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Old 02-20-2013, 01:44 PM   #81
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^ Dude, many of us have been in relationships that last years or decades, three months in the grand scheme of things means nothing and the fact that you are only 20 pushes that point further. And we all understand where you're coming from because many of us have been there. Because this is the internet, you have no real reason or requirement to listen to what we say but it's just caution to not be naive about this sort of thing. No one is saying dump the broad but just play it safe and don't set the bar too high because as the relationship goes on, you will relax your standards and actions and that shouldn't come crashing down on your head.
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Dude. Its been 3 months. For living 20 years, that's a decent amount of time . And i can honestly say......Whether or not she "flips the bitch switch" i don't know... She has never asked to go out. Taking her out to dinner, or making it for her is not white knight worthy....Its a simple gesture to show that i care about her. I am an asshole, just not to women like some of you are suggesting. She doesn't drink, smoke, party, straight A student, not slutty, knows what she wants in life, awesome musician, beautiful. Everything i am doing is totally warranted and what i consider to be normal...as far as i'm concerned, its appreciated.

Edit: I understand where you are coming from, i honestly do. But having faith in another person or how a situation/relationship will turn out is a great thing to have in life.
lol dude enjoy your time but just remember how much things change when you're 20 vs 30. Ask me how I know. When I was your age I thought I had it all figured out. Colin is one of the only young guys around here that seems to fuucking get it lol.
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Old 02-20-2013, 01:45 PM   #83
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^ Dude, many of us have been in relationships that last years or decades, three months in the grand scheme of things means nothing and the fact that you are only 20 pushes that point further. And we all understand where you're coming from because many of us have been there. Because this is the internet, you have no real reason or requirement to listen to what we say but it's just caution to not be naive about this sort of thing. No one is saying dump the broad but just play it safe and don't set the bar too high because as the relationship goes on, you will relax your standards and actions and that shouldn't come crashing down on your head.
Understood, i will try to balance everything. I will have to learn for myself though. Young and dumb. Have to let it run its course.
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Old 02-20-2013, 01:46 PM   #84
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Been there done that. That's what makes for a stressful relationship. Something im not interested in right now.
Terrible attitude. You're only young once.
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lol dude enjoy your time but just remember how much things change when you're 20 vs 30. Ask me how I know. When I was your age I thought I had it all figured out. Colin is one of the only young guys around here that seems to fuucking get it lol.
No one person is the same. Nor situation. What is standard or applies to you might have no relevance to me. I appreciate all of the words of wisdom from you guys though!
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Old 02-20-2013, 01:48 PM   #86
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Terrible attitude. You're only young once.
Hahahahaha, this much i know. Instead of going out, drinking, rolling and smoking at raves with some slutty bitch like the last 4 years of my life has consisted of. I'm experiencing a change of pace. And i like it.
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Hahahahaha, this much i know. Instead of going out, drinking, rolling and smoking at raves with some slutty bitch like the last 4 years of my life has consisted of. I'm experiencing a change of pace. And i like it.
You say she is a musician right. what are the chances she makes a career out of it that will allow her to stay close by you?
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Old 02-20-2013, 02:09 PM   #88
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You say she is a musician right. what are the chances she makes a career out of it that will allow her to stay close by you?
Actually very likely, they are being "shopped" by Warner bros right now. As far as her staying close by, little to none considering shes gone to LA twice in the last few months.
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Old 02-20-2013, 02:14 PM   #89
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Dude. Its been 3 months. For living 20 years, that's a decent amount of time . And i can honestly say......Whether or not she "flips the bitch switch" i don't know... She has never asked to go out. Taking her out to dinner, or making it for her is not white knight worthy....Its a simple gesture to show that i care about her. I am an asshole, just not to women like some of you are suggesting. She doesn't drink, smoke, party, straight A student, not slutty, knows what she wants in life, awesome musician, beautiful. Everything i am doing is totally warranted and what i consider to be normal...as far as i'm concerned, its appreciated.

Edit: I understand where you are coming from, i honestly do. But having faith in another person or how a situation/relationship will turn out is a great thing to have in life.
What I'm trying to do is tell you that most relationships fail because one person gets in their head (at the beginning) that this person is perfect, and they hold on as long as they can hoping that one day the person from the first month will come back. Don't make life long plans before you have any idea what that lifelong plan would entail.

tl:dr don't count your chickens

edit: also, it's unattrctive to get so hooked on something so soon, and it's a bit scary that she enjoys that. Means she absolutely loves attention.

Not trying to hurt your view of her, just telling you to calm down and enjoy the current moment
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Old 02-20-2013, 02:20 PM   #90
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What I'm trying to do is tell you that most relationships fail because one person gets in their head (at the beginning) that this person is perfect, and they hold on as long as they can hoping that one day the person from the first month will come back. Don't make life long plans before you have any idea what that lifelong plan would entail.

tl:dr don't count your chickens

edit: also, it's unattrctive to get so hooked on something so soon, and it's a bit scary that she enjoys that. Means she absolutely loves attention.

