbass interns jealous, that would be it.
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Old 06-16-2008, 06:49 PM   #12
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If you want to avoid 'office drama' then wait till the end of the internship. Believe me I've been there, just get their facebook/# and keep in touch and then when the internship is done...downshift and WOT ....errr...i'm gonna go drive my car now
Think I'm gonna take your advice.

Not to mention there are like 5 other smoking hot girls who I don't have to work with directly...
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Old 06-16-2008, 08:41 PM   #13
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Oh crap, that's quite a find.

I was gonna say don't sh*t where you work, but that looks well worth the trouble. Since you're only interning there's very little to lose if things blow up.
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Yea... I messed up big time taking this girl out on Saturday. Gonna let things cool off a bit then I'll see what's good.
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Old 06-16-2008, 08:54 PM   #15
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This isn't going to effect my security at all. That's the least of my worries.

There won't be any "office drama" just other dumbass interns jealous, that would be it.
thats usually how it starts man.
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Don't sh*t where you eat.

**cute though **
its an internship, who cares it will be over in a couple months

the internship i mean
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Old 06-17-2008, 09:57 PM   #17
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gooo for it!!!

i worked at morgan stanley and had something with another girl my age that worked there..... VERY NICE!
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Old 10-16-2008, 12:37 PM   #18
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i had a disaster with one of these recently, lol actually 2 disasters, back to back! LOL. It was the most effed up situation I could describe; first one was 47 year old single woman (hot bod, argentinian tango dancer) and when that didn't work out, she set me up with her friend, 37 yr old Italian mother of 2 going through a divorce. LOL it was srsly EFFED. More details available for those who care, but I don't recommend work relationships, maybe it would work if it's more normal like the OP's case.
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Before I continue, I will like to tell you that even though people will pressure you regarding the relationship, do not say anything about it. You know how rumors can be and other things that might give negative effect.
Regarding feeling less desires of seeing her since you are always together, just wait a little. The internship will not last forever. Jut hope that she does not feel the same way as you do because you guys see each other every single day.
True, but talk with her about it and make it clear to her what your plan is. It would actually be kind of fun.
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