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Old 07-20-2012, 11:47 AM   #261
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They pretty much just do like in AA, get up and talk about one thing they are doing that's good I guess and telling the group something they did that's bad. They're not allowed to discuss details individually and they get a sponsor that they call once a day to discuss how they are feeling. She is also going once a week to a psychologist and once a week to a sex therapist. I think before she felt like she was two different people with two different goals and running with the wrong crowd. She doesn't drink now except maybe a beer at dinner with me, she does what I ask her to do and tries to stay busy at home with pool planning, cleaning the house, making dinner, organizing etc. and she's wanting to be one person. The medication helps she says to take away her anxiety. She's a bored housewife, I told her I would quit my job to be at home more. I can get more involved in my startup consulting stuff again, but she says I can't really help her, she has to get it together herself. at least, that's what she says. I don't believe anything until I see it.
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Old 07-20-2012, 12:21 PM   #262
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They pretty much just do like in AA, get up and talk about one thing they are doing that's good I guess and telling the group something they did that's bad. They're not allowed to discuss details individually and they get a sponsor that they call once a day to discuss how they are feeling. She is also going once a week to a psychologist and once a week to a sex therapist. I think before she felt like she was two different people with two different goals and running with the wrong crowd. She doesn't drink now except maybe a beer at dinner with me, she does what I ask her to do and tries to stay busy at home with pool planning, cleaning the house, making dinner, organizing etc. and she's wanting to be one person. The medication helps she says to take away her anxiety. She's a bored housewife, I told her I would quit my job to be at home more. I can get more involved in my startup consulting stuff again, but she says I can't really help her, she has to get it together herself. at least, that's what she says. I don't believe anything until I see it.
Tell her to get a job.
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Old 07-20-2012, 12:28 PM   #263
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Tell her to get a job.
I've been telling her that since before we got married. She's never worked a REAL job in her life so that's a big step.
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Dude, her dad is loaded and shes had maids and nannies, etc etc. since she was born so it's a little different to come out of your little bubble to the real world as we consider it.
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Who the hell said anything about money? They go after your soul, THE SOUL MAN, and your wallet.....Seeing as how she doesn't need that. THE SOUL


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I've been telling her that since before we got married. She's never worked a REAL job in her life so that's a big step.
At the very least have her volunteer part-time.
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Tell her to volunteer then. If being around the house all day is leading to her desire to crave sexual encounters, something needs to be done to change that picture. Loading the dishwasher isn't going to cut it.

Sounds like daddy might be the issue too. How is their relationship?
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agree on volunteering. a good way to ease into it, without having a ton of responsibility or worrying about a job interview, etc. just a few hours a week or day. and she'd feel good about helping people.
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Never understood how sticking a person addicted to sex in a room with a bunch of other people who are addicted to sex could ever end well.
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I don't believe anything until I see it.
Ok, I'll count this as progress. At the beginning of this thread you were straight drinking the kool-aid hardcore man.

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Who the hell said anything about money? They go after your soul, THE SOUL MAN, and your wallet.....Seeing as how she doesn't need that. THE SOUL


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She wants to work with animals so I think she's going to reconsider volunteering at the animal shelter nearby. She really wants to work for Animal Control and do the NACA training, but not sure that's going to workout.
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She wants to work with animals so I think she's going to reconsider volunteering at the animal shelter nearby. She really wants to work for Animal Control and do the NACA training, but not sure that's going to workout.
Well what do you have to lose at this point?
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They pretty much just do like in AA, get up and talk about one thing they are doing that's good I guess and telling the group something they did that's bad. They're not allowed to discuss details individually and they get a sponsor that they call once a day to discuss how they are feeling. She is also going once a week to a psychologist and once a week to a sex therapist. I think before she felt like she was two different people with two different goals and running with the wrong crowd. She doesn't drink now except maybe a beer at dinner with me, she does what I ask her to do and tries to stay busy at home with pool planning, cleaning the house, making dinner, organizing etc. and she's wanting to be one person. The medication helps she says to take away her anxiety. She's a bored housewife, I told her I would quit my job to be at home more. I can get more involved in my startup consulting stuff again, but she says I can't really help her, she has to get it together herself. at least, that's what she says. I don't believe anything until I see it.
Is there mention of hiring a pool boy yet?
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Is there mention of hiring a pool boy yet?
Master Po, as history tells us, a pool boy or pool girl is
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Continued therapy for her. I may go in for spouse counseling. just one day at a time.

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I am deep under cover, married,home, baby on the way and I don't know if I'll be coming out alive, oh the drama!

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