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Old 10-29-2008, 06:47 PM   #21
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how does that make any sense?? asking someone flat out for a discount can potentially be considered rude, not too mention possibly cheap on your part. you've said it worked for your before, although I doubt THAT was the exact reason it worked. its risky and may cause a negative response.

Why not just go to nordstrams when shes there, and try on jeans?? how does asking for a discount, have anything to do with getting her interested in you??
rude, risky, and may cause a negative response? that's what i think if i were to flat out ask for her #.. these chicks dont come to class expecting to get asked out by random guys.. it's not a bar/club

regardless, i dont get why people are so stuck on this.. i'm not claiming this is a foolproof way of getting a girl's # and interest, i'm not telling you to walk into a bar and start asking girls for discounts, i'm not saying it's some universal method of getting girls that i invented....

it always depends on the situation and everyone has their own style.. my first impressions of her makes me feel that being forward in this case would result in failure. that's all there is to it..
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Old 10-29-2008, 06:50 PM   #22
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Ive been in this situation


Proceed with both girls and see what happens. With girl # 1 you're kind of on to something. With girl number 2, you don't even know if she has a bf yet. I say keep girl number 1 and ask out girl number 2 and see what she says. If both progress into something then it will be time to choose.


BTW, girls do this all the time.
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Old 10-29-2008, 06:53 PM   #23
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Old 10-29-2008, 07:02 PM   #24
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I don't see whats the problem with going out with 2 girls.. if your not "official" then I would say its okay to do so, no strings attached. I would just keep going out with both of em and see a better picture of their character.
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Old 10-29-2008, 07:05 PM   #26
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well, there are other things to powder up the number asking, ask her if shed like to go out , i also think the discount thing comes off as being cheap, but then again, 25 yr old women dont think like 40 yr old women..............
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YES.

Its very hard in my oppinion
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you need one girl that can cook, one that can be wild in bed, one that can take care of you when you're sick, and one that you can talk to about all your problems..


and its important that neither one of them know each other
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YES.

Its very hard in my oppinion



what is?
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Its very hard in my oppinion



what is?
Dating 2 girls at once
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basically, girl #1 is whatever to me but of course, i'd love to bang her. girl #2 feels like she could be wifey even though i just met her.
I can totally see this going the opposite way.

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anyway, my question is... should i try to juggle both girls at once and see how it goes? or should i just break it off with girl #1 and focus on girl #2?
Go with both.
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Dating two girls at once


For the record I think its easier then just 'dating' one girl. If your dating one girl then your likely call her more often, and show her more attention. Most girls see this as a weekness or a way to take advantage.

If your dating two girls, your attention is divided and you always leave her wanting more. And when your dealing with one of the two girls, you have the swagger of knowing that if shes not worth your time...theres another right behind her. This confidence you exude is irresistible to women.

Thats just for the dating phase, when it gets serious...its always better to focus on just one girl
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ok i'll try to keep this simple..

girl #2: broke the ice with her in class today, she's really cute. her smile when she laughs makes me feel all warm. i feel completely infatuated with her right now. long story short, she told me she works at nordstrom so next time i see her, i'm gonna tell her i was thinking of buying some jeans and was wondering if she could get me a discount.. i think it's an easy way to get her # and set myself up to offer her dinner in return
Dude.. that might or might not work, depending on how confident you are. but for the most part (in most situations) thats a definite no no

Personally, especially when I don't see girls that often, say 3 times a week in lecture only (and not outside of class), I like to actually get to know the girl instead of meeting her one day, then just out of the blue, asking for her number the next time I see her. If you think you've built enough comfort with her, here's a more smooth transition to get her number... if ya dig.

“well you seem to be doing well in this class… maybe it’s because you’re a total nerd, but you seem kinda cool. Let’s hang out and study this week, you can show me the method to this madness! What's your number so we can do that?"

If she says “go to tutoring” then tell her why you don’t like tutoring (“tutors are like robots – you come across as a genuine person that actually knows the class”).

lol idk.. as for going with 2 girls yeah, that shouldn't be a problem, as long as you keep them spread out. Right now, I'm with a girl on campus and the other one goes to my rival school. haha so its fine. W/e you decide, good luck.
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"well you seem to be doing well in this class; maybe it's because you're a total nerd, but you seem kinda cool. Let's hang out and study this week, you can show me the method to this madness! What's your number so we can do that?"
Do you really talk like that? It reminds me of the guy from 300 when you mentioned that

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Dating two girls at once


For the record I think its easier then just 'dating' one girl. If your dating one girl then your likely call her more often, and show her more attention. Most girls see this as a weekness or a way to take advantage.

If your dating two girls, your attention is divided and you always leave her wanting more. And when your dealing with one of the two girls, you have the swagger of knowing that if shes not worth your time...theres another right behind her. This confidence you exude is irresistible to women.

Thats just for the dating phase, when it gets serious...its always better to focus on just one girl
Very well said. Couldn't agree more.
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well, there are other things to powder up the number asking, ask her if shed like to go out , i also think the discount thing comes off as being cheap, but then again, 25 yr old women dont think like 40 yr old women..............
she's 19.. and i can tell from talking to her that she wont mind..

just to clarify, by discount i don't mean "hey can u just ring me up and take 20% off these jeans, no one will ever know!"

i mean for her to buy it with her employee discount..

last time i tried it.. i met her at the store 30 minutes before she got off.. looked around, she bought it for me when she got off.. i said thanks and offered to take her out in return, she said ok and we went out for 5 months



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and its important that neither one of them know each other

lol it's definitely possible that they have mutual friends.. who knows, it's a small world

if i string #1 along.. sh!t might hit the fan when if i try to break it off and it could potentially ruin things with #2.... i can tell #1 already thinks we're about to be "official" any minute now
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yeah, keep em spread out, and dont show up b4 she gets off , lol
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Nordys employee discount is 40%. Is the girl from Nordstrom's named Debby by chance?
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