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Old 04-15-2013, 11:00 PM   #41
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IMO. I've been married for just over 5 years now. Love my wife to death. BUT, if she were to do this, one word, DIVORCE. That being said, I (obviously) agree with most comments here.

Good luck. You'll need it.
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Old 04-16-2013, 03:31 PM   #42
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IMO. I've been married for just over 5 years now. Love my wife to death. BUT, if she were to do this, one word, DIVORCE. That being said, I (obviously) agree with most comments here.

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agreed...

she barely knows the guy who is new to town as you say... who knows his past. the entire scenario = fail

get yourself a girl worth buying jewelry for....
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Old 04-16-2013, 03:45 PM   #43
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she barely knows the guy who is new to town as you say... who knows his past. the entire scenario = fail

get yourself a girl worth buying jewelry for....
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Old 04-16-2013, 03:46 PM   #44
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She stopped talking about him the first day after the situation. Didnt say anything but im sorry it wasnt needed or right to do that and that shes wrong for it

This seems to happen when she needs to get away from her norm and go have fun with people that dont know her as sometimes shes overwhelmed and needs an escape. If they dont know her she seems more comfortable.

Her personality is always meeting new people and mingling anyways. Social butterfly but gets hurt easily when she brings people close. Defiently the ex bf gave her that. We both agreed that we need eachother and will work on our individual issues

This isnt a common thing or her cheating on ber behalf, from my perspective but i am sure as hell going to treat it as such

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Old 04-16-2013, 03:51 PM   #45
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Old 04-16-2013, 04:14 PM   #46
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Not at all. Shes all i need. Same on her side of things. Were both committed to ea. Other

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Old 04-16-2013, 04:21 PM   #47
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ea.Other? ...Sorry but I had to comment, "EACHOTHER." Grammar today is atrocious
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Old 04-18-2013, 11:02 AM   #48
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OP, are you boring her?
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Old 04-18-2013, 11:11 AM   #49
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Relationships like this are crazy to me. If I was with what I thought to be the love of my life and she went and did some sh1t like this I'd be gone.
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Old 04-18-2013, 12:32 PM   #50
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The situation difference is shes is committed to me and we both would never cheat and we both know if one or the other did, she would excpect the truth from me and i would expect the truth from her

We both would keep it real about who we cheated with etc. We are both upfront and honest about stuff to other people and eachother. Shes will tell you how it is even if it hurts you, she will tell me how it is even if it hurts me

And we both have no interest in this

It was a simple 'im going to meet with him and have a social chat, no more' and this guy thought my girl was easy

She tells me everything. She had no intentions of cheating i was telling her at the time i gotta run an errend so she took that as i got some time to chill

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Old 04-18-2013, 12:54 PM   #51
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However, it did hurt my feelings and she saw that

If this repeats then ill know what to do

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Old 04-18-2013, 02:46 PM   #52
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The situation difference is shes is committed to me and we both would never cheat and we both know if one or the other did, she would excpect the truth from me and i would expect the truth from her

We both would keep it real about who we cheated with etc. We are both upfront and honest about stuff to other people and eachother. Shes will tell you how it is even if it hurts you, she will tell me how it is even if it hurts me

And we both have no interest in this

It was a simple 'im going to meet with him and have a social chat, no more' and this guy thought my girl was easy

She tells me everything. She had no intentions of cheating i was telling her at the time i gotta run an errend so she took that as i got some time to chill

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I hate to burst your bubble (and sound like an ass in the process) but no one is ever that honest about cheating. "Oh hi I am going to go bang this other guy now. See you later hugs and kisses with a side of herps." No if she cheated she is either A: going to regret it then hide it to not lose you OR B: she does and then leaves you for the better guy with no fvcks to give. There is no inbetween. Odds are if and by some remote chance when she is honest it will be well in to the illicit affair. Just hope and pray she found someone clean and had the decency to not pass anything on to you.

Again sorry if I come off as an ass I've been down this road all to often personally and I refuse to let someone else be as dellusional as I was back then.
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Old 04-18-2013, 02:57 PM   #53
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The situation difference is shes is committed to me and we both would never cheat and we both know if one or the other did, she would excpect the truth from me and i would expect the truth from her

We both would keep it real about who we cheated with etc. We are both upfront and honest about stuff to other people and eachother. Shes will tell you how it is even if it hurts you, she will tell me how it is even if it hurts me

And we both have no interest in this

It was a simple 'im going to meet with him and have a social chat, no more' and this guy thought my girl was easy

She tells me everything. She had no intentions of cheating i was telling her at the time i gotta run an errend so she took that as i got some time to chill

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She fuucked up. No commited girl does some sh1t like this. She's a waste of time. Maybe it's just me but I don't put up with sh1t like this.
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Old 04-18-2013, 03:39 PM   #56
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She is not hot enough to put up with something like this. There, I said it.
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OP have you ever been cheated on? or cheated
If he has he didn't learn from it, or is ignoring the giant warning signs of repeated behavior OR there is more to the story then we know.

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She fuucked up. No commited girl does some sh1t like this. She's a waste of time. Maybe it's just me but I don't put up with sh1t like this.
It's not just you, I hope I never get warning signs with the current girl or I will be looking for another. I'm not looking to waste my time like that anymore.
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Old 04-18-2013, 04:36 PM   #58
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So she chilled at the kiosk from 5pm till he got off at 9. Thats 4 hours of flirting and game laying and then had drinks. He hit for sure and it wont be the last time either. Run, no commited woman behaves that way. She is still in her college party girl mode.
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So she chilled at the kiosk from 5pm till he got off at 9. Thats 4 hours of flirting and game laying and then had drinks. He hit for sure and it wont be the last time either. Run, no commited woman behaves that way. She is still in her college party girl mode.
Damn 4 hours of flirting? when you put it in that perspective "ain no one got time fo dat."

How has she been acting as of late OP? Any changes in scheduling/behavior?
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Dude its like your not reading all the bad stuff being said, she banged that dude. And if she didn't. Your girl gave a stranger a ride home. Wtf.....**** that she testing waters, the more your ok with it the more she will do it. Need to put her in her place now if you wanna keep it to yourself, and as said before she does look trashy and what happened isn't surprising

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