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Old 02-18-2013, 10:22 PM   #1
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Dating a Girl Who Makes More Money

Do you guys still pay for everything? I'm dating a girl who makes more than me, I know because we have the same position she just has more experience.

I'm always tempted to let her pay for a lot more than I normally would, for some reason it just feels so...wrong?
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Old 02-18-2013, 10:24 PM   #2
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Think of it this way- You have finally made a decent dating decision, don't fvck it up.
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Old 02-18-2013, 10:27 PM   #3
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No. I never pay for everything anyway, this isn't the 1920's. Idk about you, dude, but I'm in the bourgeois, not the aristocracy.
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Old 02-18-2013, 10:58 PM   #4
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what is the current ratio? I would say if she is making more than you, then things should be close to 50/50... but that does not take into account other factors like... who has the biggest student loan bill per month, etc.... those questions can make a big difference.

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Old 02-18-2013, 11:02 PM   #5
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Fvck that, retire in a bowl of Cheetos on the couch.

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Old 02-18-2013, 11:07 PM   #6
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Pay for more than her (as you should!) When/if you're ever married, you can spend her money for a bit and it'll even out the playing field.
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Old 02-19-2013, 10:02 AM   #7
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Go to pay for meals and if she says "I got this" you found a good girl. Never pay 100% for things. Maybe some dudes rolling in dough will do that but to me that shows a huge character flaw when a girl can't open her wallet.
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Old 02-19-2013, 10:49 AM   #8
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Normally she pays for every other time or when it's cheaper. A few times it's been a two to one ratio. I guess I am more appreciative she offers to pay period as opposed to last girl.
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Old 02-19-2013, 10:50 AM   #9
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I currently am paying for everything, but said girl isn't working right now...so I guess I'm fine with it, as long as I get the goods...this is going to be a short lived relationship.

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Normally she pays for every other time or when it's cheaper. A few times it's been a two to one ratio. I guess I am more appreciative she offers to pay period as opposed to last girl.
Kind of what we do. I've spend way more eating out and doing things but I don't mind as long as she pays some times.
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:25 AM   #11
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Basically she pays for food and a few other miscellaneous purchases here and there. I pay for gas and the phone bill or if I take her on a date ill obviously pay.
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Women demand equal pay under the basis of equality.

Women expect men to pay for all their meals on the basis of chivalry.

Oh the irony.
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Women demand equal pay under the basis of equality.

Women expect men to pay for all their meals on the basis of chivalry.

Oh the irony.
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:37 AM   #14
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Women demand equal pay under the basis of equality.

Women expect men to pay for all their meals on the basis of chivalry.

Oh the irony.
yea it kind of sucks lol. I wish I made just a little more money lol.
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just find almost homeless chicks.
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Homeless chicks I heard the itching is really fun afterwards
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Homeless chicks I heard the itching is really fun afterwards
"almost" homeless.
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Old 02-19-2013, 12:20 PM   #18
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I only pay when its going out on a date, or someplace nice. She pays for herself every other time outside of that. I think that's reasonable.
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just find almost homeless chicks.
Study shows the poorer you are the more sex you have.
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Old 02-19-2013, 12:42 PM   #20
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I like to be apart of that study oh wait I am, just not the more sex part
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