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Old 02-14-2013, 02:00 PM   #761
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Old 02-14-2013, 02:11 PM   #762
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How does one get a girl to really like them without allowing then to "love" them lol.
Show interest without talking about the future of the relationship, talking about feelings, or what you're looking for in a relationship.

TL;DR: ambiguity

You can have extreme feelings and not have to show it or state it.
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Old 02-14-2013, 02:24 PM   #763
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Old 02-14-2013, 02:37 PM   #764
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Show interest without talking about the future of the relationship, talking about feelings, or what you're looking for in a relationship.

TL;DR: ambiguity

You can have extreme feelings and not have to show it or state it.
I do that to a certain extend. I'm about to book a cruise that's 3 months out though so I think that kind of speaks for at least the immediate future lol
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Old 02-14-2013, 02:40 PM   #765
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Serious question Solly. Why haven't y'all made it Facebook official? In my experience, that usually is a red flag.
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Old 02-14-2013, 03:27 PM   #766
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I am not even friends on facebook with mine...I guess it would bring up more questions then the other is ready for yet? Strict father, family, friends stuff etc?
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Old 02-14-2013, 03:53 PM   #767
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Serious question Solly. Why haven't y'all made it Facebook official? In my experience, that usually is a red flag.
Not sure. Haven't talked about it or really cared much at this point. I'm sure it will be up soon. I usually tend to agree that it is a red flag but I know a few people in good relationships that aren't fb official. If I do bring it up in a few weeks and she is apprehensive then I'll probably feel a little funny. I don't think it has anything to do with me personally but more about her being judged by acquaintances about being in a relationship 9 months after breaking off an engagement. I know she shouldn't care about that but she has mentioned how people thought she was the bad guy for ending it. If she doesn't say anything in a few weeks I'll bring it up though. If she doesn't want to do it I'm not sure how I'll react.

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Old 02-14-2013, 04:50 PM   #768
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I think a large chunk of your reaction is going to be based off of her body language and reasoning. There may be a logical explanation as you already pointed out but her body language is what's going to "sell" that or not. Based on what you've said I don't think it would be an issue and I hope that's the case.

Got a call from the restaurant to ask what seating I'd like for my reservation, things are looking good for tonight.
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Old 02-14-2013, 05:07 PM   #769
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I think a large chunk of your reaction is going to be based off of her body language and reasoning. There may be a logical explanation as you already pointed out but her body language is what's going to "sell" that or not. Based on what you've said I don't think it would be an issue and I hope that's the case.

Got a call from the restaurant to ask what seating I'd like for my reservation, things are looking good for tonight.
Yea it's not like she's fuucking around on me. There's no doubt in my mind that she is 100% into me.
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Old 02-14-2013, 05:17 PM   #770
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Old 02-14-2013, 05:18 PM   #771
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Not sure. Haven't talked about it or really cared much at this point. I'm sure it will be up soon. I usually tend to agree that it is a red flag but I know a few people in good relationships that aren't fb official. If I do bring it up in a few weeks and she is apprehensive then I'll probably feel a little funny. I don't think it has anything to do with me personally but more about her being judged by acquaintances about being in a relationship 9 months after breaking off an engagement. I know she shouldn't care about that but she has mentioned how people thought she was the bad guy for ending it. If she doesn't say anything in a few weeks I'll bring it up though. If she doesn't want to do it I'm not sure how I'll react.
Nah man, I wouldn't even bring it up. It's facebook, who cares? Honestly, I know a ton of people (like you said) who are very serious and aren't facebook official. I tend to avoid it personally.
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Old 02-14-2013, 05:57 PM   #772
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**** that bro. don't bring it up, it really does not matter. FB does not need to know your relationship status.
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You may not thinks it's important, but trust me, it is to most females that take FB seriously. She hinted he needed to adjust his photos on FB, so she takes it serious.

1. She wasn't trying to hurt her ex's feelings
2. She didn't want to be judged, like you said
3. Se doesn't want to change it because she's wanting to wait a little longer

It's not a big deal, but its something that shouldn't be ignored. I just noticed it Solly, and was curious.
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Old 02-15-2013, 06:59 AM   #774
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You may not thinks it's important, but trust me, it is to most females that take FB seriously. She hinted he needed to adjust his photos on FB, so she takes it serious.

