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Old 08-10-2012, 11:01 AM   #21
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I say go for it, lifes too short to have regrets and "what ifs". But like stated above, taking it slow will defintly help.


Don't start raw dogging it until the 3rd date. Use a condom the first couple of times to show her you care.
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Old 08-10-2012, 11:04 AM   #22
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I'm in the exact same situation right now.
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Old 08-10-2012, 02:14 PM   #23
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Honestly these situations happen all the time... I ****ed up very badly once and have now lost the girl as a ''friend'' we didnt talk for 2 years after that. Obviously, today we are ''acquantances'' but i mean it is nowhere near what it used to be.

Basically, my only regret is to not have tried enough by expressing myself and talking about feelings and stuff... we got in many fights because of stuff like that and at the end it was just too hard to live with it knowing i was loved but she wasnt ''in love'' and i just flipped because i wasnt getting what i wanted.

2 months after we broke up our friendship, she started dating an other dude while as long as we were close friends she never saw any other guy (I def think by respect for me).

I would say go for it and try and go for the kiss one day you guys are both tipsy and see where it goes. At that point the friendship is bound to die no matter what if you dont pull your move.

i know it sounds gay but dont make the same mistake i did... just follow your feelings
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Old 08-10-2012, 03:00 PM   #24
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Old 11-22-2012, 11:27 PM   #27
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Old 11-22-2012, 11:45 PM   #28
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I've been there and am currently there now. My advice is to not make any advances, otherwise if things go bad, you'll lose her. Take it easy and try to not your feelings mess with you.

My friend came home with me for thanksgiving.. I had an epiphany on the way there.. which was I'd much rather have her as a friend than not at all.
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I got this from an ex that I hadn't talked to much for a while during at which time she informed me she had a new boyfriend and removed me as a friend from facebook. I'd said it in a way that I'd always have love for her...maybe it's time to move on a bit more than I have
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I've been there and am currently there now. My advice is to not make any advances, otherwise if things go bad, you'll lose her. Take it easy and try to not your feelings mess with you.

My friend came home with me for thanksgiving.. I had an epiphany on the way there.. which was I'd much rather have her as a friend than not at all.
ya but then you are lying to yourself. You have to man up and let her know what you want. Be in control
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Old 01-02-2013, 11:03 PM   #32
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Honestly this is a tough situation. I'm guessing reason you think you're falling for her is because you're so close. Of course you're gonna have feelings for each other if you are best friends but the thing is, if you really think about it you probably don't wanna spend the rest of your life with this girl.. She's just someone you want to be with at the moment because you're so close. But in all honesty it's not worth it. My advice would be if you are truly in love and want to be with her for the rest of your life then tell her.. Not sure what the outcome of that will be. But if it is just some feelings that your having don't act upon those feelings. You will lose her as a friend. Relationships complicate friendships beyond repair. It's happened to the best of us. If you want to stay friends with her, don't act upon any feelings you have for her. Just move on. A good friend is worth so much more then a quick meaningless relationship..

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I was in a similar situation once...

ended up making the "move" and followed what I felt...dated for 5 years...happily married to her now.

I've known her since we were 11 (6th grade) and been best friends since high school...started dating around our 2nd year of college. You'll never know unless you try right?
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