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Old 10-04-2010, 12:08 PM   #1
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everything i do makes my gf mad... want to end it but i love her

my gf of 4 months gets mad at every little thing and makes it a big deal and we always fight over the most retarded reasons like:

like one time we got into an argument because she couldnt hear me over the phone and she hung up on me angry saying she didnt want to talke to me because of bad reception i then called her twice and she didnt answer and i left it at that, later on she calls me furious saying i didnt call her enought times because 2 tries wasnt enough there is a minimim 3 tries before she picks up and the ****ed up part is she sat there looking at the phone ringing waiting for the 3rd call and

another time she was furious we went to mcdonalds and she wasnt "feeling pretty" and she refused to talk to me for letting her into the fine establishment wearing shorts and a hoodie without makeup.

and another time i was folding her laundry anjd puttng it into organized piles that eventually i had to hang up/ put into drawers that were color coded while she sat in bed sick and shes said something and i didnt hear her so i said yeah and all of a sudden she got mad i wasnt paying attention to her and she was like i NEED you to tell me im pretty ALL the time or else she wont be happy granted she is a sweet and loving girl but she can instantly turn sour in a split second for no reason and we just get into arguments

its all these little crazy blowups, she loves me and vice versa but my life has turned for the worse because most of the time were arguing and i was happeier single and i feel i dont deserve her anger and frustration and last night i told her how she treats me like crap and she had a panic attack and passed out over the phone how do i end this without making her pass out again

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Old 10-04-2010, 12:50 PM   #2
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You need to move on from this chick. This should be a period of happiness, not like what you described. It is only going to get harder and I can't even stand the sound of this gal already. Dump, move on.
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Old 10-04-2010, 12:51 PM   #3
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Old 10-04-2010, 12:54 PM   #4
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Old 10-04-2010, 01:03 PM   #5
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if you don't leave that relationship it's going to be M3_for_her very soon. She sounds brutal, first 4 months should be all sex and no arguments.
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You don't need **** in your life its not worth it ... I know exactly what ur going through. Been there..."New food is great to eat but if it gets rotten, smelly, and poisoned it will make u sick... poss. worse " throw out the trash....

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Old 10-04-2010, 01:50 PM   #8
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She's a b*** ... end it.
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Old 10-04-2010, 02:11 PM   #10
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my gf of 4 months gets mad at every little thing and makes it a big deal and we always fight over the most retarded reasons like:

like one time we got into an argument because she couldnt hear me over the phone and she hung up on me angry saying she didnt want to talke to me because of bad reception i then called her twice and she didnt answer and i left it at that, later on she calls me furious saying i didnt call her enought times because 2 tries wasnt enough there is a minimim 3 tries before she picks up and the ****ed up part is she sat there looking at the phone ringing waiting for the 3rd call and

another time she was furious we went to mcdonalds and she wasnt "feeling pretty" and she refused to talk to me for letting her into the fine establishment wearing shorts and a hoodie without makeup.

and another time i was folding her laundry anjd puttng it into organized piles that eventually i had to hang up/ put into drawers that were color coded while she sat in bed sick and shes said something and i didnt hear her so i said yeah and all of a sudden she got mad i wasnt paying attention to her and she was like i NEED you to tell me im pretty ALL the time or else she wont be happy granted she is a sweet and loving girl but she can instantly turn sour in a split second for no reason and we just get into arguments

its all these little crazy blowups, she loves me and vice versa but my life has turned for the worse because most of the time were arguing and i was happeier single and i feel i dont deserve her anger and frustration and last night i told her how she treats me like crap and she had a panic attack and passed out over the phone how do i end this without making her pass out again


How old are the two of you? She sounds like a princess and a drama queen. You sound whooped and blinded by the booty.

Let me guess, everytime she turns up the drama you fold for the sake of keeping the peace. The only reason she keeps acting like that is because it works on you. It's not normal and you are smart enough to realize it's unfair.

Don't diminsh your self-worth. The person you choose to partner with should enrich your life and make you feel good. Relationships take work but in the end you should always get more positive energy out of a relationship than negative. The reverse situation is unhealthy, unfulfilling, and a waste of your time.

Cut this broad loose and let her find some other dude to make miserable. Give her time to reflect on how she treats people. Four months is like a summer fling. Cut it loose before you get in too deep.

There are way too many other fish out there.
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Old 10-04-2010, 02:25 PM   #11
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get out...now!

let her grow up a bit, then try again in a few years.
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Old 10-04-2010, 02:26 PM   #12
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shes 22 and has been in several relationships and im 20 firs gf granted i have my experience with girls but always refused to date until this one and she already has a career as a nurse and ima broke college student and all my money i made during the summer i spent on her, i understand that she works hard for her money and has tuition to pay but if i cant take care of myself how do i take care of her and she says i dont put enough in the relationship even though i travel 45 mins one way to see her when shes off and spent what little money i have on her and she demands i treat her like a princess but on occasion she will pay for me and stuff

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it sounds like you dont pay her enough attention
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You're obviously not going marry this girl. Dump her, film it, we laugh together.
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Old 10-04-2010, 03:47 PM   #16
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i will diagnose from the title alone:

she's a controlling user / and you're a people pleaser.

not a good combo.

get out.
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Not worth the headache. Doesn't matter if she's pretty or sweet. Ignore her and move on. Not worth it

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my gf of 4 months gets mad at every little thing and makes it a big deal and we always fight over the most retarded reasons like:

like one time we got into an argument because she couldnt hear me over the phone and she hung up on me angry saying she didnt want to talke to me because of bad reception i then called her twice and she didnt answer and i left it at that, later on she calls me furious saying i didnt call her enought times because 2 tries wasnt enough there is a minimim 3 tries before she picks up and the ****ed up part is she sat there looking at the phone ringing waiting for the 3rd call and

another time she was furious we went to mcdonalds and she wasnt "feeling pretty" and she refused to talk to me for letting her into the fine establishment wearing shorts and a hoodie without makeup.

and another time i was folding her laundry anjd puttng it into organized piles that eventually i had to hang up/ put into drawers that were color coded while she sat in bed sick and shes said something and i didnt hear her so i said yeah and all of a sudden she got mad i wasnt paying attention to her and she was like i NEED you to tell me im pretty ALL the time or else she wont be happy granted she is a sweet and loving girl but she can instantly turn sour in a split second for no reason and we just get into arguments

its all these little crazy blowups, she loves me and vice versa but my life has turned for the worse because most of the time were arguing and i was happeier single and i feel i dont deserve her anger and frustration and last night i told her how she treats me like crap and she had a panic attack and passed out over the phone how do i end this without making her pass out again
I'm confused... what are you asking?
How to change her behavior towards you or how to breakup with her without hurting and or making her "pass out?
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