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Old 05-13-2013, 12:34 AM   #41
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Old 05-13-2013, 12:37 AM   #42
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fayraree what is your ****ing problem? where in anything I've said gave you the impression I would allow you to amuse yourself at my expense? only ****** in here is you at teh moment
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Old 05-13-2013, 12:38 AM   #43
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Old 05-13-2013, 12:40 AM   #44
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i live in canada right now, and yes my house is a igloo.
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It was a hot summer day and I was in my workout room benching 1200 pounds. My abs were flexing and girls within a 10-mile radius were getting wet. Once I was done with my daily 32-hour workout I called one of the bitches I know, Jessica. She is really ****ing hot and looks like a supermodel. So I got into my Lamborghini Gallardo and revved it up to 40,000 RPM (this is an Italian import with special engine system). I got onto the freeway near my house and threw it into 8th gear, I hit about 600 mph and I could hear the sonic boom as I broke the sound barrier. As I was flooring it on the freeway like a badass, Jessica called me and said she wanted me to **** her. So be it.

I came to a full stop from 700 mph in front of her house. These Ferraris have top-notch brakes, you know. So she gets out of the house and walks up to my Bugatti and starts eyeballing my dick. I could tell she was staring at it because when I looked at her I noticed she was looking at my dick. Booya.

Flash forward 10 minutes later. My 30-inch dick is going inside of her pussy, hitting them walls. I'm holding her entire body up with my left pinky as I'm screwing her and she has 30,000 orgasms. She looks me in the eyes and she says **** me harder, V-TEC just kicked in, yo. I blow my load so hard she falls off my dick. There had to have been about two gallons of cum everywhere. People say I cum like a porn star and I wouldn't disagree with them.

I throw her a towel so she can clean herself up then I do a triple back flip into my Maserati and drive home.
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Old 05-13-2013, 01:11 AM   #46
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Old 05-13-2013, 01:32 AM   #47
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what do u like to do for fun? are u in good shape? athletic? i'd say sell everything except the m3 and the house and use the money to go to paramedic school. or sell everything and join the military? open up a cross-fit gym?
To own an m3, a house and probably save ~1000/mo working as a paramedic would be pretty legit. Thats enough for at least two out-of-country trips and a few fun weekend getaways every year.

To put it in perspecitve (in my mid 20s)...i make a living by staring at excel for 10hrs/day, sometimes 6 days/week, with no overtime, and save by living with my parents. All this just so I can hopefully get into a small house in a low-middle class neighborhood nearby...and only then can I think about upgrading from an 11yr old car.

OP, if you dont go to trade school, ill find where you live, buy the house next door and buy a lambo..just to rub it in that youre being a little b1tch who doesnt have what it takes to earn a man's salary.

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Old 05-13-2013, 01:33 AM   #48
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your friend makes $25 an hour and bought a 2009 GTR?
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Old 05-13-2013, 01:36 AM   #49
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Old 05-13-2013, 02:49 AM   #50
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Eric my boy, I like the genuineness of your post - and I do hope u take my advice seriously.

Although you haven't mentioned whether your toys are financed - I am guessing they are - and therefore you are being squeezed for cash and that's part of the reason you are feeling down

My strong suggestion is you keep the m3 and your favourite bike -
Sell the rest - you don't need them (nor the insurance payments, etc)

It is natural to compare yourself to you peers - but like others said - it will only get you down- if you want to compare - compare yourself to those who are doing a lot worse than you - that will make you value what you have

Cut out all the useless expenditure in your life (although it seems you are otherwise very gd with your money - only the toys are expensive)

Give me your thoughts on what I have said buddy ...


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Old 05-13-2013, 04:03 AM   #51
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1. Stop giving a damn about what anyone else does.
2. Who has "enemies" at 27? You sound like Sheldon Cooper.
3. Sit down and decide what's really important to you. Make a plan.
4. Execute said plan.
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What up E46 fanatics, Dont really post much on here, but Im a long time lurker. I know I most likely wont get any reply's but figure'd it worth a try.

Im 27 and do fairly well for myself (all things considered)
I live alone in my own home, small modest 3 bedroom 1 bath house, with 2 HUGE shops/garages out back.
I have a 02 active autowerks supercharged M3, an 02 325ci "m3 clone" and a ford ranger track. Also I have a 250F dirtbike and a 2005 R6 streetbike.

