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Old 07-24-2014, 06:55 AM   #1
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Wedding in a few days

I'm getting married on august 2nd. Both me and the lady are excited for it. I feel calm and relaxed, but she keeps telling me that she's nervous or anxious... I suffer from anxiety, but I haven't felt anxious about this at all. Is it normal to feel anxious beforehand? I understand it's a lot more difficult for her since she's leaving her family and friends and moving from Toronto to Virginia... But are her feelings normal and mine not?


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Old 07-24-2014, 07:50 AM   #2
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Both are pretty normal. You also have to bear on mind you are not sacrificing as much of your life as she is being uprooted (by her choice) to come to Virginia to start her next chapter on life with you. So it is probably the combination of all of the life anxieties bottled up in to one event. Some positive reaffirmation about the decision you're both making might help ease her nerves a bit.
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Old 07-24-2014, 08:04 AM   #3
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Both are pretty normal. You also have to bear on mind you are not sacrificing as much of your life as she is being uprooted (by her choice) to come to Virginia to start her next chapter on life with you. So it is probably the combination of all of the life anxieties bottled up in to one event. Some positive reaffirmation about the decision you're both making might help ease her nerves a bit.

Thanks! That's what I was thinking. I guess it's just pre-wedding jitters for her, hopefully that fades away soon after the wedding


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Old 07-24-2014, 08:36 AM   #4
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It'll go away, everyone has those feelings.
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Old 07-24-2014, 08:38 AM   #5
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It'll go away, everyone has those feelings.

That's what I thought which is why I found it odd that I didn't lol


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Old 07-24-2014, 09:29 AM   #6
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I didn't have those feelings this far ahead of the wedding either. Wait until the morning of and everything is rolling, then it'll hit you. I wasn't nervous so to speak, just anxious/excited.
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Old 07-24-2014, 09:57 AM   #7
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I didn't have those feelings this far ahead of the wedding either. Wait until the morning of and everything is rolling, then it'll hit you. I wasn't nervous so to speak, just anxious/excited.
+1....got that "I'm nervous/excited" feeling that kinda makes you want to throw up when you wake up in the morning.

Special feels.
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Old 07-24-2014, 02:18 PM   #8
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+1....got that "I'm nervous/excited" feeling that kinda makes you want to throw up when you wake up in the morning.

Special feels.
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Old 07-24-2014, 08:07 PM   #9
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Nope, not nervous or anxious at all, not my style. lol My wife wasn't either, we both don't stress our self out much and it was supposed to be a fun day, not a stressful one.
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Old 07-28-2014, 06:00 PM   #10
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Some nervousness is ok.

How did you guys meet? Does she work/study in VA?
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Old 07-29-2014, 11:28 AM   #11
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Some nervousness is ok.



How did you guys meet? Does she work/study in VA?

She lives in Toronto. I met her at a convention that I went to many years ago. I was 16 at the time and she was 14, now I'm 24 and she's 22. We talked at first then lost touch and reconnected 4 years ago, been together since


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Old 07-29-2014, 11:39 AM   #12
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You've done long distance ever since?
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Old 07-30-2014, 05:40 AM   #13
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You've done long distance ever since?

Yeah long distance for 4 years, I go and visit her every 2-3 months though


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Old 07-30-2014, 09:46 AM   #14
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I'd be scared too knowing I was only going to have ONE VAGINA FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE

Just stirring the pot of course, congrats on the upcoming nuptials! Personally haven't been there yet but can only imagine pre-wedding jitters and anxiety occur in a good amount of people, don't let it take over though.
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Old 08-01-2014, 11:29 AM   #15
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Good luck this weekend, hope it all goes as planned.
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Old 08-01-2014, 11:05 PM   #16
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i'm crashing this wedding.


op, send me the address please.
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Old 08-03-2014, 12:59 PM   #17
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i'm crashing this wedding.


op, send me the address please.

Lol, it's Deir El Harf, Lebanon. Didn't see you there!

Wedding went great and there wasn't any nervousness on either side on the day of!


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Old 08-06-2014, 10:38 PM   #18
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Post pics of said wife so our resident psychic can predict your futures.


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Old 08-19-2014, 11:54 PM   #19
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Im a wedding Photographer Professionally so I deal with weddings every week. Everything you are feeling are perfectly normal! Most of the time the bride is always going to me more stressed because they did 99% of the planning and are wanting everything to go smooth. Grooms are almost ALWAYS super chill untill about 10-15 min before the ceremony How you react in that time can always tell me if you are going to cry when you first see her. lol
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