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Old 01-09-2010, 01:37 PM   #1
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Im a senior in highschool and have had 3 gfs. all of my breakups have been ok except for my last one, we went out for a month, broke up, got back together, then broke up again. she is still on my mind a month later n all i think about is her.

so should i talk to her about it or just live with it? i have school with her and i work with her (big mistake) i cant decide what i should do... ideas?
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Old 01-09-2010, 03:17 PM   #2
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The first step you need to take is realize that your in highschool. Its very rare to find couples that make it out alive of the thing if ever at all. You have to evaluate the relationship and answer these questions yourself, Why did you guys break up? whos fault was it? is she someone you could see yourself being with in the long run? and most importantly, realize that ITS NORMAL TO THINK ABOUT HER. Some people just have that effect on others, its your heart letting you know you still care, but it doesn't mean its healthy too. you need to realize you broke up for a reason, the " light switch" relationships ( on/off) never really tend to work out. Stay occupied and realize its something you need to ride out, if its another month, hell if its a year ( i doubt it ) your heart will teach itself to heal and you will be over her and onto the next girl. Its just important to tell yourself all the positive the things of being single and in control. You work with her? yeah it may be harder but keep it mature and don't act like its got you down. Girls love knowing they were special enough to effect you like that. you see girls may fall faster then men do, but we certainly fall deeper. It's not easy man, it hurts i know. Im currently dealing with a break up myself, week 4 from a year. but yesterday was my 21rst birthday and i woke up and decided it was time to move on to better things, after all life is what you make it. Your in HS bro, have fun, relax and let it take its course. When the right girl comes alone you will know it in your heart bro.

and if you need anymore advice feel free to PM me bro, I do this crap for a living. Psych major.
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Old 01-09-2010, 04:00 PM   #3
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The first step you need to take is realize that your in highschool. Its very rare to find couples that make it out alive of the thing if ever at all. You have to evaluate the relationship and answer these questions yourself, Why did you guys break up? whos fault was it? is she someone you could see yourself being with in the long run? and most importantly, realize that ITS NORMAL TO THINK ABOUT HER. Some people just have that effect on others, its your heart letting you know you still care, but it doesn't mean its healthy too. you need to realize you broke up for a reason, the " light switch" relationships ( on/off) never really tend to work out. Stay occupied and realize its something you need to ride out, if its another month, hell if its a year ( i doubt it ) your heart will teach itself to heal and you will be over her and onto the next girl. Its just important to tell yourself all the positive the things of being single and in control. You work with her? yeah it may be harder but keep it mature and don't act like its got you down. Girls love knowing they were special enough to effect you like that. you see girls may fall faster then men do, but we certainly fall deeper. It's not easy man, it hurts i know. Im currently dealing with a break up myself, week 4 from a year. but yesterday was my 21'rst birthday and i woke up and decided it was time to move on to better things, after all life is what you make it. Your in HS bro, have fun, relax and let it take its course. When the right girl comes alone you will know it in your heart bro.

and if you need anymore advice feel free to PM me bro, I do this crap for a living. Psych major.
solid stuff right here.
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