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Old 03-04-2013, 07:56 AM   #61
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$400,000 a year of someone else's salary isn't enough to mask the misery you'll feel being stuck in a relationship with a girl you're only compatible with but don't actually love. Stop thinking like a 23 year old.
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Old 03-04-2013, 08:15 AM   #62
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Physical attraction is important, but lots of that comes because the mental connection is there. A woman you're connected with will seem much hotter to you.

Unfortunately you can't just take the parts you want and assemble them to be the perfect gf. Try as you might, they always end up being human! And, OP, be careful. If you're that focused on a particular face, believe me, that will mask many things in a personality that you won't like...but will 'deal with' since the girl is so hot.

Your first answer here was the best. Beauty fades; love is everlasting (and hard to find).

Sounds like you're looking short term, OP. Before you mentioned her face, I thought...lucky you. Still could be, but seemingly not.

Ask her if it's okay if you put some internet pron on while making love with her so you can pretend she has a different face. She might be totally cool with that!
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Old 03-04-2013, 08:40 AM   #63
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I know, my family and friends think I'm crazy because her face is cute, her body is hot. But at the end it's how I see her. Again, most people are getting hung up on one of the points I mentioned and forgetting about the other.
that's all that matters.
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Old 03-04-2013, 08:48 AM   #64
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Great thread.

I've been there op.

When you meet the girl you look past imperfections. She doesn't make you happy and that's all you're telling us.

But then again I haven't seen her face. Attraction is important. But compatibility is unreal.

Good luck random Internet guy
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Great thread.

I've been there op.

When you meet the girl you look past imperfections. She doesn't make you happy and that's all you're telling us.

But then again I haven't seen her face. Attraction is important. But compatibility is unreal.

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Old 03-04-2013, 12:26 PM   #66
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Lol

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Old 03-04-2013, 02:02 PM   #67
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I uploaded and then removed them.
Let me see them, homeboy. I'm curious lol. If she is everything that you say she is (intelligent, caring, soon to be RICH), her face must be pretty busted for you not to be interested... or you're just really superficial, or you're gay.
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1st pic where I don't see her face attractive, 2nd one where I do. You get the idea. Her face is not ugly, just I'm not attracted to it as much I'm attracted to her body. I don't know how she'll be when she gets older. I don't want to be having second thoughts when I'm 50.

Yes, she is intelligent, caring, soon to be RICH, and very kind.

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The problem is that I do love her, but those 2 things I mentioned bother me and don't make me feel 100% about her. It's tough to explain.

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The problem is that I do love her, but those 2 things I mentioned bother me and don't make me feel 100% about her. It's tough to explain.
I love the New York Giants. It doesn't mean we're getting married.
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Maybe staying single and screwing around is the way to go. It's tough.

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I can see what you mean, she isn't UN-attractive but neither is she that's what personality and chemistry is for though. If that isn't there then It may be best.
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Personality and chemistry are there for sure, just 2 things I mentioned.

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I can see what you mean, she isn't UN-attractive but neither is she that's what personality and chemistry is for though. If that isn't there then It may be best.
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Personality and chemistry are there for sure, just 2 things I mentioned.
She's a butterface :/
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Maybe staying single and screwing around is the way to go. It's tough.
Tough call man. She's not my style but if everything else is good it would be hard to walk away.
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Tough call man. She's not my style but if everything else is good it would be hard to walk away.
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That's why it's a very tough dilemma.
it's hard to get over the looks if you're not into it but just remember at our ages it's harder and harder to find hot chicks and we really need to start looking at the whole person. My situation is a little different. Very pretty girl, amazing personality, but will never be rich. Much like me. I think as men we're more concerned with looks than money though.
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It's that whole you can have 2/3 things or 80/20 rule in a person. He may value her looks a bit more while some value the personality. Also considering his maturity and stage of development in his life.

As an example I have dated a bunch of average girls outside of high school/college looking for more long term value's and stability, in some respects a bad decision. Now at my age I want someone more attractive while finding those value's, not an easy task. But for me the looks isn't the deal breaker it would be the personality traits I've always wanted for long term stability.
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OP, you're insane. She's cute as a button and I can tell you, 90%, she's better looking than you are...not having seen you.

You tell her after you dump her that some old guy in NJ thinks she's hot and would be proud to walk alongside her.

But, I suppose it's your eyes you're looking through. Ah, new idea...poke out your eyes...be happy the rest of your life.

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