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View Poll Results: Should I move in with my gf who I have been dating for 6 months but know her for >2yr
Yes 11 27.50%
No 14 35.00%
Wait ONE year 8 20.00%
Wait TWO years 7 17.50%
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:07 AM   #1
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Moving in with gf after 6months of dating

I am dating my gf ....of about 6 months and we are moving in together. I met her for the first time about 2 and a half years ago but we never dated because I was hung with the ex gf. We saw each other maybe 6 times over those 2 years. Six months ago we met again and decided to start dating.

I love her..didnt think there was a better gf than the ex but she blows her away!


I am moving in with her, do you think 6 months of dating is too soon?
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:08 AM   #2
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yes.



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Old 08-13-2008, 09:11 AM   #4
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Speaking from experience, yes, it's too soon. Sorry buddy.
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:12 AM   #5
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:14 AM   #6
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Hell no... Harder to breakup once you realize she's a *****..

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tooo soon. its great your happy but no need to rush.
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:18 AM   #8
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:24 AM   #9
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LOL^^

wow, dude don't move in with this chic..... get yourself straight before you do anything
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everyone is happy and loves their gf after only 6 months. The first year is the honeymoon period when you don't fight and everything is perfect. Wait
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absolutely not especially if you are under 30
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How old are you OP??
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wow op ur such a little drama queen. Thanks Sam for clearing it up.
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^my post got deleted and I got a warning, , but yeahhhhh
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ive known my boyfriend for 8 years, have been dating for a little bit over 3 years, and we're not even moving in together yet. 6 months is ridiculous!
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how old are u OP?

how old is G/F?

whats your situation, college? young professional? Meth/producer/trailor owner?
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:45 AM   #17
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It's too early. Basically, the way i see it now, moving in together is the prelude to getting married. If you move in together, and it doesn't really work out, you can't move back out to living on your own. That would be the wrong progression (and every relationship would be expected to progress through to marriage isuppose). You also couldn't "play the field", unless you went to the girl's place. Similarly, it's a lot harder to do, since you'd be expected at home. Either way, just be careful.
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my post got deleted too. WOOT SAM325I! MY HERO!

BAN THE OP!
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Old 08-13-2008, 11:47 AM   #19
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The best thing for your relationship is to live separate until the discussion of marriage. You both will have a greater respect for each other. I'm not saying no sex, I'm saying you're relationship will benefit greatly.
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ive known my boyfriend for 8 years, have been dating for a little bit over 3 years, and we're not even moving in together yet. 6 months is ridiculous!


i knew my GF 4 months before we moved in together now it's been almost 6 years and everything is perfect.

every couple is different.
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