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Old 04-11-2013, 10:03 PM   #1
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Would you judge her for getting drinks...

with the jewlery sales kiosk person at the mall after she exchanged some jewlery that we looked at together the previous day for another set, then gave him a ride home, only to call me two hours later from a bathroom of a bar that they were at?

She called to save she loves me and that he wanted to make up her bad experience and buy her some drinks, and she also said hes new in town and hes actually not that bad of a guy

Senerio is she got off work at 5pm i am home prepping to leave to go study for two hours before class at 7pm i talk to her on the highway on my way to go study and she tells me she is exchanging her errings because she doesnt like them she wants a refund and shes pissed. place doesn't do refunds she knew that I told her she wouldnt get it and so we hangup and a hour passes I am about ready to go into class i call her a half hour before to ask her to chat and she doesnt answer.

2 minutes before class i txt her: "everything ok?"

she txts back instantly saying:

6:58pm
"same dude as last time was there, I didn't want any earrings, **** it. He couldn't do an exchange. I didn't want to argue. I got a 10k gold bracelet with butterfly's and 14k cubic zirconia earrings even exchange."

"**** it"

Then,

9:10pm (I'm off class at 9:45)
"I'm taking Sean home from the jewlery store as a gesture bc I bothered him all day at the store."

"He lives in oldsmar he is actualy not that bad of a guy"

Is that slightly odd to any of you? I am actually very suprised she would accept his offer and even give him a ride home in the first place

I have not reacted at all to this besides telling her when she called me from the bathroom that I thought it was kind of weird and were you hanging out all day? she replied no I just gave him a ride home

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Old 04-11-2013, 10:55 PM   #2
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The f**k did i just read?
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who da F done that?
prestige warehouse or who?
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Old 04-11-2013, 10:58 PM   #3
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I know i spelled it out very clearly

if that was your girl would you care?

I played it off, just wanted to see what yall thought, im actually quite upset, but you know, you cant get crazy mad at em' or you're the one that will lose

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Old 04-11-2013, 11:02 PM   #4
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So your girlfriend went on a date with a guy she met at the jewelry kiosk at the mall?
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Old 04-11-2013, 11:07 PM   #5
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Old 04-11-2013, 11:11 PM   #6
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yeah and she cold hard denied his ass he tried to hit it

"I thought it was a simple ride to his house not some hookup"
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Old 04-11-2013, 11:13 PM   #7
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That sounds problematic to me.
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Old 04-11-2013, 11:23 PM   #9
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yeah it is. believe me shes a great girl but does some really wild **** some days.

Not trying to spread her biz, JS thats really sparatic of her you know i had to see what yall thought
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Old 04-11-2013, 11:32 PM   #10
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How old are you two? Is this a serious, long-term relationship or something else?
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Old 04-11-2013, 11:42 PM   #11
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I'm 23, shes 24

Long-term yes, we are getting ready to move out together. Did I mention we are opposites, I'm a Virgo Italian/Polish shes a Aries German/Arabic fiesty one



what do you guys think? I'm very happy

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Old 04-11-2013, 11:53 PM   #12
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if you are good in your relationship, then forget it. jealousy has no place in a relationship. she told you what she was doing, didn't try to hide or deny it. sounds pretty innocent to me.
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Old 04-12-2013, 12:03 AM   #13
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if you are good in your relationship, then forget it. jealousy has no place in a relationship. she told you what she was doing, didn't try to hide or deny it. sounds pretty innocent to me.
thanks man that meant a lot to me

that seems pretty spot on, I defintly know she was up front and honest about it and told me he was a cool guy and her type but she didn't want anything to do with him besides a quick drink and a chat.

We are both very jelous when we hear about another guy or girl thats our biggest issue along with trust becuase we both have had our fallouts with drugs and manic behaviour so many times

funny thing is we've known each other for a year and a half but went to the same high school, AND PRESCHOOL!! so her dad goes to check her preschool pic and im a little kid smilin just like her! SAME pic different lives up until we were 22. SO crazy how it turned out!

matter fact, shes wifey material, we both know it.

**** it, i know she wont go to anyone else why am i trippin?

nahtanoj, you da man I'm puttin an end to this jelously right now!

Looks like my butt is happy again, just got off the phone with her talked for an hour and a half she explained it all we both stuck like glue

appreciate it guys, enjoy the pic
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Old 04-12-2013, 12:11 AM   #14
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If I were you I would request to be present for any more of these extra curricular gatherings man... I'm sorry, and I know you seem rejuvenated by your last post and I'm not trying to cut you down, but this scenario is something I and many other honest non jealous men would have a very hard time accepting.
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Old 04-12-2013, 01:10 AM   #16
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If I were you I would request to be present for any more of these extra curricular gatherings man... I'm sorry, and I know you seem rejuvenated by your last post and I'm not trying to cut you down, but this scenario is something I and many other honest non jealous men would have a very hard time accepting.
I wanted advice and I got it, thats why I came on here and I know its until **** like this happens then im like what am I doing

then she admitts she was wrong and says she led him on and she didnt mean anything by it

you know what I am describing here? It's called bi-polar disorder, hardest situation ive even dealt with in my life.

Do you know what it's like to be head over heals in love and still have to be modest, fair, and rational when its all said and done? Ill give her credit though, this situation has NEVER happened before in our relationship, and today when it did she told me what she was doing and it was nothing serious, which i believe 100%

So, I am very very very sure she didnt mean anything by it but she had her time with another guy tonight and she told me once it started getting ugly she told him to F off its not like that, and I said good I need to beat his and your ass at this point! You should have known you'd hurt my feelings and look stupid, she said I did think about that in the moment and felt like the world was coming down on me because I know i messed up.

So its hard for her to stop herself in the moment but when the time comes when she is offered to hang out longer and take a second step with the guy tonight she then realizes what happened and is like oh **** i screwed up

Thanks for reading. Bet you guys never deal with these types of girls..
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dude your gf will cheat on you get pregnant and you will raise the baby. Come back in a few years and say "damn dude how did you know this was going to happen".

Leave dude.
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She's looking to jump ship and this is her testing the waters while still having the security of knowing she can come back to you. Only a matter of time before she finds something reliable and drops you.

That's just my opinion. Take it with a grain of salt.
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True story.

I would be willing to bet there will be phone calls or texts between the two of them in the very near future. Don't be a sucker.


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She's looking to jump ship and this is her testing the waters while still having the security of knowing she can come back to you. Only a matter of time before she finds something reliable and drops you.

That's just my opinion. Take it with a grain of salt.
First thing I thought. A ride home is never harmless...Pull the same move on her and see how she feels. If she flips out then you know that is a great indicator of what really happened.
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