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Old 11-02-2010, 01:00 PM   #1
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Unhappy How to bring about weight problems

So if your significant other is getting fat and you want him/her to lose weight, how should that be brought upon? I mean it's a very sensitive subject to talk about and you wouldn't want to hurt their feelings.
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Old 11-02-2010, 01:18 PM   #2
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Try to pick her up and in the middle of it go "uhhh nevermind"... she'll get the clue
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Old 11-02-2010, 02:10 PM   #3
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take her to the gym, ask her to go running...she'll get it
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Old 11-02-2010, 02:33 PM   #4
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Try to pick her up and in the middle of it go "uhhh nevermind"... she'll get the clue
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Old 11-02-2010, 03:06 PM   #5
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talk about cholesterol and blood pressure and heathy lifestyles, etc.

Thats what my woman says to me.
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take her to the gym, ask her to go running...she'll get it
this is probably a pretty good way. Or watch the Biggest Loser with her
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If the girl has never been athletic or into working out or outdoor activities, you have basically no chance. If she was into a sport or something, i'd suggest you take her azz out and play/be active with something. She'll realize how outta shape she is and will be more open to working out regularly to be better at said activity.
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Buy her a treadmill for Christmas, and dieting books.

Note: Christmas is almost 2 months after you stop having sex with her, which is now.
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Old 11-02-2010, 03:51 PM   #9
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Tell her to go look in the mirror.
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Old 11-02-2010, 11:17 PM   #10
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Old 11-03-2010, 12:50 AM   #11
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Old 11-03-2010, 02:40 AM   #12
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That's the catch 22 for leaving a woman in the kitchen...they eat...

But seriously trying being more active yourself and she will either pick up on it naturally or be resistive if it leads to her being resistive you can have an adult, keyword adult, conversation and go from there. I definitely agree with Keno's comment if she was once an active person she'll be more receptive if she has always been a bon bon queen it's going to take some incentive perhaps
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Best advice I can think of from someone who hasn't been in this situation would be, as mentioned, to find an activity you both enjoy. It doesn't necessarily mean going to the gym. Do something fun, since you're in Cali you could try trail running, mountain biking or climbing. All those things are outdoor sports which I think would be easier to mask as just a fun activity instead of bootcamp.
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terrible diet will crush most attempts at exercising/active lifestyle

don't take her to fat people food places
don't eat "bad" foods around her
don't let her overeat
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Old 11-03-2010, 08:50 AM   #15
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use "we"! i think we should eat more healthy foods. i think we should be more active. i think we should take better care of ourselves. and then take initiative and start doing these things. it will benefit you both.
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use "we"! i think we should eat more healthy foods. i think we should be more active. i think we should take better care of ourselves. and then take initiative and start doing these things. it will benefit you both.
That's what I did. I emphasize the importance of eating healthy and living healthy. I also make sure we work out together - spin class twice a week, boot camp saturday mornings, and personal training once a week. Probably need to add one or two more days of training though.
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Try to pick her up and in the middle of it go "uhhh nevermind"... she'll get the clue
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Start saying things like "don't you think you should go for the Salad instead" whenever she orders anything at a restaurant (unless of course it IS a Garden salad)
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