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Old 04-24-2010, 03:53 AM   #1
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Some insight please

I just wanted to know what u guys think, i'm not sure what to do but she makes me want to give her the boot because i'm sooo stressed about it all the time and it comes up all the time, the same thing over and over again..

i've been dating this girl for about a yr, i told her from the start that i'm not that type of guy that needs to be with someone everyday, and there are times that i can't see you when shes wants but doesn't not mean i don't want to see or spend time with her so i tell her. She says she understands and wants to be with me. Fast forward to now, She is the type who is clingy needs to be told i love you all the time, and how you feel with her and tell her that she is needed everyday, sending msg at work, calling her work and stuff and she feels she should be treated like a princess because she says she has a good heart and caring etc and that's what she deserves. She really loves me and wants to marry me, have my kids etc, i tell her yes i can see that in the future but she keeps on saying things like that to me like i've proposed to her, i've told her to relax and i'm not in the position to move that fast right now but i do see a future once i get my life in order.

I love her and care about her, i try to spend time with her when i can, i do send msgs to her once and awhile to have a good day at work and stuff, do nice things here and there but we fight about this and make up and it comes up again and again. I spent half the day with her yesterday, everything is great, i bought her a stuff dog to sleep with, she is happy, writes me a msg later that she is happy, and i write her how happy i was to spend the day with her but i couldn't spend like the evening and she takes it that i got sick of her and i tell her no i didn't, there's stuff i have to do. So now out of nowhere after hanging out with guys from work from the dealership, a night of drinking and what not, i'm pretty sure she was talking to some guy about us, she thinks about stuff and says i don't give her enough attention, i don't make her feel needed or loved the way she does it for me in which she complains she calls me all the time and tells me she loves me all the time and that i should do the same as her to make her feel good about herself but i tell her i'm not that kind of needy guy to tell you that stuff all the time. Like i need to do what i'm doing twice as much to make her happy. Like i have to see her all the time, call her lots at work etc, make her my life....i tell her a person should be part of your life not ur whole life, she makes me her whole life and i say that's wrong

Sorry for the long post i had to rant, i've never had so much problems with a girl before, i just don't know what to do about this ongoing issue, we see each other and make up and it's fine for 1 week then the same thing next week...lost
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Old 04-24-2010, 08:58 AM   #3
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It boils down to the languages of love. Every person has a different language, the way she is reacting is her way of telling you her language, so to speak. Those things she needs are the things that confirms your love to her, in her eyes that is. You probably have things you need in order to feel loved that may and probably are different. These "languages" or actions that you and her need may be on different levels and different needs are often a big problem understand. If you really like this girl the bottom line is you have to talk to her about this and just let her know you understand what she needs. Now, once you have done this you really have to implement those actions and languages that she needs to feel loved. Relationships are constant work, that is why most don't pan out or work. It's not easy that is for sure.
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