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Old 06-18-2010, 02:41 PM   #61
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I think JJR's trying to find out if she does it in an attention whorish way. Which it doesn't sound like she is doing.

My gf is getting good at seeing things from another point of view. The other day she said the producer at her job never eats and she was going to bring him breakfast and then asked me if that would look like she's interested. I told her it might and don't make him anything lol.
Your g/f sounds awesome. I mean if a girl /guy can see it from another point of view they are usually very understanding. My ex was very ignorant when it came to these type of situations.
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Old 06-18-2010, 03:30 PM   #62
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Your g/f sounds awesome. I mean if a girl /guy can see it from another point of view they are usually very understanding. My ex was very ignorant when it came to these type of situations.
she usually is but it's getting better. She doesn't realize what guys are like.
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Old 06-18-2010, 03:49 PM   #63
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I'm usually somewhere else, and I'll either find out later through a text message on her phone... or she'll tell me about it.
hmmm

i respect her for being honest with you, but why is she even telling you if she knows it gets you pissed off?

if it is someone that KNOWS you are with her... then ya, i would flip out just like you... smash a few heads lol

but if it is someone that you don't know, and they think your girl is single, personally i think no foul no harm.

she did her part as a girlfriend, said "no i have a boyfriend", and leave it at that....

once again, i'm not insisting that she hides it from you, but it really isn't any of your business as long as she does the right thing, and the person doesn't know she's taken

idk... i see things like this a little bit differently... i've seen guys go up to my girl, buy her a drink, then after a few minutes i see her pointing over.... lol, i wave and i'm cordial... and i'll save some money on drinks as well

as long as she goes home to you every night, you shouldn't be losing any sleep over this. if someone you know asks her out, give him a fist sandwich hold the mayo

(i'm still intrigued as to why you keep finding out lol)



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I think JJR's trying to find out if she does it in an attention whorish way. Which it doesn't sound like she is doing.

My gf is getting good at seeing things from another point of view. The other day she said the producer at her job never eats and she was going to bring him breakfast and then asked me if that would look like she's interested. I told her it might and don't make him anything lol.
ya... i've learned never to go out of your way for anyone that isn't a close friend, or family

somewhere down the line, someone will get the wrong impression, the wrong idea, and you have no idea what kind of bullshit that can turn into

ugh.... worse headache than a bad relationship
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Old 06-18-2010, 03:58 PM   #64
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hmmm

i respect her for being honest with you, but why is she even telling you if she knows it gets you pissed off?

if it is someone that KNOWS you are with her... then ya, i would flip out just like you... smash a few heads lol

but if it is someone that you don't know, and they think your girl is single, personally i think no foul no harm.

she did her part as a girlfriend, said "no i have a boyfriend", and leave it at that....

once again, i'm not insisting that she hides it from you, but it really isn't any of your business as long as she does the right thing, and the person doesn't know she's taken

idk... i see things like this a little bit differently... i've seen guys go up to my girl, buy her a drink, then after a few minutes i see her pointing over.... lol, i wave and i'm cordial... and i'll save some money on drinks as well

as long as she goes home to you every night, you shouldn't be losing any sleep over this. if someone you know asks her out, give him a fist sandwich hold the mayo <img src='http://forum.E46Fanatics.com/images/smilies/greddy.gif'>

(i'm still intrigued as to why you keep finding out lol)





ya... i've learned never to go out of your way for anyone that isn't a close friend, or family

somewhere down the line, someone will get the wrong impression, the wrong idea, and you have no idea what kind of bullshit that can turn into

ugh.... worse headache than a bad relationship
exactly dude. I told her if some cute chick brought me some home cooked breakfast I'd think she wanted me.
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exactly dude. I told her if some cute chick brought me some home cooked breakfast I'd think she wanted me.
how about i cook you some breakfast motherfcker
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Old 06-18-2010, 04:22 PM   #66
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(i'm still intrigued as to why you keep finding out lol)
I went through her phone one day. We were at a party and she told me to hold on to her phone. I went to make a phone call and briefly skimmed through the texts... see a text from some dude.

I open it and I read "Hey sorry we didn't get to hang out this week i was really busy haha."

I guess I should have stated that information from the beginning before everyone jumped the gun and thought I was overreacting for no reason.

I asked her about it and she tells me the dude is some "creepy kid" that always texts her asking to hang out. She tells him they will hang out, but never intends to actually hang out with him.

