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Old 08-30-2013, 11:57 AM   #141
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Yes, we'll see what happens.

She kind of the opposite of your girl. Mine is highly educated, genuine, and a great personality, but I'm not into her looks that much.

Your girl has the looks but lacked character and personality.

Now both of us are single. Hope you're doing fine.

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Old 08-30-2013, 12:39 PM   #142
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Yes, we'll see what happens.

She kind of the opposite of your girl. Mine is highly educated, genuine, and a great personality, but I'm not into her looks that much.

Your girl has the looks but lacked character and personality.

Now both of us are single. Hope you're doing fine.
lol you said it man. You left because of looks and I stayed because of it. Weird how things go. I'm doing fine though man. I dodged a bullet.
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Old 08-30-2013, 02:14 PM   #143
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It's really hard to find that good balance. I don't even know how people settle down. Maybe we're meant to be single.

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lol you said it man. You left because of looks and I stayed because of it. Weird how things go. I'm doing fine though man. I dodged a bullet.
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Old 08-30-2013, 02:19 PM   #144
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agreed....

If the only problem was physical attraction...well...that can grow after you date around and find other "hot" chicks that are total dumb broads that make you realize that maybe physical attractiveness isn't all it's cracked up to be...especially when 10 year down the road that diminishes and what you're left with is either a shitty marriage with someone you can't stand....or a great marriage with someone you connected with the whole time and still love, realizing you fell in love with the person, and not their face.

Give it time...things might still work out with her if you can have this epiphany.
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Old 08-30-2013, 02:43 PM   #145
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It's really hard to find that good balance. I don't even know how people settle down. Maybe we're meant to be single.
we are. We're animals. Anyone that things we're supposed to be with one person is crazy. We are humans though and smart enough to be faithful and love. Our only purpose is to reproduce.
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Old 08-31-2013, 12:45 AM   #146
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Well this is scientifically debatable. Either way, even if we're meant to be with one person until an offspring is reproduced, it's hard to find the other partner.

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we are. We're animals. Anyone that things we're supposed to be with one person is crazy. We are humans though and smart enough to be faithful and love. Our only purpose is to reproduce.
I waited 2 years, I tried my best to get over the looks part, but it did not work. I mean the girl is cute with a hot body, but just not what I'm into. The attractivness and personality balance need to be there, otherwise, I prefer to stay single. Why even bother being with someone one is not into.

If it were a minor looks thing, then yes I agree with you.
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If the only problem was physical attraction...well...that can grow after you date around and find other "hot" chicks that are total dumb broads that make you realize that maybe physical attractiveness isn't all it's cracked up to be...especially when 10 year down the road that diminishes and what you're left with is either a shitty marriage with someone you can't stand....or a great marriage with someone you connected with the whole time and still love, realizing you fell in love with the person, and not their face.

Give it time...things might still work out with her if you can have this epiphany.
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Old 09-01-2013, 12:19 PM   #147
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Very tough dilemma, it's ruining my life

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we are. We're animals. Anyone that things we're supposed to be with one person is crazy. We are humans though and smart enough to be faithful and love. Our only purpose is to reproduce.
Eeehhhhh..I don't buy this-it's a douchy justification that men use to explain their desire to hump everything. Maybe I'm different but when I have a gf I only have eyes for her. I can see the hot chic at te bar but I feel nothing, no desire to jump them etc.

I'm a pretty emotional guy but essentially when I dating someone, I've put my "emotional house" entrusted with them.

But then again I can only be attracted to someone if they stimulate me mentally. You gotta be more than hot lol


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Old 09-01-2013, 01:16 PM   #148
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Very tough dilemma, it's ruining my life

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Eeehhhhh..I don't buy this-it's a douchy justification that men use to explain their desire to hump everything. Maybe I'm different but when I have a gf I only have eyes for her. I can see the hot chic at te bar but I feel nothing, no desire to jump them etc.

I'm a pretty emotional guy but essentially when I dating someone, I've put my "emotional house" entrusted with them.

But then again I can only be attracted to someone if they stimulate me mentally. You gotta be more than hot lol


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You eyes for her because you can control your actions. Your brain saying "wow she's hot" is biology telling you to plant your seed. We just have self control and know it's not right.


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Old 09-11-2013, 11:33 AM   #149
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Breaking up with her was the right decision. I feel more relaxed and don't have to worry about being with someone who I really like but not 100% into.

She got really mad, has been sending me all of these texts and emails. She really thought I was gonna marry her. I called her and explained things to her, but she does not seem to realize it.
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Old 12-13-2013, 02:25 PM   #150
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More pics of the Dominican Z00 !!!! I bet she has a donkey yo.
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Old 12-13-2013, 04:11 PM   #151
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I'll dig to see where I have her pics. She drives a Benz and she has a donkey too

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Old 12-16-2013, 09:17 AM   #152
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