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Old 02-25-2013, 11:14 PM   #1
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I fouled up.

No idea why I am posting in here but i guess it feels good to vent? Im 24 years old, been around the block and had many flavors of ice cream, the whole 9 yards. Long story short Ive known this girl since I was 14 (family friend) and always deeply enjoyed her presence and everything about her. Only female in my life to put a smile on my face every time I would see her. Her beauty is stunning with a great head on her shoulders (med student). Ive secretly loved her for awhile and I guess thought she would always be there.
Weve been hanging out a lot lately and ive had the feeling for the last 2 years that she's been waiting for me too take it more seriously. My dumbass never went further with it, now I find out shes dating some other guy (same industry as our families) that I know and wont respond to my texts or calls.

I fvcked up, feel like Mike Tyson drilled me in the stomach 20 times. Never felt this way about anyone. Sad thing is that I know she loves me.'\

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Old 02-26-2013, 12:05 AM   #2
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Unfortunately, all you can do is move on and hope one day you get a second bite of the apple. Until then, live your life.
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Old 02-26-2013, 07:35 AM   #3
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Don't wait for your second chance. Tell her how you feel and leave it at that. If she feels strongly enough about you she'll lose the new guy. If she has a good thing with the new guy, then good luck.
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Old 02-26-2013, 09:50 AM   #4
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Unfortunately, all you can do is move on and hope one day you get a second bite of the apple. Until then, live your life.
I like this..sucks but we have all been there..live your life man, it may come around again but don't wait.
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Old 02-26-2013, 10:55 AM   #5
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Old 02-26-2013, 11:20 AM   #6
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how do you know she loves you? did she tell you?
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Old 02-26-2013, 11:39 AM   #7
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Don't wait for your second chance. Tell her how you feel and leave it at that. If she feels strongly enough about you she'll lose the new guy. If she has a good thing with the new guy, then good luck.
This... I've been in your shoes. It sucks. Unfortunately in my case when I told her she didn't take me seriously, thought I was just "lonely" and wanted to keep her at my beckoning call but that wasn't the case. Unfortunately the life long friend ship and all was lost. But is the risk worth the potential reward to you? If it goes south you will get over it. Looking back I'm thankful because I now have an amazing women in my life who would give me the world if she could. Everything will pan out.
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Old 02-26-2013, 11:53 AM   #8
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Don't wait for your second chance. Tell her how you feel and leave it at that. If she feels strongly enough about you she'll lose the new guy. If she has a good thing with the new guy, then good luck.
I see your logic, but I disagree. You risk it, it works out, great. You risk it, it doesn't work out, your chances are 0% for life now, zero. But the problem, is you're asking when her interest is in someone else, so you're climbing an uphill battle. If she feels for you enough that risking it would be worth it, she'll still feel the same when she's not in the inevitable failing relationship (that is inevitable because she feels the same).

I'd rather gamble that relationships fail, and she will be single again one day, and talk to her on my terms, not hers.

I'm biased, I don't believe in the 'one,' I believe in timing only.
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Old 02-26-2013, 12:28 PM   #9
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This girl can read minds, out of my office now. But apparently she stopped by and dropped off an envelope to one of my guys, wont be back till 3 and I cant wait to go see what it is.
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Old 02-26-2013, 12:29 PM   #10
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how do you know she loves you? did she tell you?
Once, but she didnt even have to say. Shes very reserved about her feelings, but I know she adores me though.
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Old 02-26-2013, 12:32 PM   #11
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Im cool calm and collected 98% of the time, but I feel like a train wreck today. Horrible
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I think you should come clean as indicated above. And there is never a 0% chance. Life is totally unpredictable I've learned over the years. Relationships that I thought had no chance of being at the time, came back 5 years later and better than I imagined before. I'm curious about this envelope.

Also, pics, pls. :p
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Right after my wife and I got engaged, a long-time friend of hers called her and told her that he had been in love with her for years and that he wanted her to dump me and marry him instead. That didn't happen, and they lost touch.

They recently reconnected on Facebook. He's now divorced and living in an openly gay relationship.

So, the moral of the story is: you're probably gay, OP.
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Right after my wife and I got engaged, a long-time friend of hers called her and told her that he had been in love with her for years and that he wanted her to dump me and marry him instead. That didn't happen, and they lost touch.

They recently reconnected on Facebook. He's now divorced and living in an openly gay relationship.

So, the moral of the story is: you're probably gay, OP.
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Right after my wife and I got engaged, a long-time friend of hers called her and told her that he had been in love with her for years and that he wanted her to dump me and marry him instead. That didn't happen, and they lost touch.

They recently reconnected on Facebook. He's now divorced and living in an openly gay relationship.

So, the moral of the story is: you're probably gay, OP.
hahahhaa omg is this real life?
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hahahhaa omg is this real life?
Actually it is. My wife and I still chuckle about it sometimes. We're actually both FB friends with him now--he's a nice guy who just did a dumb thing 25 years ago.
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Right after my wife and I got engaged, a long-time friend of hers called her and told her that he had been in love with her for years and that he wanted her to dump me and marry him instead. That didn't happen, and they lost touch.

They recently reconnected on Facebook. He's now divorced and living in an openly gay relationship.

So, the moral of the story is: you're probably gay, OP.
haha I was in no mood to laugh but that made me laugh lol. Ive been trying to distract my self all day.

So I get to the store grab the envelope go to my office and open it. Its a note with her name on it and a phone number. Apparently she changed her number because now her old number go's to the disconnect prompt. She had her old number since we were 15 so idk what was going through her head. I think im going to call but have no idea what to say

I might just lay everything out on the table but its nothing she dosnt know already, I fvcked up by being stupid and thinking she would always be there.

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haha I was in no mood to laugh but that made me laugh lol. Ive been trying to distract my self all day.

So I get to the store grab the envelope go to my office and open it. Its a note with her name on it and a phone number. Apparently she changed her number because now her old number go's to the disconnect prompt. She had her old number since we were 15 so idk what was going through her head. I think im going to call but have no idea what to say
I might just lay everything out on the table but its nothing she dosnt know already, I fvcked up by being stupid and thinking she would always be there.



thats a strange way to give out your new number..
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haha I was in no mood to laugh but that made me laugh lol. Ive been trying to distract my self all day.

So I get to the store grab the envelope go to my office and open it. Its a note with her name on it and a phone number. Apparently she changed her number because now her old number go's to the disconnect prompt. She had her old number since we were 15 so idk what was going through her head. I think im going to call but have no idea what to say

I might just lay everything out on the table but its nothing she dosnt know already, I fvcked up by being stupid and thinking she would always be there.
well hold on, did she not respond to texts/calls because she had a new number? If she gave you her new one, something tells me she would not just ignore you.

How long has she been going out with this new guy?

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