I explained to her that this is not only disrespectful to me, but she is also leading the kid on and giving him the wrong idea. Like I've said before, this kid does not want to hang out to grab lunch and talk about politics.

I didn't care so much that the kid kept bugging her to hang out, but the fact that she told him they WOULD hang out really got to me... and I pretty much flipped out on her. If he's some "creepy kid," all she has to do is tell him no thank you, and he will stop texting her. I told her this and she said, "I don't want to be mean."

Anyways, the next time he texts her she will be telling him no thank you. And if he refuses to halt the texting I'll take care of it then.
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I went through her phone one day. We were at a party and she told me to hold on to her phone. I went to make a phone call and briefly skimmed through the texts... see a text from some dude.

I open it and I read "Hey sorry we didn't get to hang out this week i was really busy haha."

I guess I should have stated that information from the beginning before everyone jumped the gun and thought I was overreacting for no reason.

I asked her about it and she tells me the dude is some "creepy kid" that always texts her asking to hang out. She tells him they will hang out, but never intends to actually hang out with him.

I explained to her that this is not only disrespectful to me, but she is also leading the kid on and giving him the wrong idea. Like I've said before, this kid does not want to hang out to grab lunch and talk about politics.

I didn't care so much that the kid kept bugging her to hang out, but the fact that she told him they WOULD hang out really got to me... and I pretty much flipped out on her. If he's some "creepy kid," all she has to do is tell him no thank you, and he will stop texting her. I told her this and she said, "I don't want to be mean."

Anyways, the next time he texts her she will be telling him no thank you. And if he refuses to halt the texting I'll take care of it then.
I think your girlfriend should have bought that up to your attention, but then again you're the jealous type. I agree with you on the disrespect part, but she needs to understand how to handle situations like this instead of always being told by you what she should do. It will workout in the end better that way.
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I think your girlfriend should have bought that up to your attention, but then again you're the jealous type. I agree with you on the disrespect part, but she needs to understand how to handle situations like this instead of always being told by you what she should do. It will workout in the end better that way.
She's very willing to compromise, something I really like about her. I just felt like she was going behind my back doing something, which was my initial reaction... that text got me heated... plus I was a little tipsy which didn't help.

She got mad at me for looking through her phone, she said if I would have just asked to look through it she would have let me and not cared. She's pretty chill so it helps me relax.

I'm only 20 so I'm still learning a lot about myself and relationships.
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how about i cook you some breakfast motherfcker
yes please

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I went through her phone one day. We were at a party and she told me to hold on to her phone. I went to make a phone call and briefly skimmed through the texts... see a text from some dude.

I open it and I read "Hey sorry we didn't get to hang out this week i was really busy haha."

I guess I should have stated that information from the beginning before everyone jumped the gun and thought I was overreacting for no reason.

I asked her about it and she tells me the dude is some "creepy kid" that always texts her asking to hang out. She tells him they will hang out, but never intends to actually hang out with him.

I explained to her that this is not only disrespectful to me, but she is also leading the kid on and giving him the wrong idea. Like I've said before, this kid does not want to hang out to grab lunch and talk about politics.

I didn't care so much that the kid kept bugging her to hang out, but the fact that she told him they WOULD hang out really got to me... and I pretty much flipped out on her. If he's some "creepy kid," all she has to do is tell him no thank you, and he will stop texting her. I told her this and she said, "I don't want to be mean."

Anyways, the next time he texts her she will be telling him no thank you. And if he refuses to halt the texting I'll take care of it then.
yeah dude you did nothing wrong. Girls just don't want to be put in an uncomfortable situation so they tell dudes they'll hang out. They're all stupid. lol
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thanks for the clarification DME.... i hope that creepy kid dies over the weekend

too harsh?
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yeah dude you did nothing wrong. Girls just don't want to be put in an uncomfortable situation so they tell dudes they'll hang out. They're all stupid. lol
Girls are so dumb. And intentionally naive, methinks.

