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Old 07-09-2013, 10:55 AM   #61
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Why isn't she on the pill?

I don't intend on ever wearing a condom again. fuuck those things.
^ This.
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Old 07-09-2013, 11:08 AM   #62
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There is no sperm in pre-cum unless you had some residual left over from an earlier ejaculation. Which in that case, you pee'd which would have cleared it out. Getting pregnant is super hard... I wouldn't worry about it.
+1 to this for individuals worrying about pre-cum carrying little swimmers.
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Old 07-09-2013, 11:08 AM   #63
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There is no sperm in pre-cum unless you had some residual left over from an earlier ejaculation. Which in that case, you pee'd which would have cleared it out. Getting pregnant is super hard... I wouldn't worry about it.
Thanks man. I'm doing my best, today makes her 2-3 days late though, which I know couples with severe stress is possible. Just waiting feverishly for that text.

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But really congratulations to you again sir, thats got to be feel amazing being at the time of your life you're ready for it.

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Why isn't she on the pill?

I don't intend on ever wearing a condom again. fuuck those things.
She isn't on the pill because she's petrified of gaining weight, and doesn't want the hormonal personality changes that she would risk getting. So I told her thats okay we'd just use condoms and be safe, which has gotten very expensive and still doesn't leave me confident.
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Old 07-09-2013, 11:22 AM   #64
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Thanks man. I'm doing my best, today makes her 2-3 days late though, which I know couples with severe stress is possible. Just waiting feverishly for that text.






But really congratulations to you again sir, thats got to be feel amazing being at the time of your life you're ready for it.



She isn't on the pill because she's petrified of gaining weight, and doesn't want the hormonal personality changes that she would risk getting. So I told her thats okay we'd just use condoms and be safe, which has gotten very expensive and still doesn't leave me confident.
This is terrible. Eventually that sh1t is going to get old. She's being selfish lol. I don't know anyone that's been together as long as you guys that still uses condoms.
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Old 07-09-2013, 11:25 AM   #65
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She isn't on the pill because she's petrified of gaining weight, and doesn't want the hormonal personality changes that she would risk getting. So I told her thats okay we'd just use condoms and be safe, which has gotten very expensive and still doesn't leave me confident.
Has she considered getting the shot? There are multiple forms of BC women can try. If she is hesitant to go on a form of BC because of "possible" side effects I think it's time to have a conversation with her. Going off what she has heard does not mean it will happen to her, girls bodies react differently. She needs to get off the internet/talking with friends and go talk to a health care professional about options. As a couple this is something more than reasonable for the two of you to discuss.

Stress can be a factor in a women's cycle as well as numerous other factors. Getting pregnant does have a very small window, not to say it can't happen, but couples will try for months w/o any luck. The two of you need to relax and just wait for the outcome, nothing you really can do about it now at that.
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Old 07-09-2013, 12:30 PM   #66
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My fiance has the arm implant and it works great. No pills to take/forget to take which makes it awesome. She didn't gain any weight so...
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Old 07-09-2013, 12:44 PM   #67
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here's an odd question for you guys. Warning, sh1t's about to get personal. I precum a lot. Like my boxers will have spots on them if we're just laying together and I'm hard for a while or we're kissing and stuff. She says she's never seen anything like it and it does seem a bit excessive I feel. Does this happen to anyone else.
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Is your load also excessive? Maybe it's a ratio of pre-cum to cum?
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Old 07-09-2013, 01:26 PM   #69
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here's an odd question for you guys. Warning, sh1t's about to get personal. I precum a lot. Like my boxers will have spots on them if we're just laying together and I'm hard for a while or we're kissing and stuff. She says she's never seen anything like it and it does seem a bit excessive I feel. Does this happen to anyone else.
When I start working out and taking horny goat/tribulus/ZMA... I have a lot of pre-cum.

Has to do with many things -

level of hydration
state of arousal
supplementation

Body's way of producing natural lubrication.
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Loads are regular sized lol.


I do feel like the pre is more than ever. I'm totally into this chick so I'm always running around with a boner lol
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Loads are regular sized lol.


I do feel like the pre is more than ever. I'm totally into this chick so I'm always running around with a boner lol
So we can check off state of arousal
Supplementation is probably if you take any stuff for your work outs

Guess that leaves hydration?

Stay thirsty my friend?
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My wife and I had our first kid a year ago this month. She had been on the pill birth control since she was 15 and got off BC about a year before we started trying at age 28. I stopped using condoms about 6 months before we officially started trying, and even still it took us 9 months to get pregnant after truly trying. Long term birth control can really **** up a woman's reproductivity....so I can't blame any woman for not wanting to be on BC.

We are using condoms exclusively right now and I really don't mind it. We are using the non-latex kind (skyn) and they feel pretty natural. We are married so we go through a box like once every couple months so the cost is cheaper than the pill. :-)

Just food for thought. I'm sure most of you aren't thinking towards the future with your significant others, but I would recommend not pushing for chemical BC if the woman doesn't want to use it.
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Old 07-09-2013, 02:14 PM   #73
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I don't know anyone that's been together as long as you guys that still uses condoms.
I haven't worn a condom in four years. However, the simple fact that my wife would refuse me sex if I wore a condom makes me want to use a condom again. It's like anal sex. It's only awesome if you can't have it.
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Old 07-09-2013, 02:24 PM   #74
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So we can check off state of arousal
Supplementation is probably if you take any stuff for your work outs

Guess that leaves hydration?

Stay thirsty my friend?
I dont take any supplements other than protein. I drink a lot of water too lol.
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I dont take any supplements other than protein. I drink a lot of water too lol.
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Long term birth control can really **** up a woman's reproductivity....so I can't blame any woman for not wanting to be on BC.
Please take your time to research the benefits versus side/effects drawbacks of women being on a form of BC for an extended amount of time, both in terms of reproduction and personal health as a whole. Yes their are instances on every side, but for the majority I would not make a claim such as above.
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Re: **OFFICAL** thank god she got her periods thread

e46f never seizes to amaze me.


Condoms suck...
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Please take your time to research the benefits versus side/effects drawbacks of women being on a form of BC for an extended amount of time, both in terms of reproduction and personal health as a whole. Yes their are instances on every side, but for the majority I would not make a claim such as above.
I may be in the minority, but after 6 months we went to a clinic for testing and we were given some stats and explanations for some of the issues she had having been as a result of long term use of the pill.

We ultimately got pregnant, but not until after having to go through a few treatments and one minor procedure.
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I may be in the minority, but after 6 months we went to a clinic for testing and we were given some stats and explanations for some of the issues she had having been as a result of long term use of the pill.

We ultimately got pregnant, but not until after having to go through a few treatments and one minor procedure.
Not attempting to downplay issues any at all and sorry to hear that y'all had a situation such as that but happy it all worked out for the best

Grew up in a household w/ a nurse as a mom so information was plentiful and usually found myself around when she would have conversations regarding BC and our society as a whole with other individuals. Statistics work both ways of course, so just have to make your own decisions in the end.
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So I did some research because its really all that I have to comfort my nerves, and I came up with a general explanation as such:

Average woman can only get pregnant 3-5 days in a month, typically in the middle of the month.
You basically have to blow your entire load straight in a girl during that 3-5 day period for the chance to get pregnant.
If you do that ^, you earn yourself a 20% chance you'll have a compatible sperm. Average couples will have to try for 4 months to get pregnant. That is when they deliberately try... So I'm thinking I'm okay, because those stats really reassure me. I just can't handle the "what if" factor... and when her period arrives (currently 3 days late) I will be all kinds of relieved.
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