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Old 09-15-2008, 01:26 AM   #1
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Calling a girl for the first time, message or no message?

How do you guys approach this if you get the voicemail? you leave a message or not? Also you text first or not? discuss
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Old 09-15-2008, 01:27 AM   #2
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No message. Stop over-thinking and relax.
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Old 09-15-2008, 01:28 AM   #3
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One time while my mommy was wiping my butt she told me to ALWAYS leave a friendly voice mail. How would you feel if a weird random number showed up on your missed calls with no voice mail?
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Old 09-15-2008, 01:29 AM   #4
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No message. Stop over-thinking and relax.
IF you leave a message, just say it's you and for her to give you a call back whenever she gets a chance... don't say anything more than that
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Old 09-15-2008, 01:29 AM   #5
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Leave a voicemail, but don't be cheesy.
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Old 09-15-2008, 01:31 AM   #7
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Leave a message, but be chill about it. Assume you won't get a response back and just move on. If they respond... treat it as a nice surprise.
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Old 09-15-2008, 01:39 AM   #8
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Old 09-15-2008, 01:43 AM   #9
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all valid points for the OP


now report back
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Old 09-15-2008, 04:37 AM   #10
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If she has caller ID, leave a message, otherwise you'll look like a puss. If your number is blocked, just try again later.

It's more difficult to say no to you in person.
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Old 09-15-2008, 06:17 AM   #11
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what are you a clown?

who asks that

leave a message

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"hey it's sam. if you wanna ride on the roller coaster hit me back. if not, i aint gonna sweat you.
p.s. did you notice that coco savage STILL has halogen reflector headlights? even my 20 year old e30 has ellipsoids. "
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Old 09-15-2008, 06:30 AM   #12
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No message, unless she also has your number in her phone. You leave a message, you leave it to her, and I agree it's much harder to say no in person than just not call back.

She has your number, go with short friendly message that just says who it is, your number, and hope to hear from her.

Stop over-thinking it, and if you leave a message and she doesn't call you back, try to assume the best and not the worst...unless you got her number through means other than friendly interaction, you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
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be prepared that about 80% of womenz play a bullshit game where they don't return phone calls...even sometimes if they're interested
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be prepared that about 99.9% of womenz play a bullshit game where they don't return phone calls...even sometimes if they're interested
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Old 09-15-2008, 07:27 AM   #15
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That's not 100% true though, my girl didn't and she ended up being woman of my dreams.


Before her I would have agreed with you wholeheartedly though JJ.
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Leave a message or don't. If you have game, you can sucessfully do it right either way. If you don't have game, your are screwed no matter which choice you make.

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p.s. did you notice that coco savage STILL has halogen reflector headlights? even my 20 year old e30 has ellipsoids. "
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Old 09-15-2008, 07:41 AM   #17
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Bruce's version is sooo much better
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Old 09-15-2008, 08:14 AM   #18
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Message & don't sound like a b*tch.

That throws the ball in her court if you don't give a ****(as you shouldn't) and this tests her interest.
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Old 09-15-2008, 08:51 AM   #19
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what are you a clown?

who asks that

leave a message

mine would be

"hey it's sam. if you wanna ride on the roller coaster hit me back. if not, i aint gonna sweat you.
p.s. did you notice that coco savage STILL has halogen reflector headlights? even my 20 year old e30 has ellipsoids. "
you dont have HID's anymore either, and at least i can still afford my e46
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Old 09-15-2008, 12:43 PM   #20
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no message. text or call one more time later instead
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