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Old 05-27-2010, 04:45 AM   #1
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i got cheated on

FUUUUUUUUUUUUU
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Old 05-27-2010, 05:49 AM   #2
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**** that dude. i'm in san jose. if you ever need to chill hit me up. i went through the same ****
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Old 05-27-2010, 07:08 AM   #3
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**** that dude. i'm in san jose. if you ever need to chill hit me up. i went through the same ****
Yeah, I'm feeling a lot of emotions that I am not used to feeling. Having a hard time falling asleep. I got work tomorrow and a final afterwards, which I feel ill-prepared for. Thank goodness I have a long weekend though. I need it.
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Old 05-27-2010, 07:20 AM   #4
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all I gotta say is hang in there, man...

I went through the same ****, make sure that the b!tch is out of your life, completely.

If she didn't manage to sustain a healthy relationship with you, that means it wasn't worth it in the first place.

Get your mind set on the things that matter for you and be ultra-selfish when it comes to YOUR goals and wishes.

Start healing with friends n beer and you'll see, that sooner or later everything will work out in your favor.

Way I reasoned it out - there is roughly 150k different 9-10/10 pu$$ies around to be banged
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Old 05-27-2010, 07:42 AM   #5
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all I gotta say is hang in there, man...

I went through the same ****, make sure that the b!tch is out of your life, completely.

If she didn't manage to sustain a healthy relationship with you, that means it wasn't worth it in the first place.

Get your mind set on the things that matter for you and be ultra-selfish when it comes to YOUR goals and wishes.

Start healing with friends n beer and you'll see, that sooner or later everything will work out in your favor.

Way I reasoned it out - there is roughly 150k different 9-10/10 pu$$ies around to be banged
Thanks man. I'm getting ready to go to work early to try and take my mind off this. I'll definitely live it up with friends this weekend.
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Old 05-27-2010, 10:04 AM   #6
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is she your GF in the pics? ill be crazy too!
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Old 05-27-2010, 10:15 AM   #7
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is she your GF in the pics? ill be crazy too!
not helping haha
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Old 05-27-2010, 10:16 AM   #8
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i don't mean to be insensitive, but noodz?
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Old 05-27-2010, 10:22 AM   #9
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Happened to me after 2.5 years with a girl. Respected the fact that she admitted to it the day after (was on business in california when it occurred) but knew it wasn't worth it to even try to continue the relationship. Hurts but honestly, don't let it impact your self confidence. When people do that, it has nothing to do with you as a person.
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Old 05-27-2010, 10:28 AM   #11
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so she's a piece of shiit.... bottom line

would you rather it happen now? or later on in life when things are more involved/serious

not sure how long you two were together, if it was a short period, then you should be thankful it happened now... if it was a few years... well hopefully this will be a learning experience for you as maybe this is something you should have "picked up on" if you were with her for that long

bottom line, you need to:

1. realize that this shouldn't change you as a person, you are faithful, and the twat that she is didn't appreciate you
2. honestly not feel bad, i know its tough thinking about her having sex with someone else (sorry to bring it up) but fact of the matter is, she's a piece of shiit, a skank, whoore, sluut, unappreciative kunt, and everything in live will end up coming back to bite her in the ass
3. try and look forward to dating and meeting someone new... i love first dates, they are so exciting... if you are a good person, you should be psyched to meet someone...


as much as people say "give it time"... there is not a cure in the world that is better than a rebound girl... get out there and get your mind off of the other fvckface, date, have fun with friends, and keep your chin up... happiness isn't going to come knocking on your door one day, so get out there and live it up man

yes i've dealt with this before, take my words please
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in a few months you will look back and laugh and say fvck that b!tch
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Are you guys,asking for noods,serious?That's so f6cked up.
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No newds and she was not the girl in my sig.

Dated this girl for over 2 years and I'm amazed how I put up with her. She has MAJOR trust and insecurity issues. She was always assuming that I'd cheat on her, yet in the end it was her.

I feel somewhat brainwashed and crazy because I was believing something that wasn't real. For the past 2 years, I had crushed my self-esteem as she had always made me feel like a terrible boyfriend. When in reality, I was not. I need to get back to reality and work on things that are important in my life.
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No newds and she was not the girl in my sig.

Dated this girl for over 2 years and I'm amazed how I put up with her. She has MAJOR trust and insecurity issues. She was always assuming that I'd cheat on her, yet in the end it was her.

I feel somewhat brainwashed and crazy because I was believing something that wasn't real. For the past 2 years, I had crushed my self-esteem as she had always made me feel like a terrible boyfriend. When in reality, I was not. I need to get back to reality and work on things that are important in my life.
Its called having a guilty conscience... those who worry about it the most are the ones that do it the most.

did you read my post above? no i'm not asking for newds lol
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Old 05-27-2010, 02:09 PM   #18
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No newds and she was not the girl in my sig.

Dated this girl for over 2 years and I'm amazed how I put up with her. She has MAJOR trust and insecurity issues. She was always assuming that I'd cheat on her, yet in the end it was her.

I feel somewhat brainwashed and crazy because I was believing something that wasn't real. For the past 2 years, I had crushed my self-esteem as she had always made me feel like a terrible boyfriend. When in reality, I was not. I need to get back to reality and work on things that are important in my life.
And what are you gonna do if she tries to call and apologize?

Will that change the situation?
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Wow man, your ex sounds like my ex. She did the exact same thing. Was insecure and stuff, those type of girls need attention from guys in order to make themselves feel better about themselves. The crave for attention. Find yourself a rebound girl.
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Old 05-27-2010, 02:18 PM   #20
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And what are you gonna do if she tries to call and apologize?

Will that change the situation?
No. I think she may have caught something, so I definitely don't want any part of that. I was clean when I was with her and suddenly she has a rash two days after her incident?
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