10-23-2008, 02:30 AM
Join Date: Jul 2007
My Ride: screamer
Originally Posted by Agamemnon
Okay what you need to do then is steer the conversation into a topic that has say something to eat at an appropriate time. You must know her eating times by now no? If she eats after class or what not? Well get it to that time that (she needs to go eat something, and you as well steer the convo into that direction and do you magic words and you'll be eating something together. It doesn't have to be food but since your in the same class adopt a study habit of her's and go with her to the library or something else like more than just in the class room to build up yourself.
ATM you have ONE contact point
A) Class Room
Expand it into
C) Library Studying
What else do you know about her? anything else she truly likes besides the "working" constantly? What's the end goal behind this work? What's she willing to endure to reach it?
Edit: She's already given you hints man all you need to do is start a convo (as you normally do) steer it into the direction you want and just ASK. What's the worst that can happen no?
The incidents Door etc see how she's trying to tell you something? How subtle it is? Follow that lead and you'll have her.
The backpack incident. That wasn't a dumb ass move you did something and you got a reaction from her in a positive way that's good. The girl will know a long time before you even want to say anything to her that you like her based off subtle changes towards her that she will notice .
How many other situations have occurred like the backpack door? I mean where she showed something to you?
You probably got tons of signs from her already that you didn't respond to or just didn't see because your too focused on "Not messing up the approach and anything in between" You got pinched by her,door incident etc? How much more encouragement do you need? Just be subtle about how you do it and steer the conversations into a manner in which you can see if she will tag along for a bite to eat or have a contact point OUTSIDE of the classroom!
When you miss too many signs and then start to second guess yourself and worry and this that it will begin to show in ur outward behavior's and appearance and she will notice this and start to distance herself from you slowly.
As Arnold would say'
"RUN [Pause] GO [Long Pause] GET to the CHOPPER!
you really do have alot of good advice on all these threads, ever think of writting a book?