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Old 06-08-2010, 03:25 PM   #1
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Seriously, how do you know if your girl (gf or wife) is cheating?

I'm sure this question has come up few times, I like to revisit.

The bottom line answer is probably we will never know unless we catch our girl cheating in action or saw evidence (on paper, pics, phone calls etc..)

But how about just from her actions (body and language). Can we really tell if our girl is cheating by the way she acts and talks to us?
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Old 06-08-2010, 03:28 PM   #2
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Ohhh..let me be the first to say, lately when I contact my girl (via text), she would text back, brb. And I don't hear from her for an hour or two. yeah, yeah...I know what you'all are thinking.
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what i'm getting to is... if you can't see through someone in a split second... well then you really aren't "with" them
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Old 06-08-2010, 04:03 PM   #4
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the eyes

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what i'm getting to is... if you can't see through someone in a split second... well then you really aren't "with" them
Care to elaborate? I'm curious.And slow.

In b4 "Class of 09 etc etc etc."

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If your gut tells you yes, listen to it. Heck, if you even have to ask the question, something is seriously wrong.
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Body language is what gives it away usually
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but it will continue on for pages, and hilarity will mosy likely ensue.
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Ohhh..let me be the first to say, lately when I contact my girl (via text), she would text back, brb. And I don't hear from her for an hour or two. yeah, yeah...I know what you'all are thinking.
Probably takes that long to clean all the semen off of herself.
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What if the cheating keeps your wife happy?

U can't sexually satisfy her say u work too much or your libido sux..

She isn't emotionally cheating on u but just physical. She loves u- wants to be with etc -

It's like u married guys looking at porn and beating off but she has her young guy?

What then OP?
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usually the sex slows a lot or just stops... tell tale sign shes cheating or just over you. also if there isnt much long conversations, just brief ones
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usually the sex slows a lot or just stops... tell tale sign shes cheating or just over you. also if there isnt much long conversations, just brief ones

Ehhh I wouldn't say that's true. When I first started going with my girl I used to hit it all the time( that's how they get you ) then you start catching feelings then they start pullin away sex cause yous are both emotionally connected instead of you just ****ing and her making love. I think every man knows what I'm talking about who's in a relationship over 1 year.
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Ehhh I wouldn't say that's true. When I first started going with my girl I used to hit it all the time( that's how they get you ) then you start catching feelings then they start pullin away sex cause yous are both emotionally connected instead of you just ****ing and her making love. I think every man knows what I'm talking about who's in a relationship over 1 year.
na.. there should always be a flow of sex going on...... at least thats how its been for me, and i was in a relationship for 5 years
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we still have sex 2-5 times a week(depending on schedules) but back when we first started we were doing that in 1 day. So I would consider that to be a slow down. So to say slowing sex experience would hint at cheating is hard to say.
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You'll never know if you don't want to believe it. I know people who have been cheated on and they were suspicious, but they were so afraid of the truth that suspicion is all it ever materialized in.

It's tough to be in love with someone and realistic at the same time. Ask a buddy.
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What if the cheating keeps your wife happy?

U can't sexually satisfy her say u work too much or your libido sux..

She isn't emotionally cheating on u but just physical. She loves u- wants to be with etc -

It's like u married guys looking at porn and beating off but she has her young guy?

What then OP?
If you actually believe this.
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If you actually believe this.
I was asking a question

btw I'm happy for u, with the divorce rate it's amazing if people last 10 years together
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What if the cheating keeps your wife happy?
I know you are being rhetorical right now, but are you kidding me with that question?

i'm all for compromise, but you've got to be kidding me with the whole "she isn't cheating emotionally"

physical and emotional goes hand in hand... if she doesn't love you emotionally, chances are she isn't going to be physical with you
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Well first if she's ever lied...she'll do it again.
Females will do this....when they see a guy.

"OMG he's so ugly." or something of that nature. Knowing us guys, we will look at him and that's exactly what they want us to do. Trying to make us think they're not attracted. When we look at a female we'll stare too hard...trust me she see's you looking at another female. If a female starts pulling little funny tricks on the phone or dressing different, changing any little thing that you've never seen her change.


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what if hes just a paranoid fuk
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Then I hope she's cheating on him
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