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Old 05-06-2010, 02:08 PM   #101
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if EVERYONE lived by that rule the world would divide itself by 0 and massive failure would occur.
Unlikely. There is always someone more successful in work / life in general.

In regard to ditching her being bad advice.

Should he remain in a relationship with someone who has issues with him?

Best short term advice, ditch her. She can move on to someone that makes her happy and OP can continue down life's path of self discovery while living the baller life atop the W.

One day, perhaps after OP is 25, he will wake up to a new perspective on relationships and empathize / see more intuitively into the actions and opinions of others. Doubtful that this will be the result of E46 forum chatter but more likely the result of self-examination after a learning period.

Live & Learn. Don't make the same mistake twice. All that good stuff.

PS - In line with my CO10 status I feel obligated to add that you should PIITB then ditch her.
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Old 05-06-2010, 02:21 PM   #103
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Old 05-06-2010, 02:24 PM   #104
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Yo dawgs !!! I'm a successfull killerman.I'm pretty sure I will own a yacht in a few years. I'm dating a loser hottie.What should I do ?

Facepalm@yourself.That's my advice.

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Old 05-06-2010, 03:56 PM   #105
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1) Smart-@$$ OP with lots of keyboard-fighting experience has a "unique" dilemma
2) Decides to post it hoping he'd get brosefs on his side to stroke his ego further
3) Thread doesn't turn out as expected for OP
4) OP uses previous interweb experience to retaliate with the keyboard and JPGs
5) Thread bothers OP tremendously so he has to keep coming back even after he's dished out a "/thread"
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Old 05-06-2010, 04:15 PM   #106
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I <3 how people get butthurt when the truth comes out.

Face it, you're not unique, you're not special, you're not a snowflake. You're another average person in this world like me and everyone else.

Our generations were brought up getting trophies for 5th place and being told that nobody is better than you.

That is 100% bullsh!t. You don't have what it takes to be an astronaut, everyone wants to be told that its okay, life will come to you and you can be anything you set your mind to.

You grow up, realize everyone has issues, and you really aren't as smart and bright as your parents once told you. Feelings of inferiority are your own fault, buck up, do something about it, and be proactive. Stop making excuses for yourself and saying "well thats just mean". But its okay, its the interwebz, people will throw up short comments and anything else that makes them feel rectified behind the saftey of their own keyboard.

I'm a veteran from bimmerforums, the age demographic alone over here makes questions like this hard to ask over here, you'll excuse me for giving ya the benefit of the doubt.

They didn't teach Englich in arkitekt shcoll ?

I stumbled into the freshman mixer here...

Yeah...what a loser for picking that chick. Does she make you feel better about yourself ?


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Old 05-06-2010, 04:37 PM   #107
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So I'm 23 in a month, Engineer by day, and college student at night. Her and I live in an upper class apartment with my roommate who is never there in a pretty large spread.

But she calls me selfish and says that I am self centered..

Shes 20 in 2 weeks(so shes 19 right now) and is a phlebotomist. What I don't understand is all of her friends are losers, she has 19 year old mother living at her parents house, she takes it upon herself to befriend any loser she can get around and I can't figure out why. Is this because she feels better around them, as opposed to me who has a ZHP parked out back, nice things, high paying job, and is driven?

I dunno..we were out at the boat show looking at ski boats and I had mentioned what qualities I was looking for in a ski boat, and shes telling me that its hard to be around someone that has the ability to sit there and has the luxury of making "man I sure would like that in my boat" claims. I can't tell if she is jealous of my success, or feels demeaned by it. But all of my friends are in their mid-late 20's, college degrees and professional jobs. I always sought out successful people and tried to model certain aspects of my life after that. I asked her the other night if she had ever considered the probability that for the rest of her life, I will probably make more money than her, and is she okay with that being that we are pooling it all together. Well that caused a pissing match dude...just ughhh..but its alot like this..she comes from a broken home, I come from pleasantville. My sister is an Financial analyist for Chase married to an Electrical Engineer, her sister is in pr0n (srsly) So in almost every aspect "my side" has "the upper hand" and I hate it, it sucks beacuse we genuinelly love each other but its hard when at every turn its "oh sharenow has ANOTHER situation/thing that I don't"(ie non-broken family, good job etc)

I dunno I just feel like she resents my success and drive..I work full time and attend school at night, why can't she be supportive? Am I out of line, is there something I can change or is she just gonna be a hater?

So if they hate them let 'dem hate and WATCH THE MONEY PILE UP!

(1) Is she just young and hates someone more successful than her?
(2) Low Self Esteem?
(3) Shes hot
I can tell just from this that you have a 2-inch cawk LOL
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Old 05-06-2010, 04:43 PM   #108
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So if they hate them let 'dem hate and WATCH THE MONEY PILE UP!
who the hell quotes 50 cent
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This thread has a typical formula:

1) Smart-@$$ OP with lots of keyboard-fighting experience has a "unique" dilemma
2) Decides to post it hoping he'd get brosefs on his side to stroke his ego further
3) Thread doesn't turn out as expected for OP
4) OP uses previous interweb experience to retaliate with the keyboard and JPGs
5) Thread bothers OP tremendously so he has to keep coming back even after he's dished out a "/thread"
^this
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I can tell just from this that you have a 2-inch cawk LOL
That's too big. Stop complimenting the OP.
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Didn't read all of the responces but...

Either you like starting fights with your girl to stroke your ego, or she has an inferiority problem, and none of it is going away until you two learn to communicate with eachother better than you have been.

Spend a little less time with her and her friends, and hang around your buddies for a day or two and let her hang around her people. Chill out, relax, get your mind off your problem with her, then have a quiet lunch or dinner date with her somewhere quiet and talk about your differences.

Just be mature about things, be supportive, but most importantly pay attention to what she says and what her tone is. If she's still whiney after all of that is over, then you know shes just complaining for the sake of attention and doesn't respect the fact that you're trying to find a mature way to settle this problem and get past it. If that's the case, your chick needs some growing up to do.
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