I have no help or assistance from anyone, Like I said above I live alone so unlike most 27 year olds I do not have a second income from a spouse to help me out.
I never went to college only have just a High School diploma and my job is EXTREMELY low end, as in most days after tips I barely break the $7.85 hour minimum wage in ohio.
ANYHOW MY POINT IS:
Most of my friends are approching 30 years old now and most have really begun hitting there stride Financially and me Im really really struggling and losing ground to them monthly it seems. One of my "enemies" from our teenage years just landed a $25 per hour job at Dupont (factory work) 6 months ago, an he just Saturday night picked up a 2009 Black GTR. He also never went to college.\

Most all my friends I've grown up with have a family of there own now and live in $150k.-$200k homes, the ones who are still single and living alone pick up $65k. nissan GTR'S and such.............as for me Im alone, have no life outside of work 45 hours a week, paying monthly bills and mortgage payments, although my credit is outstanding and I've been at my current job for 7 years I am begining to really hate my life and what it has become, and as much as I dearly love my two BMW's and my motorcycle's I always wonder what it is exactly that Im trying to prove by owning them, and to who Im trying to prove it.
I'm out, I gotta work a 12 hour shift tomorrow
Eric, I see where you're coming from. Here are a few tips:

1. Actively try to think positive. Focus on what you do have. Property like yours costs close to half a million around here. Your house has major potential. It's easier and cheaper to make a small house cool. The garages in the back are an opportunity waiting to be exploited if you want to make more money (for example: the guys in their GTR's will need a ramp to get little rocks out of their brake calipers constantly, and cleaning the underside of their vehicles is also needed regularly for these vehicles.....since you're in rural area)

2. Do you really need 3 cars and 2 bikes? An M3 and an R6 would do it for me, seriously. Selling the other ones would free up some cash for many other great things.

3. Stop comparing yourself to other people. There will always be someone with something more/better. Even if you drive around in a Veyron. It's pointless.

4. Find a girl.
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Old 05-13-2013, 05:10 AM   #53
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What up E46 fanatics, Dont really post much on here, but Im a long time lurker. I know I most likely wont get any reply's but figure'd it worth a try.

Im 27 and do fairly well for myself (all things considered)
I live alone in my own home, small modest 3 bedroom 1 bath house, with 2 HUGE shops/garages out back.
I have a 02 active autowerks supercharged M3, an 02 325ci "m3 clone" and a ford ranger track. Also I have a 250F dirtbike and a 2005 R6 streetbike.

I have no help or assistance from anyone, Like I said above I live alone so unlike most 27 year olds I do not have a second income from a spouse to help me out.
I never went to college only have just a High School diploma and my job is EXTREMELY low end, as in most days after tips I barely break the $7.85 hour minimum wage in ohio.
ANYHOW MY POINT IS:
Most of my friends are approching 30 years old now and most have really begun hitting there stride Financially and me Im really really struggling and losing ground to them monthly it seems. One of my "enemies" from our teenage years just landed a $25 per hour job at Dupont (factory work) 6 months ago, an he just Saturday night picked up a 2009 Black GTR. He also never went to college.\

Most all my friends I've grown up with have a family of there own now and live in $150k.-$200k homes, the ones who are still single and living alone pick up $65k. nissan GTR'S and such.............as for me Im alone, have no life outside of work 45 hours a week, paying monthly bills and mortgage payments, although my credit is outstanding and I've been at my current job for 7 years I am begining to really hate my life and what it has become, and as much as I dearly love my two BMW's and my motorcycle's I always wonder what it is exactly that Im trying to prove by owning them, and to who Im trying to prove it.
I'm out, I gotta work a 12 hour shift tomorrow
Eric, I'm your same age, also single, live alone, no outside help, etc. So, from someone who's at a similar point in that regard, here's my advice:

1. Have you ever heard the phrase, "the things you own end up owning you?" That, in my opinion, is your problem. You've accumulated a BUNCH of stuff, all of which you expected to make you happy, and none of which is actually making you happy. Great, you have a supercharged M3, but someone who pulls up in a GTR messes with your head. From a purely mental standpoint, you need to get rid of stuff and work on personal development - pick up a hobby, start a business, whatever, just work on YOU and not STUFF.

2. I didn't want to put this first, but let me echo everyone's thoughts - the idea that you're making minimum wage and have three cars and two houses is insanity. I make roughly double what your "enemy" makes, and I don't even own a car (granted, I live in a downtown area and don't need one, but I could easily pull the "I'm a young guy and a car is my identity" thing.) Even at $50/hr, a GT-R is STUPID.

3. In real terms, I say consolidate to one automobile and one motorcycle at most. If you can stand going down to just one automobile, do it. I'd suggest the Ranger and specifically not the SC M3, but that's just me. Since you have the large shops, perhaps pick up a CHEAP project car - a Beetle or something with abundant, cheap parts. If you have the mechanical ability to work on your own cars, there's no reason you couldn't get some training (with the freed up income from fewer vehicles) and go to work as a mechanic or something. Have that car be your project. It'll occupy your time and perhaps give you training for a future occupation.

There's nothing wrong with your approach on entertainment/phone (it's mostly a waste of money anyway.) Stay frugal, but allow yourself to spend on things experiential - friends, self-improvement, etc.

