Falling Pretty Hard For A Girl.... I Could Be A Rebound - Page 3

FlasHGordoN · 05-02-2010, 06:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DME46

Don't fall for anyone.

I'm falling for my girl, but she's probably going away to college in the fall. We'll see what happens, but I don't think its gonna be an easy time.

how old are you?

FloridaE46 · 05-13-2010, 09:51 AM

update..

well we're still seeing each other a lot. i went up to nyc this past weekend to look for a place and she came with me.. we've got a really deep connection and cant get enough of eachother..
but as we knew from the beginning i'd be leaving and thats happening next week.
im leaving for miami today and coming back sunday. probably the last time i'll see her for a while, gunna suck..

falcon1209 · 06-07-2010, 03:34 PM

WTB Update.

IDK man. Hate to play Devil's Advocate here, but if you really do enjoy spending time with her and there isn't any blaring obvious signs that she's just using you as a rebound, carry on.

The most obvious give away that she probably isn't just using you for a rebound is her hesitance to go all the way with you so fast. That is subject to interpretation, but overall it seems more legit than superficial. She is confessing her feelings for you more than you are for her. I think she has put more out on the line than you realize. Again, Devil's Advocate.

This just sounds too much like my current relationship. A bit different considering we were eachother's rebound. She had lost all romantic connection with her ex, and I was in a relationship I realized was a bad idea after the first week, but stuck it out for months anyways. Now the two of us are pretty happy together. I really haven't given the whole rebound idea a second thought in my own situation.

Maybe she just needed someone to show her that there are quality guys out there? Maybe you were the last straw that pushed her over the edge to get out of her bad relationship. Just because she was in a relationship for two years, doesn't mean it was all bliss and happiness.

In short: Let her follow your lead. Don't compromise your long term plans (NYC) and go with the flow. If she swims downstream with you, so be it.

EDIT: Missed the part about her looking for your place in NYC. Sounds like she wants to be a part of your life. an even bigger

05-13-2010, 09:51 AM	#42
FloridaE46 Registered User Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: NYC Posts: 708 My Ride: ***** View My Garage	update.. well we're still seeing each other a lot. i went up to nyc this past weekend to look for a place and she came with me.. we've got a really deep connection and cant get enough of eachother.. but as we knew from the beginning i'd be leaving and thats happening next week. im leaving for miami today and coming back sunday. probably the last time i'll see her for a while, gunna suck.. __________________ Removed annoying animated image - Tim330i Thats's Racist

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06-07-2010, 03:34 PM	#43
falcon1209 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Fox Valley Wisconsin Posts: 185 My Ride: 2000 BMW 328ci View My Garage	WTB Update. IDK man. Hate to play Devil's Advocate here, but if you really do enjoy spending time with her and there isn't any blaring obvious signs that she's just using you as a rebound, carry on. The most obvious give away that she probably isn't just using you for a rebound is her hesitance to go all the way with you so fast. That is subject to interpretation, but overall it seems more legit than superficial. She is confessing her feelings for you more than you are for her. I think she has put more out on the line than you realize. Again, Devil's Advocate. This just sounds too much like my current relationship. A bit different considering we were eachother's rebound. She had lost all romantic connection with her ex, and I was in a relationship I realized was a bad idea after the first week, but stuck it out for months anyways. Now the two of us are pretty happy together. I really haven't given the whole rebound idea a second thought in my own situation. Maybe she just needed someone to show her that there are quality guys out there? Maybe you were the last straw that pushed her over the edge to get out of her bad relationship. Just because she was in a relationship for two years, doesn't mean it was all bliss and happiness. In short: Let her follow your lead. Don't compromise your long term plans (NYC) and go with the flow. If she swims downstream with you, so be it. EDIT: Missed the part about her looking for your place in NYC. Sounds like she wants to be a part of your life. an even bigger