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Old 09-07-2008, 03:42 AM   #1
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Alright , this girl....

After few beers and now little bit drunk , I decide to vent some **** and let you guys hear it and give me some advice.

When I was in college , chicks are everywhere , so I just go to parties and get chicks from there.

Now I’m tired of just random and meaningless relationship and really wanted to have one “consistent” relationship and have a “normal” love life.

So I met this girl for couple times already. I know that she came to US just couple weeks and blah blah blah.so she is really a FOB lol

I really wanna know what does she have in mind of the relationship between us , is it just friends who just “helping” her out since she don’t drive and take her places to eat since she goes to school and school foods sucks…

We went to movies and have some really good time and the dinner was good.

We haven’t had sex yet but we did cuddle for a few..(this is totally not “me” since I had few great sex with my “ex”s). I really want to have a great relationship with her so I guess I was saving this for a “right” moment.

Info about us , I’m asian (Chinese ) and she is , too.. we both 22 years old and I work full time and not going to school and she goes to college..

she is single now and seems like she likes me a lot but she always been kinda shy and sometimes she just plays stupid…

Plus she lives like 15 miles away and I have to pick her up , drive back to my place and have fun and stuff and drive her back…so one trip is like 30+ miles

I’m now speechless and I really don’t know what to do…

Any advice for this relationship ? Keep going? F it? Or what…
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Old 09-07-2008, 09:20 AM   #2
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man only you can answer that I cant tell you if she is worth it. You seem like your pretty set on this serious relationship well A nice girl that doesnt screw you on the first night sounds like you've got a keeper to me
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Old 09-07-2008, 09:35 AM   #3
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Old 09-07-2008, 02:06 PM   #4
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man only you can answer that I cant tell you if she is worth it. You seem like your pretty set on this serious relationship well A nice girl that doesnt screw you on the first night sounds like you've got a keeper to me
well ,dude..
i think i will go out more with her see what happened..
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Old 09-07-2008, 02:07 PM   #5
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look my sig..that's her
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FK that **** man, if you haven't had sex yet that sh!t has to go... your wasting your time ffs...........






















In all seriousness, i think your the only person that can decide if it's worth continuing, at the end of the day your happiness is more important than what anyone thinks, you'll end up answering your own question. What do you have to lose? it's not like your married, why not, have fun get to know her, get some experience, that's the joy of being young, you don't end up with the first person you meet, sometimes you might but you get my drift.... dw about sex, it's will happen one day and it will be worth the wait.
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wait...just read...yeah i'd that. yeah...get to know her yo.
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FK that **** man, if you haven't had sex yet that sh!t has to go... your wasting your time ffs..........

In all seriousness, i think your the only person that can decide if it's worth continuing, at the end of the day your happiness is more important than what anyone thinks, you'll end up answering your own question. What do you have to lose? it's not like your married, why not, have fun get to know her, get some experience, that's the joy of being young, you don't end up with the first person you meet, sometimes you might but you get my drift.... dw about sex, it's will happen one day and it will be worth the wait.
thx man...

so i guess i had to ask myself again...well, since we both young , i guess i will have some fun time...

and about the sex...well...i think it will be a "right" monment,too
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wait...just read...yeah i'd that. yeah...get to know her yo.
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most FOBS from over the ocean tend to play less mind games and are more direct...so a generalized term would be she's prob marriage material
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FOB girls get influenced REALLY easily, just keep an eye out on that. I'd marry a fob girl when I'm older, less drama and they're usually innocent. go for it
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FOB girls get influenced REALLY easily, just keep an eye out on that. I'd marry a fob girl when I'm older, less drama and they're usually innocent. go for it
+1 to that.... wouldn't marry one though, not being racist.
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move your hand down her pants/up her skirt pronto! if you wait you might end up in "The Friend Zone"
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+1 to that.... wouldn't marry one though, not being racist.
why not, nothing racist about that..

I mean, they' usually make the best housewife's
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Old 09-10-2008, 11:24 AM   #19
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most FOBS from over the ocean tend to play less mind games and are more direct...so a generalized term would be she's prob marriage material
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FOB girls get influenced REALLY easily, just keep an eye out on that. I'd marry a fob girl when I'm older, less drama and they're usually innocent. go for it
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alright
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