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Old 05-13-2013, 06:39 AM   #54
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This is what happens after you get what you want... You don't want it anymore. It's funny... My first thought after reading your post was that you had it pretty much together to have all that AND a house at 27 years old. It took me until I was 30 before I could buy one.

I'd echo what others say... Sell one of the cars and take a trip to Jamaica and go to Hedonism II... Get laid, come back and look for a woman. Now... A woman is either going to make things better... Or make you wish you were back where you are now... So don't rub that lamp unless you are 100% sure you want the smoke to come out!

As far as a job... Either go back to school now or, if you are personable enough... Get a job in sales. Any job out there comes down to Sales, Service or a Talent.... What do you have?

Everyone needs to keep growing. So... Do it. Sell a car and take a vacation to an area you may want to move to... Make it a working vacation... There's all sorts of stuff you can do.

But one thing you should NOT do! Compare yourself to a jacka$$ that buys a GTR. After he wraps it around an oak tree and gets out of the hospital... He will want to be like you!
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Like others have said, dont get involved in comparing yourself with others. There will always be someone out there better than you at something. Just focus on doing the best you can yourself. If that means learning a trade, becoming an emt or firefighter, so be it. Just work hard to do the best you can there.

I dont think you need so many toys. You shouldnt be in a position where you will be in trouble if you lose your job.

Also, I am 29 and still in school. I am one of the few left in my group of friends who is still amassing debt each year without work.
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Old 05-13-2013, 07:39 AM   #56
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If I were you I would sell the M3 and the bike immediately. I would find a trade school and register and go after work, around here they have pretty flexible scheduling. Go for something in demand like hvac, or something along those lines. Increase your quality of life, buy some furniture, a TV and a computer. Get a roommate, idk what rent is around you but that extra income should help you a lot. At this point in your life you are literally working for your cars, a depreciating asset.


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Eric, I'm your same age, also single, live alone, no outside help, etc. So, from someone who's at a similar point in that regard, here's my advice:

1. Have you ever heard the phrase, "the things you own end up owning you?" That, in my opinion, is your problem. You've accumulated a BUNCH of stuff, all of which you expected to make you happy, and none of which is actually making you happy. Great, you have a supercharged M3, but someone who pulls up in a GTR messes with your head. From a purely mental standpoint, you need to get rid of stuff and work on personal development - pick up a hobby, start a business, whatever, just work on YOU and not STUFF.

2. I didn't want to put this first, but let me echo everyone's thoughts - the idea that you're making minimum wage and have three cars and two houses is insanity. I make roughly double what your "enemy" makes, and I don't even own a car (granted, I live in a downtown area and don't need one, but I could easily pull the "I'm a young guy and a car is my identity" thing.) Even at $50/hr, a GT-R is STUPID.

3. In real terms, I say consolidate to one automobile and one motorcycle at most. If you can stand going down to just one automobile, do it. I'd suggest the Ranger and specifically not the SC M3, but that's just me. Since you have the large shops, perhaps pick up a CHEAP project car - a Beetle or something with abundant, cheap parts. If you have the mechanical ability to work on your own cars, there's no reason you couldn't get some training (with the freed up income from fewer vehicles) and go to work as a mechanic or something. Have that car be your project. It'll occupy your time and perhaps give you training for a future occupation.

There's nothing wrong with your approach on entertainment/phone (it's mostly a waste of money anyway.) Stay frugal, but allow yourself to spend on things experiential - friends, self-improvement, etc.

And STOP trying to prove things to people with possessions.


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Making $7.85 an hour at 27?
Way past the time to take the bull by the horns.

Can you work as a helper for a plumber, carpenter or the like to get experience, and make yourself indespensible to your employer?

If not, and, and without a support network, I strongly suggest that you join the military, learn a trade, stay in long enough to get education assistance.

Best of luck with the first step to a fulfilling life.
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Making $7.85 an hour at 27?
Way past the time to take the bull by the horns.

Can you work as a helper for a plumber, carpenter or the like to get experience, and make yourself indespensible to your employer?

If not, and, and without a support network, I strongly suggest that you join the military, learn a trade, stay in long enough to get education assistance.

Best of luck with the first step to a fulfilling life.
The Army stopped going the whole college thing. Opt for the USAF, USMC, USCG, or US Navy.

I'm in the same boat, OP. I make $18 an hour, I'm miserable at my job, I struggle to afford to live (I'll be tapping into the savings account this month to pay rent), and I don't have any motivation to do anything with my life. You'd think that, by being miserable, I'd want to change. I DO want to change, but I can't find the OOMPH to get it done. I don't know what to do or how to do it.

Okay. I lied a little bit. I'm opting for a job at a local technology company (data management, server maintenance, etc.) starting at what I make now (meaning the only way to go is UP!).

And making $25 an hour and buying a GT-R isn't totally unrealistic, especially if he saved a hefty amount for a down payment. Granted, it's probably his only car and he has to skip meals sometimes, but it's very possible.
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