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Old 11-28-2009, 05:50 AM   #1
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Am I stupid or what?

Yesterday I broke up with my gf.
I didn`t feel very sad about it for some reason.
Today I was going to meet a good female friend of mine and we wanted to watch some dvds.
This morning she wrote me that she hasn`t much time tonight.
I asked her why and she told me that she will meet her new boyfriend after that...
The fact that she has a bf now shocked me much more and made me 100times as sad as the fact that I broke up with my gf.
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Old 11-28-2009, 06:12 AM   #2
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some guy was hitting it while u were
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Old 11-28-2009, 01:00 PM   #3
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Wait, what? Who has a new boyfriend? What does watching DVDs have to do with this story? Were you interested in your friend then found out she has a new BF, and that made you miss your ex? Really confusing story haha...

Anyway, if it's your ex with a BF a day after you break up you should see it as a good thing that you dropped her. She was probably messing around or planning on messing around when you were together. It's reality, don't kid yourself.

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Old 11-28-2009, 07:46 PM   #4
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naaah sorry I think it`s because of my bad english.

second try :
I broke up with my gf ( name y) and wasn`t sad.
Today I was about to meet a female friend of mine (name x).
(x) told me that she has not much time because she wants to meet her new boyfriend.
The fact that (x) has a boyfriend now makes me sad.
I think I have serious feeling for (x).
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Old 11-28-2009, 07:54 PM   #5
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Old 11-28-2009, 08:49 PM   #6
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Let me help you out of this friend zone, bro.
If you really like her and you think she likes spending time with you..
even though she has a "new boyfriend".
You need to start telling her she's like a SISTER to you.
Keep telling her that. It will upset her or make her contemplate things.
That is the only thing that would outdo a new boyfriend.

Use this as a last resort.
Don't tell anyone about this.
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Old 11-28-2009, 09:07 PM   #7
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so if x = new girl ,and y= old girl ,then u = very bad story teller lol i fell like im in high school math class
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Old 11-28-2009, 09:33 PM   #8
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I dont see anything stupid about this

mindofarok, have you ever pulled that stunt off? It seems that just coming out and saying the truth will work out better than telling her shes like a Sis.
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shltty situation dude. theres not much u can really do than wait for her to be dropped by her bf and to need a rebound. shlt will get too weird if you tell her now.
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I told her how I feel and that it pisses me off that she has a new boyfriend.
I asked her if she has serious feelings for him and she answered no.
I`ll meet her today.After I`ll be back in this thread.


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so if x = new girl ,and y= old girl ,then u = very bad story teller lol i fell like im in high school math class
I`m from germany.
Feel free to tell me your story in german.
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I told her how I feel and that it pisses me off that she has a new boyfriend.
I asked her if she has serious feelings for him and she answered no.

I`ll meet her today.After I`ll be back in this thread.




I`m from germany.
Feel free to tell me your story in german.

you dont do this right after you broke up; especially if your friend knows you just broke up!! she'll think you want her for rebound secks
a new boyfriend? how long they been together?
think ahead & think for yourself; what'll happen if that new boyfriend is you instead? what happens if you're all serious bout her and then you discover she doesnt give a fvck bout you?
be thankful she gave you a hint: she'll hook up with a guy even if she has no feelings for him
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just give every girl you see a sneak peak of your bratwurst....
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Old 11-29-2009, 01:38 PM   #13
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you dont do this right after you broke up; especially if your friend knows you just broke up!! she'll think you want her for rebound secks
a new boyfriend? how long they been together?
think ahead & think for yourself; what'll happen if that new boyfriend is you instead? what happens if you're all serious bout her and then you discover she doesnt give a fvck bout you?
be thankful she gave you a hint: she'll hook up with a guy even if she has no feelings for him
She hooked up with him on the sameday I broke up with my gf.
bad timing huh?
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just give every girl you see a sneak peak of your bratwurst....
that would def help
germans love bratwurst
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I told her how I feel and that it pisses me off that she has a new boyfriend.
I asked her if she has serious feelings for him and she answered no.
I`ll meet her today.After I`ll be back in this thread.


I think you did the right thing my friend
The sooner the truth comes out the better it is.
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Old 11-29-2009, 11:54 PM   #16
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She hooked up with him on the sameday I broke up with my gf.
bad timing huh?
bad luck & bad timing
but yes, again i cant emphasize this enough: you dont admit your feelings to a girl right after you break up; especially when this girl knows you just broke up...she'll think all you want is some rebound secks...
plenty more girls out there for you, dont sweat it man
have fun now & you'll meet a better girl in no time
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bad luck & bad timing
but yes, again i cant emphasize this enough: you dont admit your feelings to a girl right after you break up; especially when this girl knows you just broke up...she'll think all you want is some rebound secks...
plenty more girls out there for you, dont sweat it man
have fun now & you'll meet a better girl in no time
How do you know he didnt like this girl while he was with his GF?
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How do you know he didnt like this girl while he was with his GF?

if he likes the girl while he's still with gf, then the main reason for his breakup is this...
didnt the OP say he's more disappointed knowing this girl is now taken than him breaking up?
so yes you're right, i guess OP likes this girl while he was still with gf...
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agreed... i think you need to find a new girl who is going to like you without all the drama attached. girl (x) is going to be a pain in the a$$$$ because mind games will come in and you will always wonder if she is with the other guy when not with you...

or you could getback with (y)?????
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if he likes the girl while he's still with gf, then the main reason for his breakup is this...
didnt the OP say he's more disappointed knowing this girl is now taken than him breaking up?
so yes you're right, i guess OP likes this girl while he was still with gf...


I like her for years now.thats the biggest probleem
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