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Old 01-03-2013, 06:36 PM   #21
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I'll be in Vegas this upcoming weekend. If you drive over we'll be partying...I'm sure females will be within our vicinity on a regular basis.
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Old 01-03-2013, 11:53 PM   #22
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"So stop being so fuucking emo and get out there. Smile a lot, be kind of a dick, and be a little more alpha than the next guy and you'll be alright. These things seem to work pretty well for me." Some Guy I met on the Internet.
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Old 01-04-2013, 09:47 AM   #24
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do you think you will be as happy in a relationship as you are single? when i was single and independent i did whatever the fvck i wanted whenever the fvck i wanted. now, about to get married, i am starting to freak out a little, that never again will i have that same freedom. **** swings both ways. single and free, but missing having someone or having someone and losing some freedom and independence.
I am happier now than I was a month ago. I don't know if I will be in 5 months if we're still dating or not though. It's hard to say. The bad parts about the ex don't seem to be there with this one so it may be better. The problems with the old one, which I never wanted to admit, was that she was young and immature. I do feel I am ready for a relationship and as of right now don't really have that urge to get hammered and go out every weekend like I did before we met.

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Old 01-04-2013, 10:43 AM   #25
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So stop being so fuucking emo and get out there. Smile a lot, be kind of a dick, and be a little more alpha than the next guy and you'll be alright. These things seem to work pretty well for me.

I really think that this is key...I just got rejected by someone I dated and figured I'd try to hit up again, things were looking up and then just got flat out denied..so I'm just saying to myself no biggie, keep on keepin, and keep being awesome, smiling, etc. etc.
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Old 01-04-2013, 10:44 AM   #26
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regardless of two more weeks good to see you're in a better place and won't make the same mistakes twice

weekend coming up going to a comedy club with friends, i won free tickets
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do you think you will be as happy in a relationship as you are single? when i was single and independent i did whatever the fvck i wanted whenever the fvck i wanted. now, about to get married, i am starting to freak out a little, that never again will i have that same freedom. **** swings both ways. single and free, but missing having someone or having someone and losing some freedom and independence.
Why are you getting married fool? If your relationship doesn't have autonomy as individuals then you def can't get married. One should never feel like their constrained in a relationship and shouldn't change upon marriage.
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Old 01-04-2013, 12:02 PM   #28
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Why are you getting married fool? If your relationship doesn't have autonomy as individuals then you def can't get married. One should never feel like their constrained in a relationship and shouldn't change upon marriage.
Amen!
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Old 01-04-2013, 02:25 PM   #29
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Why are you getting married fool? If your relationship doesn't have autonomy as individuals then you def can't get married. One should never feel like their constrained in a relationship and shouldn't change upon marriage.
yeah, tell yourself that. you will never have as much autonomy in a relationship as you do alone. i didn't say it didn't, i said it doesn't have as much as when i was single.

when you are dating it is easy to say, oh there is a chance that i will be single again and have total freedom again. when you get married you kiss that goodbye forever! not that it is a bad thing, it's just a different feeling.
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Old 01-04-2013, 02:45 PM   #30
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yeah, tell yourself that. you will never have as much autonomy in a relationship as you do alone. i didn't say it didn't, i said it doesn't have as much as when i was single.

when you are dating it is easy to say, oh there is a chance that i will be single again and have total freedom again. when you get married you kiss that goodbye forever! not that it is a bad thing, it's just a different feeling.
I do, shall, and will continually until I find that perfect balance. I'm in no rush to get hitched if that's the case.
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Old 01-04-2013, 03:00 PM   #31
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yeah, tell yourself that. you will never have as much autonomy in a relationship as you do alone. i didn't say it didn't, i said it doesn't have as much as when i was single.

when you are dating it is easy to say, oh there is a chance that i will be single again and have total freedom again. when you get married you kiss that goodbye forever! not that it is a bad thing, it's just a different feeling.
The only problem with that, is that's a predetermined thought that has been embedded in your brain since you were born. Look around, is marriage really that successful? With divorce rates as high as they are, very rarely is anyone saying goodbye from sex from any other person forever. Marriage is for legal reasons now, and before that it was for survival of a woman. Marriage to me has become something you do, nothing something you want.
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Old 01-04-2013, 04:20 PM   #32
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The only problem with that, is that's a predetermined thought that has been embedded in your brain since you were born. Look around, is marriage really that successful? With divorce rates as high as they are, very rarely is anyone saying goodbye from sex from any other person forever. Marriage is for legal reasons now, and before that it was for survival of a woman. Marriage to me has become something you do, nothing something you want.
my favorite couples are always the ones that don't change when they get a gf or bf. I change in the sense of not going out as much but my personality is the same and I always include the girls into whatever me and my friends usually do. Too many people separate things and make it weird.
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Many of you know that almost exactly a year ago my gf of almost 3 years and I split up.

So guys, don't worry about what you lost. Things work out. For many of these encounters I had to get out of my comfort zone a little bit. Don't be afraid to do that. Very rarely to girls just fall on your lap. So stop being so fuucking emo and get out there. Smile a lot, be kind of a dick, and be a little more alpha than the next guy and you'll be alright. These things seem to work pretty well for me.
Best advice you could give

I followed your threads on here throughout the year because I was in a similar situation at almost the same time. Been a year since my last breakup albeit it wasn't as long or serious relationship as yours. I have to say I made a promise to myself then to make 2012 the best year Ive had and looking back it really was. Cheers to moving forward and making 2013 even better. I expect to read some more interesting threads in 2013.


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congrats OP. good to hear that you bounced back and thanks for sharing!
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Hasn't she been on a gossip/humor show for a bit here? Similar to the soup but a female version...She was always my favorite back during Boy Meets World years
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