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Old 07-22-2008, 10:54 AM   #1
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havent had a girlfriend in almost 5 years...

so im 23 and havent had a girlfriend since my 19th birthday. it was my first relationship and first everything, went out for 2.5 years. i've had lots of girls around that i would hook up with/hang out with for a while, but didnt call any of them my gf or treat them like one. i kinda want a gf, but dont know what to think about it, it seems a little odd to me. being single is getting boring w/ the same conversation over and over. any advice from someone older who's done something like that?
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Old 07-22-2008, 11:23 AM   #2
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Be patient. One will come around sooner or later. If you rush it you'll get a crazy. I waited about 3 years and finally found one that im interested in keeping.
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Old 07-22-2008, 11:40 AM   #3
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Be patient. One will come around sooner or later. If you rush it you'll get a crazy. I waited about 3 years and finally found one that im interested in keeping.
agreed... i know it doesn't really help but the thing to keep in mind is that the way to a gf is by doing what you're doing now (hooking up with random people you meet). Do it enough and you will find one worth more of your time that you really like
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Old 07-22-2008, 02:34 PM   #4
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Patience man. Dumb as it might sound, you learn a lot about yourself by being alone for a while. Don't let people push you into getting a new gf "just because" you've been single for a bit. Waiting a bit longer for a quality woman is a lot better than rushing into a relationship that will turn crappy because you jumped too soon. I lost count of how many friends have ended up in bad relationships that way, and they all end in misery.

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Old 07-22-2008, 05:48 PM   #5
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just be more aggressive. go out more and don't be afraid to talk to people... confidence
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Old 07-22-2008, 06:33 PM   #6
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Forget about women. I know your libido will not really allow this but its your best game.

Do what ever you want and women will chase after you. If your out and about trying to meet women, chances are 5 other guys already hit on her. Think about where you would go to try to meet women... Like bars, and such. Typical pickup places.. These girls get hit on non stop.

Do what interests you, and when girls (less then 30) appear, throw in a splash of bad boy, prepare to put on condom! In other words, go your own way.

That is about the hardest way, but the most rewarding. After all the pot of gold is at the end of the rainbow!
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Old 07-22-2008, 08:01 PM   #7
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It's perfectly naturally to want someone else. Give it time man.


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Old 07-22-2008, 10:31 PM   #8
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Ya, don't rush the relationship idea. I've done that, and even though they can last a bit, they can indeed make you crazy.

I've been doing the dating/playing the field thing for the first real time in years. I had a long relationship in highschool, was pretty much COMPLETELY single my first couple of years of college, then had a 5 year relationship before another 1 year relationship right after that. Since that breakup, there's only been one girl I've gone out with I'd even want to be serious with but that can't work out. Either way, I know it'll happen with the right person eventually and typically when you're not looking for it.
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Old 07-23-2008, 12:41 PM   #9
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Forget about women. I know your libido will not really allow this but its your best game.

Do what ever you want and women will chase after you. If your out and about trying to meet women, chances are 5 other guys already hit on her. Think about where you would go to try to meet women... Like bars, and such. Typical pickup places.. These girls get hit on non stop.

Do what interests you, and when girls (less then 30) appear, throw in a splash of bad boy, prepare to put on condom! In other words, go your own way.

That is about the hardest way, but the most rewarding. After all the pot of gold is at the end of the rainbow!
So true so true...

If I may add... when you think you want a girl, that's when you don't need one the most. Rushing kills!!!

I think relationships are overrated unless you find someone you will live with forever. Those are hard to find indeed... anyone wanna look for the gold at the end of the rainbow with me? LMAO

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Old 07-24-2008, 05:10 AM   #10
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i've been "single" for 15 years. forget about girlfriends, just have girl friends and f 'em when you want. no marriage, no divorce, no hassles, no biotches taking your cash, nothing to tie you down...
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Old 07-24-2008, 09:58 AM   #11
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Old 07-24-2008, 11:12 AM   #12
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thanks for the advice guys, its good to hear it from people who've been around this ish longer than me

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she does NOT count as a girlfriend, she was a stalker who wouldnt go away
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Don't rush it? That's the best advice you guys can give this guy? Get out more and get laid!!! You will not get a girl you want to keep
by jerking off at home man!
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thanks for the advice guys, its good to hear it from people who've been around this ish longer than me



she does NOT count as a girlfriend, she was a stalker who wouldnt go away
Make her a booty call then.
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Old 09-21-2008, 05:06 PM   #15
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stalker.. lmao, poor boy
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Old 09-21-2008, 05:12 PM   #16
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aww man you can tell its fall/winter soon..i always have these feelings to get a gf for the winter season..why? i dont kno maybe im just weird but it seems like your going threw what i am..Summer/spring=single life ...fall/winter= girlfriend season
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Old 09-21-2008, 05:34 PM   #17
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Keep doing what your doing, you gotta go through all the wrong ones before you find the right one.


Eventually you will find the right girl for you.......if she exists.
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Old 09-21-2008, 05:46 PM   #18
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Keep doing what your doing, you gotta go through all the wrong ones before you find the right one.


Eventually you will find the right girl for you.......if she exists.
lmao i forgot about this thread....

i actually had this one that looked like it could last for a while, but then she and i both realized that we werent ready for something that serious at this age... soooooo.. instead i found a few that can keep a smile on my face for now im cool with that
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Old 09-22-2008, 11:52 AM   #19
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so i searched my name, under threads, and noticed your post. clearly id see what was being said about me, so knowing your the only one that knows me on this forum and also knowing that only you would be sharing your love story on a forum to get other peoples opinions on how to keep a girl, it came to my conclusion that im, in your words, a stalker...? im pretty sure i havent seen you or heard from you since feb, when i got home from vacation... then again... im sure u love the attention it gives you, knowing people reading your post feel bad for you and give you their sympathy since you cant get any anywhere else. id really like if bad things werent said about me, because i was a victim in that "relationship" too. thanks
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