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Old 01-01-2013, 08:27 PM   #281
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That sounds plausible to me, but I am also one to give the benefit of the doubt like if a persons life is too hectic or that's just not how their personality is.
personality... might be on to something there; bottom line though, if a girl is into you, she will make the time.
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:25 AM   #282
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:44 AM   #283
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personality... might be on to something there; bottom line though, if a girl is into you, she will make the time.
Seems that way. Doesn't mean I'm keeping my options closed, but it definitely looks like we're not gonna get serious any time soon.
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Old 01-02-2013, 02:02 AM   #284
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no love so no reason for me to post in love line thread

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Old 01-02-2013, 02:36 AM   #285
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personality... might be on to something there; bottom line though, if a girl is into you, she will make the time.
My ex was like that, very independent but I do agree people make time for those they care about.

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no love so no reason for me to post in love line thread
I have no love yet I post here. what's going on kushy?
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:42 PM   #286
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That sounds plausible to me, but I am also one to give the benefit of the doubt like if a persons life is too hectic or that's just not how their personality is.
I don't care how busy a person is, they will make time for the most important person in their current social life. If you aren't the most important, it won't change.

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Oh I know she's stupid busy. She's never lied or bailed on me to just not go out. Every time we do go out though, everything is fine and great. I just think she's one of those girls that really doesn't need a guy around to be dependent on. We'll see how things go later this week when we go out again. It's been almost two weeks since our last date, but she's been out of town.
I think she's using you to fill the void while she looks for what she really wants. I also don't know the whole story, but busy is a lame excuse that can't be debated.

Focus on you, and only you. People will see themselves out on their own.

$100 says you ask her, "so what exactly are we," and she disappears into the wind
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:45 PM   #287
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I don't care how busy a person is, they will make time for the most important person in their current social life. If you aren't the most important, it won't change.



I think she's using you to fill the void while she looks for what she really wants. I also don't know the whole story, but busy is a lame excuse that can't be debated.

Focus on you, and only you. People will see themselves out on their own.

$100 says you ask her, "so what exactly are we," and she disappears into the wind
agreed. I know personally that any time I was into a person I would fit them in some how. I will never in my life buy that "I'm just busy" line. It's an easy way to keep your distance without being upfront about it. This just happened to my good friend and he's like well she does have a lot going on. Well fuuck that. If someone is choosing other sh1t over me then they can go to hell.
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agreed. I know personally that any time I was into a person I would fit them in some how. I will never in my life buy that "I'm just busy" line. It's an easy way to keep your distance without being upfront about it. This just happened to my good friend and he's like well she does have a lot going on. Well fuuck that. If someone is choosing other sh1t over me then they can go to hell.
Until someone challenges what they're doing, if that makes sense. As long as the other person believes 'they're just super busy, I'll give them space,' the person will continue to do it and lead you on while they continue looking. The second you've figured out their plan, they just bail to avoid confronting you about it, hence the 'busy' lines instead of just telling you.
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Until someone challenges what they're doing, if that makes sense. As long as the other person believes 'they're just super busy, I'll give them space,' the person will continue to do it and lead you on while they continue looking. The second you've figured out their plan, they just bail to avoid confronting you about it, hence the 'busy' lines instead of just telling you.
yea exactly. Some people just say ohh ok let me know when you're around. You either deal with it, ask them what they have to do, or make plans and hope they don't break them.
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makes sense but it sounds like there is no latitude, i mean sometimes i legitimately am busy and while i want to make time i can't. If it were a role reversal that person would cut me of needlessly no?
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I learned a long time ago to not put too much expectations in every girl I met. In the past year I bet I met 50-100 girls, including numbers, but nothing comes of most because of many reasons (timing, alcohol, etc...). Most guys will meet one, and do everything they think they should, which includes pretty much begging, and waste too much time. Meet--contact--invitation, if they don't oblige I act like I never met them and move to the next one. Sure, I could try harder and some may accept if I try hard enough, but I don't worry about it.


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Old 01-02-2013, 02:04 PM   #292
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makes sense but it sounds like there is no latitude, i mean sometimes i legitimately am busy and while i want to make time i can't. If it were a role reversal that person would cut me of needlessly no?
You can make time, or at the very least, show that you're thinking about the person and continually try to make plans with them. But only so many times can you legitimately not have an hour of free time, and be telling the truth. If you want the person bad enough, things start to become less important.
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Old 01-02-2013, 02:37 PM   #293
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You can make time, or at the very least, show that you're thinking about the person and continually try to make plans with them. But only so many times can you legitimately not have an hour of free time, and be telling the truth. If you want the person bad enough, things start to become less important.
exactly. I've skipped workouts, food preparation and dude hang outs in the past month. Before her, my time looked like this. Wake up, work, workout, cook food, chill with roommates and bs. All my time was accounted for but I made some changes a few times a week. Like you said, if you want to hangout, you will.
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exactly. I've skipped workouts, food preparation and dude hang outs in the past month. Before her, my time looked like this. Wake up, work, workout, cook food, chill with roommates and bs. All my time was accounted for but I made some changes a few times a week. Like you said, if you want to hangout, you will.
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exactly. I've skipped workouts, food preparation and dude hang outs in the past month. Before her, my time looked like this. Wake up, work, workout, cook food, chill with roommates and bs. All my time was accounted for but I made some changes a few times a week. Like you said, if you want to hangout, you will.

But you had way too much time available to begin with
Sure you had it all accounted for... but except for work, it was all your own choosing for fun time

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But you had way too much time available to begin with
Sure you had it all accounted for... but except for work, it was all your own choosing for fun time

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but yes bottom line is ... if you want to, you will carve out as much time as possible to see the person
and you will do whatever it takes
back in college, i scrounged together money to fly out from new hampshire back to california to see a girl (who became my gf) for less than 36 hours while spending close to 18 hours in travel time because of non-direct flights + bus ride to and from boston airport
ah the crazy and foolish things we do
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Old 01-02-2013, 07:27 PM   #298
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I agree with the mindset that if they want to see you, they will make time. There are reasonable excuses, but as has been mentioned if it seems vague, they're being just that for a reason. They're not that into it.
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Old 01-02-2013, 11:22 PM   #299
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makes sense but it sounds like there is no latitude, i mean sometimes i legitimately am busy and while i want to make time i can't. If it were a role reversal that person would cut me of needlessly no?
how long does it take you type a text? Sometimes life is busy and you may not be able to see a girl for a week plus, but that doesn't mean effort can't be made in other areas.. phone calls, text during the day etc... these are easy things and don't take a lot of time.
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I agree and learned my lesson on that the hard way...a text message isn't hard at all, just to say hey i'm doing this etc.
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