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Old 09-18-2008, 09:20 AM   #1
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My friend thinks that his girl is cheating on him. She has been shady for the last couple of months, and nobody knows why.

Her sent messages in her phone are always empty. When he was standing next to her once, while she was checking her email, she freaked out. Recently she said she is going out with a group of 10 girls, and made it quite apparent that he should not be there.

All of this is after going out for 1 year. She knows most of his friends, but he knows 1 friend of hers, and never talks to her. That sounds shady to me!

Should my friend get a private investigator to figure it out, or not? Any idea how much it costs???
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Old 09-18-2008, 10:38 AM   #2
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how about he just dump her ass based on lack of trust?
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Old 09-18-2008, 10:51 AM   #3
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Get someone to hack into her email account, and check the mail. or DL that one program that takes screenshots of the computer every 5-10 seconds or something.


'Or save the hassle, and be straight up, and if nothing works out- dump her
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:03 AM   #4
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tell your "friend" to confront, dump, and move on
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:58 AM   #5
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Why waste money on a P.I. for this b!tch? I don't understand why some guys tolerate this kind of bullsh!t. Slap that ho
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:10 PM   #6
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if she's givin it to him, why dump? keep her on the side until she breaks up.
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:14 PM   #7
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if she's givin it to him, why dump? keep her on the side until she breaks up.
thats a good idea... i will tell him that
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:20 PM   #8
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Sign up for that TV show Cheaters. Let us know if they make it on the show. Make sure the E46 makes an appearance.
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:37 PM   #9
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are people really like this???

seriously

the problem with relationship nowadays is the dependancy on a relationship outweights the security of the actual person, which is sad. people would rather go through the trouble and headaches of the inevitable rather than taking a step back and saying "this is not working out, have a good life"

ask your friend what good he'll get out of it, and tell him to think about it for a while
1 year relationship and he can't even communicate well enough to discuss a serious matter? to me, that isn't even a relationship

this is a lose/lose situation

talk to her about it, and if she doesn't confess, break up with her anyways because trust issues (like stated about) will burn a hole in your heart more and more every day
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:46 PM   #10
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sending him a link to this... so he knows im not biased!
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:55 PM   #11
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Old 09-18-2008, 02:12 PM   #12
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Why waste money on a P.I. for this b!tch? I don't understand why some guys tolerate this kind of bullsh!t. Slap that ho
yeah man, too many guys wearing g-strings nowadays. keep your lady on check. you're THE MAN! not the other way around
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Old 09-18-2008, 02:41 PM   #13
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how about he just dump her ass based on lack of trust?
+1 if he doesnt trust his girl enough to hire a PI then why is he still with her????
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Old 09-18-2008, 06:06 PM   #14
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are people really like this???

seriously

the problem with relationship nowadays is the dependancy on a relationship outweights the security of the actual person, which is sad. people would rather go through the trouble and headaches of the inevitable rather than taking a step back and saying "this is not working out, have a good life"

ask your friend what good he'll get out of it, and tell him to think about it for a while
1 year relationship and he can't even communicate well enough to discuss a serious matter? to me, that isn't even a relationship

this is a lose/lose situation

talk to her about it, and if she doesn't confess, break up with her anyways because trust issues (like stated about) will burn a hole in your heart more and more every day
Stan you've got some competition haha.

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Stan you've got some competition haha.

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Jonathan = Stan

we'll leave it at that
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:25 PM   #16
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most likely she's up to no good. usually when someone gets that gut feeling, it ends up to be true. the problem is, you like to trick yourself into believing that you're probably just being crazy.....


tell your "friend" it's time to move on....

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my "friend" dumped the girl.... he should have slapped a E46 fanatics sticker on her forehead too!
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Old 09-19-2008, 10:52 AM   #18
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good move!
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Old 09-19-2008, 02:36 PM   #19
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my "friend" dumped the girl.... he should have slapped a E46 fanatics sticker on her forehead too!
so what did the girl say? im just curious if she was actually doing something
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