1. She wasn't trying to hurt her ex's feelings
2. She didn't want to be judged, like you said
3. Se doesn't want to change it because she's wanting to wait a little longer

It's not a big deal, but its something that shouldn't be ignored. I just noticed it Solly, and was curious.
Yea np man. I'm always open for these discussions.
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Old 02-15-2013, 11:35 AM   #775
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Nah man, I wouldn't even bring it up. It's facebook, who cares? Honestly, I know a ton of people (like you said) who are very serious and aren't facebook official. I tend to avoid it personally.
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**** that bro. don't bring it up, it really does not matter. FB does not need to know your relationship status.
These are both usually my feelings towards the issue. Fvck FB, I hate it for the most part. If it wasn't great at keeping in contact with friends I've made along the way I wouldn't have it. I'm never the one to talk to people I hang out w/ on a regular basis with on FB, not usually updating or tagging based on where I head for the night.

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You may not thinks it's important, but trust me, it is to most females that take FB seriously. She hinted he needed to adjust his photos on FB, so she takes it serious.

1. She wasn't trying to hurt her ex's feelings
2. She didn't want to be judged, like you said
3. Se doesn't want to change it because she's wanting to wait a little longer

It's not a big deal, but its something that shouldn't be ignored. I just noticed it Solly, and was curious.
However, I do have to agree with these points. I've been on her side of this in the past...didn't want to add a "new" relationship to FB b/c of recently falling out of another. It didn't mean I was any less committed to the new relationship, however while looking back it was something I now realize meant I wasn't necessarily ready. Not to say it is her case any at all, but just a bit of personal point of view.

I'm not one to make much of FB though as I've said above, to some people it definitely is a big deal. Solly in your case I most definitely wouldn't make it something I'd overreact about...but maybe just a sticky note for the back of your mind.
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is there a way, during 69, to not get a brown nose?
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Old 02-15-2013, 01:57 PM   #778
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So throwback.

That Girl A situation that I would always mention. Looooong story short, we cut it off over a month ago. We talked on the phone and she was the one saying how she doesn't have time yada yada and that she doesn't want to get into a mindset of a relationship at this point. I kinda got upset because at one point, it felt like she was dumping ME, when I was intending on doing it in that phone call. Whatever. I said thats fine, and I stopped texting her since then. I haven't tried contacting her at all.

Here's where it gets strange. Keep in mind, I'm leaving out a lot of bullshit rants and crap that escalated us to that level. I noticed around one of our 'shitty' situation/arguments, she unfollowed me on Instagram. After we had our phone call as mentioned, I was pretty pissed, so I blocked her on facebook and I unfollowed her on Instagram. Childish to some I know, but whatever. I had to do whatever I could to get my mind off her and bounce back. Anyways. A week goes by after our phone call. Superbowl Sunday rolls around, she texts me that Nadia Ali retweeted her (we went to see her in concert in late december). I thought wtf? She NEVER texts me first. Ever. She only did that during the first couple weeks we started dating, after that, she literally never texted me first to start a conversation or anything. I played it short, didn't really care to talk to her. Few days go by. She sends me a picture of a grumpy cat meme. Again, wtf. We used to send each other memes to act "cute" in the first couple weeks of dating when everything was great. Just replied with a simple lol, thats it.

Here's where the **** gets really strange. She unfollowed me on Instagram WEEKS ago. This past Tuesday, I notice she liked two of my pictures and commented on a picture from a hike saying "how cool!" or something like that. Not to sound like a paranoid CSI agent or anything, but she like two pictures of mine, one from Sunday, one from Friday night. These pics would be buried deep in her newsfeed. And not to reiterate, SHES NOT EVEN ****ING FOLLOWING ME. That means she had to have searched my user name deliberately, and liked the pictures. I didn't even reply to the comment. I triple checked my list of followers, shes not on there. I checked her list of followers, I'm not on there. So wtf. And again this morning, she liked a picture I uploaded yesterday afternoon.

I want to know if its just a **** up and she's still actually following me, or if she's manually searching for my user name every time.

I mean, she was the one saying how she doesn't want to date anymore because she has too much going on and she doesn't want to get into that sort of mindset. Ok, so I gave you what you want and completely stopped hitting you up.

I've already moved on and started dating other people here and there. I was beyond pissed that first week after our talk, it took a lot for me to bounce back and just get in a better mood again. Not gonna lie, I was pretty butthurt.

Sigh. /rant
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Old 02-15-2013, 02:13 PM   #779
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Girl A is messing with you. Now that she see's she can't control your actions like before she is testing the waters again. She is searching for reactions out of you to see if she can keep you around and have things like before. Guess the grass wasn't as green as she thought on the other side. She's trouble and definitely not worth the time go on and enjoy your greener side of the pasture and don't let her get any weeds in it.
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Old 02-15-2013, 02:13 PM   #780
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How was everyone's valentine's that had dates?
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