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Old 03-22-2013, 10:15 PM   #1
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Feelings for co-worker

So over the past month or so I started talking to this girl at work - it all started with the casual 'hello/how are you/i'm so and so etc. etc.' We only really started talking when we talked about each others relationships and how mine took a turn for the worst but anyways, fast forward to now and we talk every day at work(and you'll see why only at work), through out the day - all the time. And our conversations can be about anything at all, we more so just entertain each other until the day is done but she is so easy to talk to and I can always make her laugh and vice versa and the fact she's a super cute girl doesn't hurt either, but of course I've started to really like this girl.

Admittedly I do give off a flirtatious vibe that I'm sure she's noticed and hasn't seemed to care, but I just love talking to her and being around her, it's like she gives off a happy presence (if that makes any sense at all) that it rubs off on me. And she will call me over to keep her company and talk to her since we sit like a 2 feet away.

But the only reason nothing has happened or I haven't made a move is because.. she's married. I know I shouldn't be doing this and I wouldn't want to ever ruin anything she has but I feel like I just can't help it. Putting myself in the guys position I know for myself, I definitely wouldn't like what's going on at all but geez, it's so hard.. the fvck do i do?
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Old 03-22-2013, 10:18 PM   #2
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Walk, no, run away.

You work with her, and she's married. That's two major reasons for nothing to happen.
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Old 03-22-2013, 10:20 PM   #3
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Walk, no, run away.

You work with her, and she's married. That's two major reasons for nothing to happen.
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Old 03-22-2013, 10:37 PM   #4
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Old 03-22-2013, 11:00 PM   #5
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Is her relationship going down hill? If so, just be a good guy for now. Stop flirting! And if she ends up leaving this guy, there's your chance. But for now, don't be a d!ck!
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Old 03-22-2013, 11:04 PM   #6
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Say hi.. Make her feel loved. OP someone in the world loves you although she may not be it. Find that person.

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Old 03-22-2013, 11:36 PM   #7
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Old 03-22-2013, 11:38 PM   #8
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Her marriage is fairly new. From what I know of, nothing is going wrong in it. I mean she even shows me her phone and her text and lets me go through it (she goes through mine and uses it through out the day for music)

I know I shouldn't flirt with her and try to lay off but F! It's so hard to. And in my situation, where my ex has been in school in a different state for the past 4 years and not having any physical contact, it feels nice to be wanted and having her be touchy with me. Especially when she calls me over wanting me to talk to her and her telling me she misses me if we haven't talked for a while during that one work day. I feel like it's my obligation, and of course I comply..
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:29 AM   #9
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what should you do??? Nothing.
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:43 AM   #10
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Like others has said don't do nothing. Just be a good friend for now. If she makes a move than that's different. And even then really think about it. Never wanna lose a good friendship.

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Old 03-23-2013, 12:49 AM   #11
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Old 03-23-2013, 03:09 AM   #12
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It sounds like you have nothing going on outside of work. I suggest you work on that instead of your co-workers.
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what r u waiting for? make the move n hit that **** but don't fall in love with her. Hit it a couple times and then quit before you ruin her marriage.
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Old 03-23-2013, 08:57 AM   #14
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Lol that's the advice I was waiting for! Thanks auto!
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Old 03-23-2013, 09:08 AM   #15
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Lol that's the advice I was waiting for! Thanks auto!
Fanatics...guaranteed that whenever you ask a question, you'll get the answer you want!

OP, you obviously are not thinking of her or yourself. Let's fast forward this a bit...you hit it...she gets divorced when her husband finds out...she asks to come and live with you...you discover she has three nipples and is a she-male...your relation sours...work becomes intolerable...her life is miserable...you're both thinking wtf have I done.

This is not some cool trim for you or your car, OP. She is a person, married, co-worker. Be glad you get to look at her prettiness and leave it there.

Oh, but you got the answer you wanted, so you're good to go.

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Fanatics...guaranteed that whenever you ask a question, you'll get the answer you want!

OP, you obviously are not thinking of her or yourself. Let's fast forward this a bit...you hit it...she gets divorced when her husband finds out...she asks to come and live with you...you discover she has three nipples and is a she-male...your relation sours...work becomes intolerable...her life is miserable...you're both thinking wtf have I done.

This is not some cool trim for you or your car, OP. She is a person, married, co-worker. Be glad you get to look at her prettiness and leave it there.

Oh, but you got the answer you wanted, so you're good to go.

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Old 03-23-2013, 10:32 AM   #17
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I just needed the approval first
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Old 03-23-2013, 10:33 AM   #18
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You're an idiot. If you do this, I really hope you knock her up and get stuck with a girl that will cheat on you.
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Old 03-23-2013, 10:36 AM   #19
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How could you be attracted to somebody who just got married and is already out flirting with other guys at work? Whose to say she wont do the same when shes with you?
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