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thanks for the clarification DME.... i hope that creepy kid dies over the weekend

too harsh?
Not harsh at all.
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Old 06-23-2010, 05:44 PM   #72
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I used to be there, i got jealous quite a bit. My gf told me that she can't stand jealousy and that if things did not change it would be over. That was 3 years ago, i am a completely different person now. I had to realize i wasnt jealous because i did not trust her it was just me being stupid and dealing with my own insecurity. I trust my girl and know she would never do anything to hurt me or jeporadize our relationship. Fast forward to now and we are getting married next year! I overcame the jealous thing and just stopped focusing on it, i realize that if a guy gives her attention it is expected somewhat cause she is a good looking girl. Now if a guy crosses the line then i will and have stepped in. But trust is key and learning to change and adapt can help you to become a better person. It did me!
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learn how to play a game !! i bet some dude is boning your gf when youre not around, haha, you dont have to be jelous, just do the same thing and watch later on she will be up on you. ignore her little by little and start looking for other chick but dont tell anyone because a lot of snitchers around these days. don't dump her just ignore a little and she'll notice it. if she ask tell her that youre just busy. if she doesn't notice that youre ignoring her, that means she doesn't care about you. meaning she's being hump by a dude and you need to move on. be a man you should listen to tom leykis show @ http://www.blowmeuptom.com/ you will learn a lot about relationship
if that's what you're learning about how to maintain a good, healthy relationship, I feel really bad for you, and worse for whoever you happen to be with.

Playing games in a relationship is a road to disaster, plain and simple. All you're doing is creating insecurity and mistrust in the relationship, which will just spiral into more of the same. Self-fulfilling prophecy is the phrase that comes to mind in that case.
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Tom Leykis & that gayass VH1 show (i forgot the name) is like Level 1 of knowledge of the game. Tariq Nasheed is Level 2. there's others but i dont feel like elaborating at 8am ...
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wtf is the name of that show? the guy used a really gay term...i think he said "peacocking"
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Unless I know the guy, if some dude talks to my girl I find myself uncontrollably aggravated. Then I find myself angry and irritable, especially towards my girlfriend.

I don't know what's wrong with me. I know my girlfriend only wants me, but I can't help but want to bash every guy's head in that asks her to hang out. I trust my girlfriend not to mess around, but I HATE other guys. Most guys don't give a sh1t if a girl is in a relationship or not. Seldom does a guy want to hang out with a girl just to be friendly, at least at this age (I'm 20.)

This isn't just with my current girlfriend, but I've had this problem throughout all my relationships. Its not an issue with women, its an issue with other guys. I feel like they are trying to piss on my tree, so to speak. I find the need to rip their throats out before they even think about pissing on my tree.


Is this immaturity? Insecurity? Masculinity?
you've answered your own question, no offense...but masculinity...NO!! you're masculine if you can let other guys hang around her & feel nothing bout it....if its killing you inside, why dont you hang around with girls also? this will even it up, am i right?
insecurity wont bring you anywhere...i've been through that phase too lol
if she happens to be cheating on you, just dump her that moment & move on...once a girl realizes you cant afford to lose her, she's gonna walk all over you...

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wtf is the name of that show? the guy used a really gay term...i think he said "peacocking"
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hey i kinda figured it out yall. im not so jealous anymore and it really really has to do with the girl and how much you trust her.

she was hanging out with her ex boyfriend today and my friend richard texts me (bad news man) and i was like what bad news??? (your girl is here hanging out with her ex)

and i jusay say haha i appreciate it buddy, but im not worried. because i know how much she likes me. plus there are plenty of fish in the sea if **** liek that happens. i still have a tinge of pissed off but its not how its used to be.
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hey i kinda figured it out yall. im not so jealous anymore and it really really has to do with the girl and how much you trust her.

she was hanging out with her ex boyfriend today and my friend richard texts me (bad news man) and i was like what bad news??? (your girl is here hanging out with her ex)

and i jusay say haha i appreciate it buddy, but im not worried. because i know how much she likes me. plus there are plenty of fish in the sea if **** liek that happens. i still have a tinge of pissed off but its not how its used to be.
I'd be mad as hell. That's some shady sh1t.
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hey i kinda figured it out yall. im not so jealous anymore and it really really has to do with the girl and how much you trust her.

she was hanging out with her ex boyfriend today and my friend richard texts me (bad news man) and i was like what bad news??? (your girl is here hanging out with her ex)

and i jusay say haha i appreciate it buddy, but im not worried. because i know how much she likes me. plus there are plenty of fish in the sea if **** liek that happens. i still have a tinge of pissed off but its not how its used to be.


wtf, your girl hanging out with her ex?
You don't just "hang" out with ex's..
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