Not trying to hurt your view of her, just telling you to calm down and enjoy the current moment
Trying very hard to do so, you all are making it a little difficult hahaha. No worries, i know her and myself better then you all do. Ill take my chances
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Trying very hard to do so, you all are making it a little difficult hahaha. No worries, i know her and myself better then you all do. Ill take my chances
oh boy. She likes your $hit now, just give it a month of two; sometimes you have to learn the hard way, but the best part is, when she does finally lose interest, you can come on here, start a breakup thread, get some quality non-judgmental advice and learn from it! The people on this board are speaking from experience... slow your roll homie.

Also the old and brittle thing is cute that she said, but don't read into it, girls say that $hit all the time.

Also, cook dinner together more, it can go a long ways.

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Old 02-21-2013, 07:07 AM   #92
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oh boy. She likes your $hit now, just give it a month of two; sometimes you have to learn the hard way, but the best part is, when she does finally lose interest, you can come on here, start a breakup thread, get some quality non-judgmental advice and learn from it! The people on this board are speaking from experience... slow your roll homie.

Also the old and brittle thing is cute that she said, but don't read into it, girls say that $hit all the time.

Also, cook dinner together more, it can go a long ways.
Hey, you dun say dat.
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Old 02-21-2013, 09:15 AM   #93
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oh boy. She likes your $hit now, just give it a month of two; sometimes you have to learn the hard way, but the best part is, when she does finally lose interest, you can come on here, start a breakup thread, get some quality non-judgmental advice and learn from it! The people on this board are speaking from experience... slow your roll homie.

Also the old and brittle thing is cute that she said, but don't read into it, girls say that $hit all the time.

Also, cook dinner together more, it can go a long ways.
my ex always said this one..."when we have kids" lol. These girls are retarded.
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Old 02-21-2013, 09:47 AM   #94
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I remember when my girlfriend stopped swallowing, it was a sad day for the lads as they had to be excruciatingly plastered into a napkin instead of being sucked out by her mouth.
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my ex always said this one..."when we have kids" lol. These girls are retarded.
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I remember when my girlfriend stopped swallowing, it was a sad day for the lads as they had to be excruciatingly plastered into a napkin instead of being sucked out by her mouth.
I like head but I've never gotten good head...swallowing is an amazing thing women don't do anymore Mine just let's me bust in her D's
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I like head but I've never gotten good head...swallowing is an amazing thing women don't do anymore Mine just let's me bust in her D's
You my friend are missing out, you have to find one that craves it in the mouth and just slobbers all over it like a dog on a bone.
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I know I am missing it, the few girls that did it was such a gratifying experience but the last few girls barely gave a thing resembling head much less swallow. I do enjoy a giving a good facial too
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I can understand where you are coming from, but with all due respect you haven't exactly got me all figured out here. All that you know is that im a complete sap for this girl. To be honest it never crossed my mind to ask a girl to pay for anything. I have had a 4 year relationship with this girl (all through highschool).

And now my current girl....Who is in an entirely different league than my previous relationships. Naive? Absolutely. Borderline stupidity? Probably. But until things start taking a turn for the worse i want things to stay just they way they are, because i am happy. And that's what matters most....right?

Its not like i take her out every night. We work opposite schedules, so the time we do have together. I want to make it special.
I think only through experience will you figure out how stupid you were at 19/20 for doing what you did. I am not trying to put you down, but listening to the people that are giving you advice just makes me think that you are in denial and want to stay on cloud nine by wanting to show your love to your girl via paid dinners and gifts. Everyone has been there though, so don't worry too much about it. The "one" will probably be someone you least expect. You are still at an age where girls come and go very easily, your feelings are thrown around from girl to girl and you think you have found the "one." Just remember to call yourself an idiot when you are in your mid-20's.
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I think only through experience will you figure out how stupid you were at 19/20 for doing what you did. I am not trying to put you down, but listening to the people that are giving you advice just makes me think that you are in denial and want to stay on cloud nine by wanting to show your love to your girl via paid dinners and gifts. Everyone has been there though, so don't worry too much about it. The "one" will probably be someone you least expect. You are still at an age where girls come and go very easily, your feelings are thrown around from girl to girl and you think you have found the "one." Just remember to call yourself an idiot when you are in your mid-20's.
Ok.....just so i can understand. What exactly did i "do"? And why am i stupid for it? Taking her out to dinner is not grounds for calling me stupid. Kids out murdering, drinking and driving, street racing ect ect.


Boy takes his girlfriend out to dinner more then once every two weeks = 2 Pages marking his undeniably stupid decisions.


I love youz guyz....but come on. Its just dinner.
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