Should I date an 18yr old? I'm 27

Or maybe you're like most males and this girl uses you until she doesn't need you, and washes her hands with you. All guys act like they have the upper hand with the opposite sex, but few can do what they say they will.

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

Or maybe you're like most males and this girl uses you until she doesn't need you, and washes her hands with you. All guys act like they have the upper hand with the opposite sex, but few can do what they say they will.

That would be awesome. Hopefully she just uses me for sex then drops me. That way I don't have to feel guilty for anything. I've been used for sex before and I have no problem with it.
If she is trying to use me as a sugar daddy it's just not gonna happen, I've never rolled over like that for anyone and I won't do it now.

Originally Posted by Hockeyman17

That would be awesome. Hopefully she just uses me for sex then drops me. That way I don't have to feel guilty for anything. I've been used for sex before and I have no problem with it.
If she is trying to use me as a sugar daddy it's just not gonna happen, I've never rolled over like that for anyone and I won't do it now.

Stay indifferent. Understand that this girl is nothing but sex, and keep that mentality. Most people will say they are doing that, but the truth is--they are loving the attention. If you can stay ambiguous to her, and just have a good time, I would say go for it. But if you think for one second that you may be too weak, don't even bother. Girls like her can be hit or miss, but it's either a 1 or a 10 on crazy scale. At 18, if it's positive, it's the greatest thing in the world. If it's negative, it's the end of the world. You don't want to deal with someone that goes from each end of the extreme frequently. She's going to attempt to be mature hoping you'll see her the way that you're subconsciously hoping she's will be like, so any hint of maturity and you'll dub her mature. But the truth is, an 18 year old interested in a 27 year old is full of issues. Nothing wrong with issues if you're man enough to use them for your own good, and nothing more. Instead, she hopes you're the guy that will want to fix whatever things she has wrong, because people love to be needed.

That said, if you're confident that no matter how awesome the sex is(because it will be most likely, because she's almost a decade younger than you), that you can walk away at the drop of a hat, then go ahead--and take pics.

18 too old

shouldn't there be pics by now?

piitb

My working assumption in cases like this is that the older party simply isn't able to land an interested person in their own age group.

Originally Posted by BMWDon

shouldn't there be pics by now?

+1

It would be so much easier to give an answer if pics were involved

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I am 27 (tomorrow) and I just broke it off with a 19 year old today. From experience this girl sometimes compared me with her dad, had insecurity issues and was extremely negative. Just take caution and as others have said I suggest you keep in mind that it will probably not last.

Page 3 and still no pics?!

Originally Posted by ANREC330

Page 3 and still no pics?!

Update:

So I basically told her there's no way we can have a functional relationship because we are at different points in our lives. She still thinks we should try and wants to hang out today. My buddies girlfriend is mad at me because I sleep with most of her new friends she brings out, then when we break it off they don't want to come out any more and she loses a friend. I'm pretty sure this girl is just DTF now because she knows I wont date her when she turns 19 because it will be too much of a hassle. So I tried to do the right thing by warning this girl beforehand and she still wants to come over.
My question is, should I respect my friends girlfriends request that we stay "good friends" (which is bullshit guys can't just be friends with hot girls) OR smash her like she wants it and basically say "I don't care what you think" to my buddy's gf.

She knows the deal. Hit it... see where it goes.

Originally Posted by SLVR JDM

My working assumption in cases like this is that the older party simply isn't able to land an interested person in their own age group.

That was always my biggest insecurity with my ex but I got over it quickly. I still think this is a much bigger deal.

Originally Posted by Hockeyman17

Update:

So I basically told her there's no way we can have a functional relationship because we are at different points in our lives. She still thinks we should try and wants to hang out today. My buddies girlfriend is mad at me because I sleep with most of her new friends she brings out, then when we break it off they don't want to come out any more and she loses a friend. I'm pretty sure this girl is just DTF now because she knows I wont date her when she turns 19 because it will be too much of a hassle. So I tried to do the right thing by warning this girl beforehand and she still wants to come over.
My question is, should I respect my friends girlfriends request that we stay "good friends" (which is bullshit guys can't just be friends with hot girls) OR smash her like she wants it and basically say "I don't care what you think" to my buddy's gf.

Do her.

She thinks the sex will get you to change your mind. Your call.


You don't know it, but you're doing everything correctly to get the girl hooked

Bang like a screen door in a hurricane.

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

She thinks the sex will get you to change your mind. Your call.


You don't know it, but you're doing everything correctly to get the girl hooked

Lol. Your prob right. I feel like she still thinks she can change my mind. I guess I'll let her try and see how persuasive she is...at least I warned her..

see if she'll give you a blumpkin

Originally Posted by Mike Larry

i'm 27 and i dont think i could go through with it. she'd have to be insanely hot.

+1

Originally Posted by nikkeiS2K

I am 27 (tomorrow) and I just broke it off with a 19 year old today. From experience this girl sometimes compared me with her dad, had insecurity issues and was extremely negative. Just take caution and as others have said I suggest you keep in mind that it will probably not last.

27 here too and I've dated an 18 and 20 and as much as they act or claim to be mature at their age, its all talks. Btches at these ages are extremely insecure and dependent. These qualities will outweight all their beauty.

Op, go at it and have fun while it lasts but don't get attached because its just too much headache. In other words, she's gonna be a waste of your time and efforts. Dealing with them in the long run will turn even the most patient guy crazy.

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Update:

Turns out I couldn't deal with the age difference after all. The multiple texts every day and also her immaturity were definitely factors. I could have just led her on and slept with her but it just seemed wrong. We're still on good terms and I've left my self an option down the road since it looks like I'll be seeing her again.