Parents not allowing me to date this girl - Need advice

Tough, you have to break off the hardline "traditional" stuff while maintaining respect for your parents. They only mean well for you, but their attitude towards dealing with life isn't necessarily acceptable in our society.

Your parents are very judgemental and most likely very prejudicial. I am willing to bet that they only deal with Chinese realtors and Chinese car salesmen too correct? Can you imagine if all the non-Chinese people in Montreal acted this way? What percentage of the restaurants customers are non-Chinese? With a non-Chinese girl working there, probably not too high...imagine loosing all those customers...you see how these judgemental actions don't really work in such a diverse society?

Just about every post here has been bang on, you need to man up.

do you know what this says about your parents? it says they have absolutely no confidence in you. it also says that they dont really care about YOUR life, and that they are selfishly trying to mold a version of themselves that had a much easier upbringing so they can see where they wouldve ended up given themselves having a better upbringing.

i say you leeching off them is just adding fuel to the fire due to the fact that they now have massive leverage over you.

here is an example of a person like you: my cousin is 23, he is 2 years older than me, and he is a producer. he helped produce an album and got a lump sum of $10000 in royalties. this is all his own money. we would both go to the gym (he doesnt drive), so id always pick him up. anyway, i found really cheap good quality gym equipment at this warehouse online, and cancelled my gym membership as i was sick of paying through the nose and then waiting for roid junkies whod spend their entire day there to get off the things i wanted to use after they had roid sweated on it. this means he cannot go to the gym anymore as he cannot get there. he was really excited about the gym gear and said he would come with me (the warehouse was a long drive from our places). we got there, i bought my set and popped it in the car, and my cousin was all nervous etc etc. he kept f*cking around and asking them the prices over and over and just wasting time. he then proceeded to call his father in order to get his permission, and without any asking of why, or what, his father said no. this loser of a cousin of mine left that place, without any bargain gym gear, WITH his own money that he wasnt allowed to spend ($300 is nothing comparing to 10k) and without any other way of ever getting there again, due to the fact that i had made it clear i wasnt driving all this way again just because hes a little girl. he was also quite cut, and said he would just come over to mine and use my gear. fat chance.

so who do you want to be buddy?
im not going to tell you who to be or what to do, i (unlike your parents) can see that you have some sort of capacity, as your first post was quite well written.
also, if you cannot get experience from girls, then you will end up a loser and a 40 year old virgin. would you like that to happen?

If she is "deeply in love" with you and you are barely dating I say watch out, that just screams crazy *****...

Im 20, ask me how I know this.

Originally Posted by mike larry

damn berzerkas went harder than lupe on this thread

+1

lol i ****ing laughed at how dumb this thread was. two particular parts

1) "I can tell she is deeply in love with me" since youve never dated a girl, you have no idea how dumb or conniving they are.
2) "give up my MSC in finance and just intern and move out with her." this was so dumb i had really laugh.

u need to listen to some Tom Leykis to see how the real world is.

id take the girl and dip.